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Topic: How Do You Know....
adirtygirl's photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:15 AM
You know when the guy says he will poke his eyeballs out so he can no longer look at any other women, when he cuts off extremedies
so they will not cheat, they throw away their cell phones so they can not talk to other women and last but not least they lock themselves in the house and all they do is cook for you clean for you and do whatever it is that makes you happy....

Thats when you know a guy is in love:heart: :heart: :heart:


Wait I think thats what I want to do to most the guys I dateoops oops oops oops

Somethingsassy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:20 AM
If you have to post the question - then he's not - ever been in love - you will know. The sweaty palms, butterflies in your tummy, the heady giddy feelings that are just for him. You will know!

AzgirlinMO's photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:28 AM
My opinion .. of course. I would say you would know when you can run around the house w/ no make up hair all in a frazzle and he still thinks you are the most beautiful woman on the earth....and shows it. For me.....its the LITTLE THINGS...calls just becuz, flowers for no reason, spends more time w/ you than w/ the guys just cuz he wants to..things of that nature. :)

Jill298's photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:28 AM

The same way you know if a girl is really in love with you.
which is... how?

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Sun 11/02/08 10:47 AM


Yes others always see it before you do the way a man looks at a woman when he thinks no one else is noticing can tell alot


Sigh......that only happens in fairy tales, right?


I would not know how gay men look at eachother LOL

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Sun 11/02/08 03:08 PM



Yes others always see it before you do the way a man looks at a woman when he thinks no one else is noticing can tell alot


Sigh......that only happens in fairy tales, right?


I would not know how gay men look at eachother LOL


??? I didn't quite get that one? Fairy tales have gay men in them?

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Sun 11/02/08 06:27 PM




Yes others always see it before you do the way a man looks at a woman when he thinks no one else is noticing can tell alot


Sigh......that only happens in fairy tales, right?


I would not know how gay men look at eachother LOL


??? I didn't quite get that one? Fairy tales have gay men in them?
LOL "fairy"= "gay"

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Sun 11/02/08 06:29 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh.......BWAHAHAHAHAHA.....sometimes I just don't get it...haha

no photo
Sun 11/02/08 06:43 PM

A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?


I'm actually pretty transparent on this one. If I start writing her notes -- on paper -- that's the real thing.


Fade2Black's photo
Sun 11/02/08 06:46 PM

If you have to post the question - then he's not - ever been in love - you will know. The sweaty palms, butterflies in your tummy, the heady giddy feelings that are just for him. You will know!



that would answer if YOU are in love with HIM .. she wants to know how to tell if HE is in love with YOU ..

and I had to think about this .. cuz I've had guys in love with me who I did not have mutual feelings for ..

If you realize it then it becomes a burden because you don't want to hurt themoops

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 11/02/08 06:46 PM


A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?


I'm actually pretty transparent on this one. If I start writing her notes -- on paper -- that's the real thing.





awwwwwwwwwwww people still DO that? what about email? lol

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 11/02/08 06:47 PM
Please don't touch my phone,

noway noway explode grumble laugh

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Sun 11/02/08 06:48 PM



A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?


I'm actually pretty transparent on this one. If I start writing her notes -- on paper -- that's the real thing.





awwwwwwwwwwww people still DO that? what about email? lol


Sure, I e-mail everybody -- but someone I really like gets writing on paper! Or they used to, anyway....

shades

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 11/02/08 06:55 PM




A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?


I'm actually pretty transparent on this one. If I start writing her notes -- on paper -- that's the real thing.





awwwwwwwwwwww people still DO that? what about email? lol


Sure, I e-mail everybody -- but someone I really like gets writing on paper! Or they used to, anyway....

shades



You are right. One of the guys that I actually met on here, from NYC .. had started sending me notes in the mail. Gifts. Stuff like that. He was totally in love with me and I broke his heart. I really didn't think he was in as deep as he said. I guess I didn't take him seriously.

He also became a stalker though. Pretty scary stuff.

tundraguy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 06:55 PM


When he takes out the trash without being asked. when he turns off the television so he can go shopping with you, when he helps with the house work, when he puts the toilet seat down, when he cancels his plans to go with your plans, when he accepts the children you have from a previous relationship as his own, when he writes poetry to you (no matter how bad and cheesey) when he continues to suprise you even after a year in the relationship, when he looks you in the eye with tears in his own and says you have nade him the happiest man in the world, when he gives you the last bit of chocolate, when he cooks for you, when he holds you and kisses you passionately and does not make love to you when he calls you everyday on his lunch break, when he understands why you are crying for no reason and comforts you,
when he shows his love to you not just say the words. Anyone can say the words but it is in his actions not his words when you can tell a man loves you.



Wow, that's pretty deep! Hope I find a guy to do all that ;o)


i did all those things. things can still go awry eveen when true love is there

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 11/02/08 07:01 PM

when he does every thing you say and turns his back to his freinds.scared

That isn't love that is neurotic dependency.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 11/02/08 07:27 PM
You know someone loves you when they want to share their life with you more than they want to be the center of their own universe. They still have interests and opinions and don't always agree with you or make you the Princess but how you feel and that you are safe, provided for, and and realatively happy is equal for those desires for themself.

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