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wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Tue 02/24/09 05:44 PM
Get even....Or hold a grudge?

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Tue 02/24/09 05:45 PM
I can hold a grudge for ever. Not a good idea and I try not to do it anymore,but man o man can I hold a grudge

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Tue 02/24/09 05:48 PM
I can hold a grudge like a champ!!!! BUUUUUT I'm trying to be a grownup and not do that anymore!!!

feelinliketwentyfive Joined Sun 01/04/09 Posts: 15	Tue 02/24/09 05:50 PM
Try not to do either...doesn't do any good

jvlgrl09 Joined Wed 12/31/08 Posts: 309	Tue 02/24/09 05:50 PM
I'm really good at holding a grudge.

KameleonCharm Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 74	Tue 02/24/09 05:51 PM
Depends. I try not to though.

prisoner Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 5129	Tue 02/24/09 05:52 PM
both...be seeing you

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 02/24/09 05:53 PM
It depends on what they did to me. I try to not hold grudges as I have more important and better things in my life to keep in my current memory. But just because I don't like to focus on what someone did to me, does not mean I comepletly forgot about it and will speak to them again.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 02/24/09 05:54 PM
Holding a grudge is like taking a slow acting poison, it just eats at you, not them.

longislandangel Joined Mon 12/29/08 Posts: 2640	Tue 02/24/09 05:55 PM
neither...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 02/24/09 05:55 PM
Get even....Or hold a grudge? Both, but I am trying to turn over a new leaf and be a better more care free person that I have always wanted to be

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Tue 02/24/09 05:55 PM
It depends on what they did to me. I try to not hold grudges as I have more important and better things in my life to keep in my current memory. But just because I don't like to focus on what someone did to me, does not mean I comepletly forgot about it and will speak to them again. Thank you...Well said

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 02/24/09 05:55 PM
i just give them a cleveland steamroller

KimmiM Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 1694	Tue 02/24/09 05:56 PM
Neither. It's a wasted effort. Why spend time thinking about or acting against someone that is obviously not worth it. Life is too short.

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Tue 02/24/09 05:57 PM
Get even....Or hold a grudge? Just walk away and let it go.....then start the bonfire...

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Tue 02/24/09 06:05 PM
Over the years I have learned to be at peace with myself and others. Sure I may get a little angry about things. But I do not hold a grudge or get even. You have to let it go..... move forward not live with it.

Meg8771 Joined Fri 01/16/09 Posts: 5662	Tue 02/24/09 06:07 PM
Neither. I have found through reflection that when I am "done" with you, or in otherwords, I have lost respect for you, I will not look you in the face. That tends to be the beginning of the drifting process. We eventually "drift" away from one another because if I am angry enough to hold a grudge or get even with you, I pretty much will not spend time with you anymore.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Tue 02/24/09 06:08 PM
i just give them a cleveland steamroller being from Ohio I never heard of a Cleveland steamroller till today..

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Tue 02/24/09 06:10 PM
It doesn't pay to hold a grudge. Most of the time the person doesn't even know about it... It could give you an ulcer....

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 02/24/09 06:13 PM
It takes too much energy to hold a grudge. Just let it go.