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I went into physical therapy the other day and immediately I noticed this attractive young woman sitting on a bench next to a guy that I know who is in a wheelchair. As I walked around I more or less gawked at her; I knew who she was. I'd heard about her from other guys. She is this girl that comes and helps the guy with his physical therapy. She actually ended up helping ME for a while with my therapy and we were introduced and started talking and I straight up asked her if he was her boyfriend. SHE said NO, they are good friends and she is going to school for physically therapy. What I heard from OTHERS HOWEVER who asked him, is that he and she used to date and they are sort of together(whatever that means) she is still in love with him but he isn't interested. I don't know how to take that. As soon as I saw her I got that rare feeling. I'd like to ask her out but I don't want to be some guy she settles for if she is in fact really still in love with him. She definitely must feel something for him to keep coming on her own time and helping him with his therapy regardless of whether she is training to be a PT or not.
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wow thats a tough one guy
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I went into physical therapy the other day and immediately I noticed this attractive young woman sitting on a bench next to a guy that I know who is in a wheelchair. As I walked around I more or less gawked at her; I knew who she was. I'd heard about her from other guys. She is this girl that comes and helps the guy with his physical therapy. She actually ended up helping ME for a while with my therapy and we were introduced and started talking and I straight up asked her if he was her boyfriend. SHE said NO, they are good friends and she is going to school for physically therapy. What I heard from OTHERS HOWEVER who asked him, is that he and she used to date and they are sort of together(whatever that means) she is still in love with him but he isn't interested. I don't know how to take that. As soon as I saw her I got that rare feeling. I'd like to ask her out but I don't want to be some guy she settles for if she is in fact really still in love with him. She definitely must feel something for him to keep coming on her own time and helping him with his therapy regardless of whether she is training to be a PT or not. Rule number one, don't listen to the gossip of others, rarely is it 100% correct. You asked, she answered. Their "information" may be old as the hills. Yeah, she might care for him, as a friend. Lots of people stay friends with their ex's, doesn't mean she's still in love with him. Could be she wants to help AND she needs the experience, simple as that. |
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you asked her and she replied no...ask her out, take the risk....
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you dont cut another guys lunch
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Get A grip and ask her out women appreciate that you have A set of Onions..
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you dont cut another guys lunch |
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you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :)
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pedal to the metal man !! make her forget him !!
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you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :) |
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you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :) Then it's (No soup for you) Next............... |
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you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :) |
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I think you all may be overlooking the obvious questions. Ok the info I see is that she is studying for p.t., the man she comes to help is an ex boyfriend. My next question would be is the ex boyfriends reason for p.t. possibly a permanent disability like partial paralysis? I would say it is obvious she still has love for him of some kind or she wouldn't be helping him and since they were there together they still have an ongoing relationship. Was the ex boyfriend within ear range when she said no they weren't a couple?
I would want to know who broke up with whom and why before going out with someone under these circumstances. Best advise is play it by ear till you know more about her and the situation. But as the saying goes...NO GUTS NO GLORY~ |
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I went into physical therapy the other day and immediately I noticed this attractive young woman sitting on a bench next to a guy that I know who is in a wheelchair. As I walked around I more or less gawked at her; I knew who she was. I'd heard about her from other guys. She is this girl that comes and helps the guy with his physical therapy. She actually ended up helping ME for a while with my therapy and we were introduced and started talking and I straight up asked her if he was her boyfriend. SHE said NO, they are good friends and she is going to school for physically therapy. What I heard from OTHERS HOWEVER who asked him, is that he and she used to date and they are sort of together(whatever that means) she is still in love with him but he isn't interested. I don't know how to take that. As soon as I saw her I got that rare feeling. I'd like to ask her out but I don't want to be some guy she settles for if she is in fact really still in love with him. She definitely must feel something for him to keep coming on her own time and helping him with his therapy regardless of whether she is training to be a PT or not. when considering going after a girl remember 1 thing: Fortune favors the bold  |
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you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :) 
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you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :) i agweee, ive done that too many times cuz it tyakes me too long to remember i have balls and just ask  those who never try always fail
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Edited by
jtitol
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Fri 08/15/08 05:46 AM
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you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :) ASK HER OUT AND ASK ALL THOSE ?s u ask b4   
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It may not be what was said, but rather what was NOT said. When she said "no, we are friends", in her mind she could be saying "no, we are friends but I would like it to be more". I doubt she would finish the sentence outloud to a complete stranger.
What do you have to lose? Try starting a friendship. You should find out pretty quickly what her true feelings are. Don't let your fear of being "rebound dude" get in the way of a potential great relationship. |
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You are thinking about this way to hard dude. The one question that needed to be asked was, and she gave you the green light. Ask her out. She says no, then her loss. But you will never know unless you ask. Go for it.
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Too much thinking about this
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