If you were MarrieD & things wern't going soooo well what would it take for you to end it? How much effort would you put into it?

I was married and did put the effort into it, but if the other is not willing like my ex wife. Id give it some time, but at the end and everyone knows this. you will leave unless you don't care about your own life and just want to suffer. Then have at it.

i dont ever want to go thru that again, that was the worst yr 1/2 of my life. i probly wont get married again, life is short and i want to live and laugh the rest of my days...

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm peoples who are addicted to \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\wow...........and not me

i TRIED but him addict4d to pot and internet games.............left little for me.........

HIS LOSS BIG TIME!

My (soon to be) ex had a thing for internet porn & internet relationships. After 7, count them, 7 years of trying all I could to get him to get help for his issues, I finally had enough last June and he moved out. I think the dealbreaker was when he used our wedding photo, cut me out, and sent it to his online shag job. But, I must admit, things seemed to roll downhill when he was slipping out at night and then for days at a time while I was pregnant with our daughter.

I think it is safe to say I am happy with the divorce proceedings...

well. for me the answer is simple. if both partys love the other then there is never a point I call it quits. that said there is a difference in love of a friend and love of a partner in life. if one party is unwilling to continue the compromise that makes up a relationship in a heathy way for both then its at an end.

learning to speak the language of your partner and they yours will always help. going to a counceler can help.

hope that helped and didnt confuse you further.

I put in tons of effort, he put in tons of abuse.It was awful..never again

so sorry to hear that was the case for you who were abused. glad to see you are still out there pitching and not curled up in a corner letting it keep you down.

hurra for you

cheating/or poor comunication

I would do all I could to make the marriage work.The ones that do work for 50 yrs. say that 1 secret to it is working out the bad times.I would leave immediatley if I was abused in any way or if he had a long time affair and he didn't plan to give it up.I know of 2 couples who used counseling and it worked out well for them.Diffrent strokes......

When all she does is sit on her arse all day. Won't get a job, won't help out, makes me clean up after her... it wasn't hard to make the decision. Laziness is an easy way to drive someone away.

self has no guide better than it's own feelings, as there are no sense's of the body, that work without body feeling first???

to first ignore one's own feelings as important, soon later make reality vague and confusious???

no women that heed her own feelings, can be led to think that what does not care does, or what care does not???

I'm getting divorced in 11 days

my ex wife and I had to get divorced. We had an insurmountable religious conflict

I was a Methodist and she was a b*tch

What is your responsibility in the demise of the marriage...???

Will never happen, as I will never marry!!!


Go to the bank on it!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUWcbSWIt94

Hang myself...lucky for you lot I won't be getting married.