Thanks for the advice. I was mainly just venting my frustration though. It is pretty self evident what I must do, its just the doing it part that is so difficult for me. Always has been. When I worked at a retail store, it was a little bit easier for me (not that easy though) because I was forced to be in contact with my co-workers daily. Naturally I joked with females and all that stuff. In a class setting, I don't know what it is, but the tension is just higher.

If she likes you, she likes you.
Than she is just waiting for you to ask.


You have to show confidence and be the man and ask to go out for a cup of coffee. So you can get to know her better. What else does she have going for her besides her good looks?
You are only at the stage of skin deep. She could be bi-polar, into witchcraft, psycho. hehe

You can also stack the cards for you before you ask her out. Tease her.. like a big brother would do to his younger sister. Most Importantly, Take SEX out of your mind. It is that SEX frame of mind that woman can smell and blow you out of the water. Once you get a brush or some kind of physical touching, you know she likes you... and you can build up to the next level.

Yeah, I looked at your profile, and I am NOT gay.

Looks like you already caught one "big fish", who's to say you couldn't catch another.

Cast that line, bro!

Thats good. Sounds like something Doctor Phil would say.

i absolutely disagree! never go in not thinking about sex! sex is your bio-motivational-speaker, if you really think she is hot and you want her then a lil "no" will not stop you. in fact women, when in this situations, say no to dates just to see if you will give up so easy.

we all want to be wanted

I have someone I like in a college class of mine, but all I ever can think of to say is "howd you do on that test?" or " hey, how are you?" Short little blurbs of thought, without ever really starting up a conversation. She seems to favor the chair next to mine or in the same general location, even if I change places. Dang I feel like I am in middle school again. lol To me it is so intimidating when a bunch of other people are around that could listen in on my game (or lack there of) I need to go in there plastered sometime I think.

Its funny, cuz some of this stuff Hang-low is saying sounds just like it came from this book called "how to succeed with women" I read it like three times (probably shouldn't have admitted that on here though lol)

ok try this on her....



"If i had a nickle for every woman that i've seen as beautiful as you......well i'd only have a nickle!"

That's great... How Has "succeed with women" worked out for you and Hang_low?