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Topic: Is it cheating....
JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:34 PM
Let's say a guy is seeing a bi sexual woman. She has sex with another woman, but there are no men involved.

Guys...would you consider that cheating? Or would you just consider it a photo op?

Jules0565's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:35 PM
noway noway

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:36 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Fri 08/15/08 09:36 PM

noway noway


Serious question...lol

Well..except for the photo op part. That was just me kidding around.

merlin2525's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:36 PM
cheating

Etrain's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:38 PM
I'd hit it like a porn star...alittle three is company is always a good idea:tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

s1owhand's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:39 PM
if she's upfront about it and has your blessing
then it's an agreement. presumably you are also
entitled to some fun of some sort as well - it's
only fair!

if it is not fully agreed upon. it is cheating.
the sex of the partner is irrelevant.

a lot of people think they can handle an open or
polyamorous situation. but when it comes right
down to it. very few people can handle it.

msmyka's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:39 PM
If you have to ask, it's probably cheating ohwell

no photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:40 PM
hello no its not cheating i would encourage my wife hah

no photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:41 PM
huh if you don't mind sharing with a women. how long before you start sharing with another man.?huh

Enya's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:41 PM
I'm not a guy....but I say its cheating.
satisfaction should come from 1 mate...
not 2 or more.

Etrain's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:42 PM

huh if you don't mind sharing with a women. how long before you start sharing with another man.?huh

oh...your going to far there!!!sick sick sick

Jules0565's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:45 PM
NO sharing!! noway :tongue:

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:45 PM
Oh why do something like that behind your partners back? Bring him along and enjoy the ride!devil

tngxl65's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:46 PM
If it's sexual and you're partner doesn't know about it and condone it, it's cheating.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:47 PM

Oh why do something like that behind your partners back? Bring him along and enjoy the ride!devil


Fair enough, Whisper.

But what if, at that particular time, you don't feel the " need " to have him there?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:49 PM
Keep in mind, I have been accused of " methodical thinking ", and I always ask the questions that strike me.

I honestly can't say whether I would actually consider it " cheating " since I have never been involved in something like that.

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:51 PM


Oh why do something like that behind your partners back? Bring him along and enjoy the ride!devil


Fair enough, Whisper.

But what if, at that particular time, you don't feel the " need " to have him there?


Well then yes I would have to talk to him about it first. I mean i would want to know if he was out doing another man.

OH hell just stay true to each other. It is only fair. Any other way is just too complicated.

dragonsshadows's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:51 PM
I'd want to know what makes my girlfriend the happiest.
Let her decide. As long as it is occasional, it doesn't bother me.
If the other girl takes over... guess we'll just be best friends then.
If she cheats with a guy, I guess I'm not good enough so we'll just be best friends.
No reason to hate someone over it.

kerbear73's photo
Fri 08/15/08 09:53 PM
I thin if she tries to hide it then it is cheating, but If it is a something for you both to enjoy, then It is consensual.

Syggie's photo
Fri 08/15/08 10:39 PM
As long as I can watch or even better... join in, I say "Go for it!"

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