Topic: the chase
DonnieDarko's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:37 PM
games, tag, chasing, mutual interests
you have to wonder if it just might be worth it
im good at games but i guess it would be nice to just have something just work like mutuality

Jess642's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:37 PM
if you're hard to get..... then what's the outcome?

Some sort of game playing crap that has one person in a pretend sense of power over another.... sheesh.... I may go back to the king and queen high school thread...

same thing.

Etrain's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:39 PM


I don't like "the chase" but I do think a little bit of playing "hard to get" is fair for both guys and girls. It shows that the relationship will take a little bit of work and that things won't be handed to either person.


"Hard to get" is a game I won't play. I have better things to waste my time on.

I agree..no hard to get..I like my women....easy:banana: :banana: :banana: be seeing you

transientmind's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:39 PM


Remember the old days when the woman would say no and he'd do it anyway?
They call that rape now.


Ummmm..............which old days?

And do what????
Old days, (don't shoot, I'm only 25) 60's, 70's and 80's; according to books, movies and people who were there... here... then.

Really unrealistic/corny but accessible example: early James Bond. Supposedly, Y-chrom ignoring X-chrom's was some sign of manly gumption, or something.

Never struck me as the gentlemanly thing to do.

Kimberly_V's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:40 PM


I don't like "the chase" but I do think a little bit of playing "hard to get" is fair for both guys and girls. It shows that the relationship will take a little bit of work and that things won't be handed to either person.


"Hard to get" is a game I won't play. I have better things to waste my time on.


You're right. It is still somewhat of a game, but I won't give in to every guy all the time. They have to show they want to be with me and not just use me or play games with my head and emotions. They have to prove they want to be with me for me and not just for a**. Just saying.

DonnieDarko's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:40 PM



I don't like "the chase" but I do think a little bit of playing "hard to get" is fair for both guys and girls. It shows that the relationship will take a little bit of work and that things won't be handed to either person.


"Hard to get" is a game I won't play. I have better things to waste my time on.

I agree..no hard to get..I like my women....easy:banana: :banana: :banana: be seeing you

thats just to simple

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:40 PM
hell im having fun chasing and it sounds you are a little bitter if you ask me. besides whats wrong with a date no strings? If she is what i want i'll chase her ass to the end of the earth or until she gets a restraining order j/k lol.... But really dating is exciting or maybe i have been off the market for so long i am enjoying it for now.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:41 PM
True, a little tease and interest are good for the ego though.

Jess642's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:41 PM



Remember the old days when the woman would say no and he'd do it anyway?
They call that rape now.


Ummmm..............which old days?

And do what????
Old days, (don't shoot, I'm only 25) 60's, 70's and 80's; according to books, movies and people who were there... here... then.

Really unrealistic/corny but accessible example: early James Bond. Supposedly, Y-chrom ignoring X-chrom's was some sign of manly gumption, or something.

Never struck me as the gentlemanly thing to do.



Nice recovery, Jonathon...laugh laugh laugh :wink:


The old grab her and kiss her anyway thing?

hahahaha.... it worked in movies, and to some extent real life.... I suspect people were more in tune with body language, and less in tune with litigation....:wink: laugh

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:42 PM
The only thing I chase is my daughter. At least I know I can CATCH her!

Kimberly_V's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:42 PM
"Anything worth having is difficult to get"

Enough said!

ljcc1964's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:42 PM
There is nothing quite as thrilling as the thrill of the hunt.

If you have given up.....it's your loss....

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:43 PM

There is nothing quite as thrilling as the thrill of the hunt.

If you have given up.....it's your loss....
That's it!........Game's on.

Jess642's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:43 PM
Hahahahaha.... I know why a lot of people are single.....

I think i'll go loiter round the whining threads... you know, the ones that say....."""Why can't I get a date???""""

Etrain's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:44 PM
Shoot...I don't even need to bother...I let the women chase me...WHOOOOO!!!!!:banana: :banana: :banana: be seeing you

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:44 PM

There is nothing quite as thrilling as the thrill of the hunt.

If you have given up.....it's your loss....


i have to agree with this besides if the lady is smokin hot its a lot of fun trying to get her attention!

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:44 PM



I don't like "the chase" but I do think a little bit of playing "hard to get" is fair for both guys and girls. It shows that the relationship will take a little bit of work and that things won't be handed to either person.


"Hard to get" is a game I won't play. I have better things to waste my time on.


You're right. It is still somewhat of a game, but I won't give in to every guy all the time. They have to show they want to be with me and not just use me or play games with my head and emotions. They have to prove they want to be with me for me and not just for a**. Just saying.


So, after he's spent a bunch of time, dumped a bunch of cash, and generally made a fool of himself just to prove he's interested, then maybe you MIGHT consider him?

Nah.

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:45 PM

i WANNA be chased............NOW!!!!!

Use a cane old man!!!laugh :wink: laugh


I WANNA chase you so slow down so I can catch you!
laugh




PilarMargret 's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:48 PM
I prefer the chase to be in cars, through a crowded mall.

Jess642's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:49 PM

I prefer the chase to be in cars, through a crowded mall.


laugh laugh