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Topic: damnit all i really want to know
Lfer's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:41 PM
is what being treated right means, honestly. all the past "men" or should i say boys i've dated wanted only one thing from me. a good time. And sure theres some girls out there who are willing to give that out but honey i am not one of them. i used to be yeah but i was in a bad place in my life. now i've changed and i guess word gets around to guys because i do far from that.

what the hellll ?!@??!?!

brokenheart

hgraham88's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:44 PM
I hear ya, it sucks because u r stuck with that label forever people I haven't seen in years still say things bad about me when I was down in the bottle

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:46 PM

is what being treated right means, honestly. all the past "men" or should i say boys i've dated wanted only one thing from me. a good time. And sure theres some girls out there who are willing to give that out but honey i am not one of them. i used to be yeah but i was in a bad place in my life. now i've changed and i guess word gets around to guys because i do far from that.

what the hellll ?!@??!?!

brokenheart


bigsmile I heard that you wasnt like that anymoreflowerforyou

no photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:48 PM
I'm proud of youflowerforyou

Queene123's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:48 PM
i met a guy on here a month ago, and hes a perfect gentalman, in fact he didnt even try to kiss me or hold my hand, and i question that, as to find out hes not the agressive type and he respects me...that was awsome.. im not used to that but its about time:smile:

misstina2's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:52 PM
my Aunt waited a year before having sex with her husband of 10 years nowflowerforyouI only dream of that kind of love,maybe one day.........

cityblues21's photo
Sun 12/28/08 02:56 PM

i met a guy on here a month ago, and hes a perfect gentalman, in fact he didnt even try to kiss me or hold my hand, and i question that, as to find out hes not the agressive type and he respects me...that was awsome.. im not used to that but its about time:smile:


Definetly a good one... :wink:

justinc1431's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:02 PM
The girl I'm dating now told me upfront that she had a past she wasn't proud of. I didn't even let her go into details. I simply told her that we all do stuff that we aren't proud of at some point. Those of us who learn from that and grow from it are much better people for it. You can't live in the past, all that matters is the here and now. I'm thrilled to be with her, and I could care less what happened in the past. All that matters to me is that she knows I'm here now.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:05 PM
Edited by scoundrel on Sun 12/28/08 03:07 PM
I really am a scoundrel.

I respect these similar traits in a woman.

There's a scoundrel-ish side to many ladies, but that doesn't keep me from being a gentleman, nor her from being wholly woman.
If you're embarrassed about your past, or present, then maybe you are avoiding the best future for your real self to grow into.
Know what fits you, and then happiness follows.drinker :banana: devil bigsmile :wink:

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:10 PM
First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.

no photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:10 PM
it all boils down to the old saying...."boys say i love you to have sex and girls have sex to hear i love you"....boys and girls are wired differently! grumble

alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:12 PM

First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.


Whut? What's with "a detachable showerhead?" Am I giving away that I've led a sheltered life again?

Lfer's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:13 PM
pretty muuuch

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:17 PM


First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.


Whut? What's with "a detachable showerhead?" Am I giving away that I've led a sheltered life again?
OH Crap... my fingers got a head of my brain. That shouldn't be in my post. I came back to edit and can't... oops

Bottom line is we male and female decide on how we are going to be treated no one can do that for us.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:18 PM

First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.


I can design a comfort-fit shower head, just for you...as a friend.:wink:

hgraham88's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:19 PM


First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.


Oh yeah Detachable shower heads RULE lol

Whut? What's with "a detachable showerhead?" Am I giving away that I've led a sheltered life again?

Lfer's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:20 PM


First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.


I can design a comfort-fit shower head, just for you...as a friend.:wink:



motowndowntown's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:20 PM
Being treated right means somebody not pushing you into something you don't want to do.

Lfer's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:20 PM
**** i meant to say

spock

no photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:21 PM



First of all I commend anyone that turns their life around. Second I dont' care how young or old you are, everyone... I do mean everyone has a past. Period.
It is up to you to set the bar on what you will put up with and what you won't put up with. By being direct and honest don't waver. Begin as you want to continue.

I know for me a relationship has to start from friendship first and foremost. Sex will be fantastic and great, it will wait till there is a commitment. I bought a detachable showerhead for that. Any man that comes on to me before we are ready for that step and won't take a polite no I am not ready for that next step is gone and out of my life. Period.


Whut? What's with "a detachable showerhead?" Am I giving away that I've led a sheltered life again?
OH Crap... my fingers got a head of my brain. That shouldn't be in my post. I came back to edit and can't... oops

Bottom line is we male and female decide on how we are going to be treated no one can do that for us.




why have a showerhead when you can have the real thing? *inquiring minds want to know* shades

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