Topic: how do you cope with a brokin heart?
jaded_angel's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:29 AM
They were the coward and not willing to own up and tell you the truth you're better off w/o them!! You deserve better :wink:

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:30 AM

They were the coward and not willing to own up and tell you the truth you're better off w/o them!! You deserve better :wink:


aww thank you

bastet126's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:32 AM

sometimes , we cant face the person , but i have always done it in person and left being somesort of friend to them anyways


i guess i should retract a little, i sent the email to put my feelings out there, we did talk later and we still remain friends. i suppose it worked out ok in the end. for now, i'd say go with the captain morgan :tongue: good luck!

DragonFlyTat's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:33 AM
I did mine in person,,,very painful

gobsafun's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:33 AM
The quickest way to get over a woman,,,,,, Is to,,, GET OVER a woman!!!!

jaded_angel's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:33 AM
You're welcome :) it's just cold hearted too I could never do that to someone if I knew them irl if it was an online relationship that's different as it's your means of communication...and yes I have been down the same road as you I hurt for a really long time and then I picked myself up and put up a HUGE wall which took a long time for anyone to break down but at least I got back up which is half the battle flowerforyou

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:34 AM
see it happened yesterday , she said for me to let her have her space and then i did but she did not contact me at all so i sent her a short text , i said hey babe , then she sent me one that said check my email, then she let me have it

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:35 AM

You're welcome :) it's just cold hearted too I could never do that to someone if I knew them irl if it was an online relationship that's different as it's your means of communication...and yes I have been down the same road as you I hurt for a really long time and then I picked myself up and put up a HUGE wall which took a long time for anyone to break down but at least I got back up which is half the battle flowerforyou


yes i to am putting up a gret wall now , im totally done, burnt, dont know if i will even try for a long time

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:36 AM
thank you jaded for the support

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:38 AM
it was online and phone, text, talking everyday, sending snail mail,made plans

no photo
Tue 04/07/09 09:56 AM

Superglue, duct tape, chewing gum, and a band aid!


heavy duty staple gun works for me... you ever wonder why most of us either has been there or done that here on this web site? If we had someone in our lives who we could trust with our hearts we wouldn't be here now would we?

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 10:07 AM
so true

Johncenawlife316's photo
Tue 04/07/09 10:07 AM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Tue 04/07/09 10:08 AM
Reminds me of this movie.. he's just not that into you.

Now day's people do not have the so called balls to step up face to face and say to some one how they truly feel about that person. Instead they probably feel at easy if they just email, facebook or text message you to break up.

Crazy but true and some what easier to deal with on the other party hands so they don't have to feel so bad after doing so, then again maybe they feel bad enough and just can't stand seeing you and breaking your hart etc. So they take an easier way out on breaking the bad news. However no body likes the bad news at all, but every body get's some type of bad news etc.

I never had to deal with a break up or being in a relationship so although I don't know how it feels I can just think of how painful it is.

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 10:12 AM
you would think i would stop trying after three failed marriages and countless relationships that i would just say ok enough is enough but i simply refuse to just give up , maybe draw back a little and think and learn from my mistakes, then try again

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 04/07/09 10:55 AM
Give yourself time

You should be OK

It hurts like a B!tch but the pain goes away

Good luck to you drinker

nickelback9's photo
Tue 04/07/09 06:14 PM
yep it does hurt , like a bee sting stuck in your heart and you cant dig it out , burns but i will be fine its not the first time and wont be the last

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 04/07/09 06:22 PM
Been there ... never underestimate the power of duct tape ... ohwell

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 04/07/09 07:28 PM

Been there ... never underestimate the power of duct tape ... ohwell


Or crazy glue

no photo
Tue 04/07/09 07:32 PM
I think most of us know how to deal with it and how it feels.
We have had it done to us a few times.
We just keep getting up and dusting off the dirt, just to do it all over again.

The email thing sux, the text message is worse.
Sorry it happened to ya though


tessa68's photo
Wed 04/08/09 05:29 AM

I have recently had mine crushed , stepped on, then spit out like yesterdays garbage, when your both in love and then the next day they send you an email saying they cant do it anymore instead of calling you to tell you that really hurts, thats what happened to me! has it happened to you ?


it happened to me for 17 times.....and finally were done!