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| Topic: Liking the girl who just want to sleep with you | |
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What would you do if you were in a friends with benefits relationship but you started to want more from the person than just the sex. Would you just let your emotions go and continue with the FWB or would you confess the feelings and ope that it doesn't hurt what you have with that person. Or what if they knew how you felt and still wanted to continue just being FWB and not going anywhere else.
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What would you do if you were in a friends with benefits relationship but you started to want more from the person than just the sex. Would you just let your emotions go and continue with the FWB or would you confess the feelings and ope that it doesn't hurt what you have with that person. Or what if they knew how you felt and still wanted to continue just being FWB and not going anywhere else. This actually happened to me. Fess up and live with the consequences, whatever they are. You broke the rule so better to be upfront about it. He left btw but hopefully yours will turn out differently. 
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It is a temporary thing bro....nothing more....it is pleasurable and mutually beneficial....don't f**k it up by throwing single sided emotions into it.
If you feel that way.... fine....some things are better left unsaid. If she says that she feels that way about you...THEN procceed. Until then...bite your tongue and give your friend an orgasm. |
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I did that once and I was the one the "fell". He and I were best friends. Then I told him how I felt. It went bad, very very bad. We no longer even talk anymore. It was too uncomfortable for him. He didn't want to lead me on so I lost a friend in the process.
But only you can answer that question. Are you willing to accept the outcome either way it goes? I am glad I did, cause I will not live a lie. I am sad I lost my friend, but still happy with my decision.
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Damn okay two saying fess up okay already did that thats why i asked the second part would you stick with it even if she said she just wants to stay FWB
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been ther done that...I fell and admitted it to him...he said he wasn't ready (we have all heard that) now he calls all the time wanting to be my "Friend" again...I just can't go there again for just that...feelings are always involved even if you don't admit it!
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Damn okay two saying fess up okay already did that thats why i asked the second part would you stick with it even if she said she just wants to stay FWB Not if you want more. You'll get hurt worse than you are already. Trust me on this.
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Edited by
trsmith22
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Sun 03/22/09 03:27 PM
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Damn okay two saying fess up okay already did that thats why i asked the second part would you stick with it even if she said she just wants to stay FWB No..it isn't worth the suffering or the pain If you lay it all out on the line, YOU are the only one that will know how to deal with it. |
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been ther done that...I fell and admitted it to him...he said he wasn't ready (we have all heard that) now he calls all the time wanting to be my "Friend" again...I just can't go there again for just that...feelings are always involved even if you don't admit it! I agree  Mine still calls every now and then. I dedicated a song to him. Lee Ann Womack "Last Call" 
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i don't know what to do never done anything in my life like this and i have gone through a lot
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I've been there as well, best thing to do in any type of relationship is communicate well. I agree with the gal that said not to say anything about it, because it will end if the feeling aren't mutual. If you are the one that is falling for her, just pay attention to what she says and her body language and you will know if she is feeling the same way. Good Luck!
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Can you honestly go on feeling this way and pretending you don't?
Where is the honesty? To yourself and to her? |
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What would you do if you were in a friends with benefits relationship but you started to want more from the person than just the sex. Would you just let your emotions go and continue with the FWB or would you confess the feelings and ope that it doesn't hurt what you have with that person. Or what if they knew how you felt and still wanted to continue just being FWB and not going anywhere else. This actually happened to me. Fess up and live with the consequences, whatever they are. You broke the rule so better to be upfront about it. He left btw but hopefully yours will turn out differently. |
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i can honestly say that if i were in your shoes i'd keep my mouth shut. anytime i've had FWB and they decided they wanted to confess feelings...i was out the door so fast they didn't feel the wind blow.
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