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Topic: a ponderance
sara89's photo
Mon 02/16/09 06:51 PM
heres something to ponder
is it better to be understood by someone and not be loved, or better to be loved and yet not be understood.i think ihave come to the opinion that someone who loves you understands even if they dont.

is it better to have once been understood, or to never know what you miss? is ignorance truely bliss?
or is ignorance regret?

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 02/16/09 06:54 PM
Nobody understands melaugh


How have you been stranger?flowerforyou

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 02/16/09 06:54 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Mon 02/16/09 06:55 PM
Man...

this chit is deep!spock

Personally...

im just trying to get lucky these days.pitchfork slapheadlaugh

sara89's photo
Mon 02/16/09 06:56 PM
eh. fairly stable, not to shabby.

you?

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 02/16/09 06:56 PM

eh. fairly stable, not to shabby.

you?



I can't complaindrinker

7z3r05's photo
Mon 02/16/09 06:58 PM
ill take love. i have all the time in the world to explain myself. its fairy easy too.

no photo
Mon 02/16/09 06:59 PM
I prefer to wallow in ignorant bliss. noway Seriously, how can you love something you do not understand? In order to truly love and appreciate you need to understand the essence of the object of your affections.

no photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:00 PM
see?

I told you that women think too much

no photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:00 PM
ok that just hurt my head.......engrish..........or even empresh????huh

biggirl123's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:01 PM
The question makes my head hurthuh

no photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:02 PM
I got lost where is that turn for the jersey pike at?

JoeW99's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:06 PM

The question makes my head hurthuh



So will the answer then.

If a person truely understands you and doesn't love you.. then nothing really you can do about it.

If the person loves you but doesn't understand you.. really what you want? So one day when they do understand you and decided they don't like what and who you are, they leave you?

Yes ignorance is bliss, but lying to yourself is still lying. Building a relationship on bad foundations is never a good idea. Once you have found the person that understands you and loves you for you... then you have found what we all are looking for.

Best of luck in that.. flowerforyou

krupa's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:09 PM

heres something to ponder
is it better to be understood by someone and not be loved, or better to be loved and yet not be understood.i think ihave come to the opinion that someone who loves you understands even if they dont.

is it better to have once been understood, or to never know what you miss? is ignorance truely bliss?
or is ignorance regret?



There is no "better than"...there is.....only Love and Understanding.

It is there or it isn't.

Ignorance can be blissful. It leads us blindly to hold someones hand. To happiness or regret.

But, I am only happy when I know the good things in my life...that are right in front of me...are happy.

Time will tell doll.

Only you can answer that question.....

(Great Question!)

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 02/16/09 07:18 PM
Love and understanding should go hand in hand with each other. Being ignorant could never be blissful to me. flowerforyou

nogames39's photo
Mon 02/16/09 08:46 PM

Here is something to ponder:

Is it better to be understood by someone and not to be loved, or is it better to be loved and yet not to be understood. I think I have come to the opinion that someone who loves you understands you, even if they don't.

Is it better to have once been understood, or to never know what you miss? Is ignorance truly a bliss?
Or is ignorance a regret?


Here... I have fixed it for you. You're welcome.
By the way, where did you go to school?

sara89's photo
Mon 02/16/09 09:21 PM


Here is something to ponder:

Is it better to be understood by someone and not to be loved, or is it better to be loved and yet not to be understood. I think I have come to the opinion that someone who loves you understands you, even if they don't.

Is it better to have once been understood, or to never know what you miss? Is ignorance truly a bliss?
Or is ignorance a regret?


Here... I have fixed it for you. You're welcome.
By the way, where did you go to school?


eh, semantics.

school? why? i suppose my grammar is that awful.

nogames39's photo
Tue 02/17/09 10:34 AM
Edited by nogames39 on Tue 02/17/09 10:35 AM
It is just that you seem to look for a values, but you present an image of carelessness.

It is no different than if you were looking for a CEO job,
while wearing a t-shirt with "fnck the corporations" wording on it.

Most people are just stupid. But, they don't think of things like you do. How are you supposing to find your match if you present yourself just like everybody else?

Pink_lady's photo
Tue 02/17/09 10:39 AM
If someone understands u well, but doesnt love u, u could be in a vulnerable position, cos manipulation could follow. On the other hand, if they r good ppl, they could be a valuable friend.

TBRich's photo
Tue 02/17/09 10:41 AM
WTF! Stop thinking so much!

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 02/17/09 10:42 AM
Ignorant bliss without love is definitely less painful.

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