Topic: Meeting Women In Bars And Clubs
SweetLips83's photo
Sun 11/30/08 08:57 AM
Ok This is where I need help lol i must confess i suck at meeting women in bars cause i just go blank, any of you women on here any sugeestions, i know that pick up lines dont work im great at conversation its just starting them thats the problem..please write bk soon im out in 3 hours

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:01 AM
I have pen & paper ready for this one

Holly4459's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:02 AM

I have pen & paper ready for this one



smooched :heart: Pats!!!


shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:03 AM
I'm tellin ya, I think bar's and club's are way better than these place's. You can find out soooooo much more about a person. Pick up line's don't work for anyone. Be YOURSELF! is allway's #1.

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Sun 11/30/08 09:05 AM
I have to say bars and clubs are not the place to meet people. Sorry if you dont like that answer. I go to relax and have fun with the girls- not to get picked up. Just my opinion..

TJN's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:05 AM
ok get your pens ready



you walk up to them grab them on ther butt
oh wait thats how i got slapped and kicked out of the club never mind

celtic_kitten's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:05 AM

I'm tellin ya, I think bar's and club's are way better than these place's. You can find out soooooo much more about a person. Pick up line's don't work for anyone. Be YOURSELF! is allway's #1.


I agree with the be yourself statement and that pick-up lines NEVER work... but sometimes depending on the personality type I think the internet might work better for some people

3oh3's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:06 AM
You: "Would you like to dance?"

Her:(looks at you up and down) "No thank you."

You: "Sorry, you must've misunderstood me. I said: you look fat in those pants!"

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Sun 11/30/08 09:07 AM
drink more

the more you drink the more attractive you'll be

SweetLips83's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:09 AM

drink more

the more you drink the more attractive you'll be

I think u mean the more i drink the more attractive she will be lol

SweetLips83's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:10 AM

I have to say bars and clubs are not the place to meet people. Sorry if you dont like that answer. I go to relax and have fun with the girls- not to get picked up. Just my opinion..

I must admit i don't usually try talking to women and bars and clubs for the exact reason u just said but im sure sum of them want to be talked to even if its just for tlakings sake i dont do it hoping to get somewhere i just do it coz its fun

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Sun 11/30/08 09:14 AM
i want to know why nobody ever takes any intrest in me. i just be myself and that dosent seem to work. it seems im just good for friends or nothing. can anybody help me out?

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Sun 11/30/08 09:14 AM


I have to say bars and clubs are not the place to meet people. Sorry if you dont like that answer. I go to relax and have fun with the girls- not to get picked up. Just my opinion..

I must admit i don't usually try talking to women and bars and clubs for the exact reason u just said but im sure sum of them want to be talked to even if its just for tlakings sake i dont do it hoping to get somewhere i just do it coz its fun


I'm not saying I wouldnt talk to people- just dont appreciate getting 'picked up'. You have a better chance just casually chatting and then if you get a number great..hope that makes sense and helps

SweetLips83's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:16 AM
actually that makes perfect sense, thanks hun :)

SweetLips83's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:17 AM

i want to know why nobody ever takes any intrest in me. i just be myself and that dosent seem to work. it seems im just good for friends or nothing. can anybody help me out?


do you flirt?

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Sun 11/30/08 09:18 AM
depends on what you are looking for....

do I want to spend a night with someone I met in a bar?
Maybe

do I want to spend the rest of my life with someone I met in a bar?
Probably not.....unless we are gonna stay drunk all the time...

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Sun 11/30/08 09:21 AM
Be direct. Let her know you're focused on her. Girls love that. Let her party, do what she's doing, watch her having a good time, but keep YOUR focus. Girls like to feel you're looking out for them, but the key word is FOCUS.

SweetLips83's photo
Sun 11/30/08 09:25 AM

Be direct. Let her know you're focused on her. Girls love that. Let her party, do what she's doing, watch her having a good time, but keep YOUR focus. Girls like to feel you're looking out for them, but the key word is FOCUS.

tell me more this is sounding good

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Sun 11/30/08 09:49 AM


Be direct. Let her know you're focused on her. Girls love that. Let her party, do what she's doing, watch her having a good time, but keep YOUR focus. Girls like to feel you're looking out for them, but the key word is FOCUS.

tell me more this is sounding good


The girls I've successfully garnered an interest from, I was light, not overbearing or too serious, I set myself apart from the rest of the crowd, and by the end of the night, I let her know, again, that is was she I was interested in. Using humor can be great too, but don't overdo it on the talking.. allow the subtler communication and humor take the interaction.. It almost happens on its own.

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Sun 11/30/08 10:09 AM
I don't think I've ever met a man in a bar that I've actually wanted to date.