Topic: Update
3oh3's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:11 PM
I am sure none of you remember because it was a while ago, but I asked for advice on how to deal with this girl I like. Basically, I am friends with this girl, but I have feelings for her. I asked what I should do about it because I thought that it would probably ruin the friendship. I got mixed responses, but I went ahead and told her how I felt. Well the updated is...she doesn't talk to me anymore. I guess it's not a huge deal, but it's always bad to lose a friend. Now there is this one girl... I have ALWAYS been IN LOVE with her, but there's just one problem: she's engaged. She always flirts with me and it just kills my spirit. Oh man...women these days.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:19 PM
wow that really sucks rocks man. but yeah we've all been there. ya know?

love.. unrequited.

and dude... do you really want my advice about tha engaged girl.. because i might just be a lil insulting.

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:19 PM
Ouch. Sorry to hear about all that. Ha! That is awful that the one chickadee no longer talks to you. That is some silly b/s if you ask me. Maybe she will come around though, who knows. Her loss though!! As for the soon to be married chick; Shame on her for flirting with you! So be it your a cute funny chap no she has no need to be doing that! He he. Best of luck to you though. You will find someone one day that you will be in love and who will TOTALLy be in love with you too, and wow what a thing it will be! Ha ha.

**POOF**

3oh3's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:21 PM

wow that really sucks rocks man. but yeah we've all been there. ya know?

love.. unrequited.

and dude... do you really want my advice about tha engaged girl.. because i might just be a lil insulting.


I don't think I really need advice on that topic. Yeah...pretty sure I am not into fiance stealing anyway.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:22 PM


wow that really sucks rocks man. but yeah we've all been there. ya know?

love.. unrequited.

and dude... do you really want my advice about tha engaged girl.. because i might just be a lil insulting.


I don't think I really need advice on that topic. Yeah...pretty sure I am not into fiance stealing anyway.


good man!!! for a moment there you had me worried about you sugar. :p

3oh3's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:26 PM



wow that really sucks rocks man. but yeah we've all been there. ya know?

love.. unrequited.

and dude... do you really want my advice about tha engaged girl.. because i might just be a lil insulting.


I don't think I really need advice on that topic. Yeah...pretty sure I am not into fiance stealing anyway.


good man!!! for a moment there you had me worried about you sugar. :p


Oh you girls don't need to worry about me. I'm not that crazy =)

rlynne's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:30 PM
well, sucks, but it is what it is I guess....best of luck to you next time around hun

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:36 PM
Sorry guy that it didn't work out. Kind of got to laugh though. Wasn't all that long ago. Guess all things are relative to age and feelings.

Other posters are right telling you to be wise about the engaged girl. Glad you will take the moral high ground there.

They are also right that you will meet someone just right for you and it will be really great someday. I wish I could tell you which day because I know it is really hard waiting.

For some reason I get this really strong feeling that you are going to meet someone through a business meeting with your work and do a LDR for awhile. Oh and by the way when you see her she won't be a brunette at the time but you will laugh your arse off cuz she is a prankster.

Good Luck! Tell me if my intuition is right.

3oh3's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:41 PM

Sorry guy that it didn't work out. Kind of got to laugh though. Wasn't all that long ago. Guess all things are relative to age and feelings.

Other posters are right telling you to be wise about the engaged girl. Glad you will take the moral high ground there.

They are also right that you will meet someone just right for you and it will be really great someday. I wish I could tell you which day because I know it is really hard waiting.

For some reason I get this really strong feeling that you are going to meet someone through a business meeting with your work and do a LDR for awhile. Oh and by the way when you see her she won't be a brunette at the time but you will laugh your arse off cuz she is a prankster.

Good Luck! Tell me if my intuition is right.


Hmm...I really hope you're right. The only thing is that we don't have business meetings, but you never know, I could find a new job, or I guess meet someone that works at one of our sister companies. I hope it comes true!

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:51 PM
Well at least you got it out there. Her loss really. flowerforyou

Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:52 PM

I am sure none of you remember because it was a while ago, but I asked for advice on how to deal with this girl I like. Basically, I am friends with this girl, but I have feelings for her. I asked what I should do about it because I thought that it would probably ruin the friendship. I got mixed responses, but I went ahead and told her how I felt. Well the updated is...she doesn't talk to me anymore. I guess it's not a huge deal, but it's always bad to lose a friend. Now there is this one girl... I have ALWAYS been IN LOVE with her, but there's just one problem: she's engaged. She always flirts with me and it just kills my spirit. Oh man...women these days.


This is starting to sound like a pattern. Your pattern. Neither of the women were really available to you. Are there more?

3oh3's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:54 PM


I am sure none of you remember because it was a while ago, but I asked for advice on how to deal with this girl I like. Basically, I am friends with this girl, but I have feelings for her. I asked what I should do about it because I thought that it would probably ruin the friendship. I got mixed responses, but I went ahead and told her how I felt. Well the updated is...she doesn't talk to me anymore. I guess it's not a huge deal, but it's always bad to lose a friend. Now there is this one girl... I have ALWAYS been IN LOVE with her, but there's just one problem: she's engaged. She always flirts with me and it just kills my spirit. Oh man...women these days.


This is starting to sound like a pattern. Your pattern. Neither of the women were really available to you. Are there more?


No, it's not a pattern. The first one was "available" just not willing. NO, I am NOT infatuated with things I CAN'T HAVE. Thanks, though.

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 01/14/09 07:59 PM
You might want to join some professional organizations then. Just about every job has them. Especially if you read your trade magazines. Maybe a union?

3oh3's photo
Wed 01/14/09 08:11 PM

You might want to join some professional organizations then. Just about every job has them. Especially if you read your trade magazines. Maybe a union?


This is a small enough company, I don't think that's a possibility.