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then I still say flat out ask her on a date. I would have more respect for a guy that was upfront and honest.
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then I still say flat out ask her on a date. I would have more respect for a guy that was upfront and honest. If the answer is "No", the friendship would be affected, for sure. |
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then I still say flat out ask her on a date. I would have more respect for a guy that was upfront and honest. If the answer is "No", the friendship would be affected, for sure. I think it all depends on how you ask. |
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Edited by
Jill298
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Fri 04/17/09 11:22 AM
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then I still say flat out ask her on a date. I would have more respect for a guy that was upfront and honest. If the answer is "No", the friendship would be affected, for sure. 
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the best advice i received was "take a break from her. don't let her see or hear from you for a long time (6 months). when you do finally see her again, let her see you with an attractive woman. she'll start to think about what she's been missing."
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the best advice i received was "take a break from her. don't let her see or hear from you for a long time (6 months). when you do finally see her again, let her see you with an attractive woman. she'll start to think about what she's been missing." . . . oh yes, this can work. If she is jealous, it could be love |
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the best advice i received was "take a break from her. don't let her see or hear from you for a long time (6 months). when you do finally see her again, let her see you with an attractive woman. she'll start to think about what she's been missing." . . . Ah Drew... bad advice, sorry. That could be the one, and what then... she moves on, gets married, has kids and then suddenly you bump into her again 15 yrs later... only her Husband is an Amateur MMA and weighs 220. You talk, Hubby gets drunk, you laugh, hubby gets drunker and more jealous, she gets up to goto the bathroom... Raging bull confronts me while the rest of "My Boys" are mac'n on girls on the dance floor... soon after the stars clear your looking into the flashlight of an EMT wondering why you have two broken ribs and your old girlfriend's Hubby is in the cop car.... |
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the best advice i received was "take a break from her. don't let her see or hear from you for a long time (6 months). when you do finally see her again, let her see you with an attractive woman. she'll start to think about what she's been missing." . . . oh yes, this can work. If she is jealous, it could be love it doesn't have to be a girlfriend and she doesn't need to be introduced as such. just bringing an attractive female with you shows that you have high value and that other attractive women recognize this. it will up your stature in her mind and spark a bit of competition in her as well. women like men who are liked by women. . . . |
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Or... she coulda not been interested in you in the first place and you wasted 6 months on your plan and not seeing her. You could lose a friendship that way. If one of my friends avoided me for 6 months, I'd be kinda pissed.
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Edited by
therapy30
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Fri 04/17/09 11:38 AM
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then I still say flat out ask her on a date. I would have more respect for a guy that was upfront and honest. If the answer is "No", the friendship would be affected, for sure. I think it all depends on how you ask. right...*cough cough* 
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the best advice i received was "take a break from her. don't let her see or hear from you for a long time (6 months). when you do finally see her again, let her see you with an attractive woman. she'll start to think about what she's been missing." . . . Ah Drew... bad advice, sorry. That could be the one, and what then... she moves on, gets married, has kids and then suddenly you bump into her again 15 yrs later... only her Husband is an Amateur MMA and weighs 220. You talk, Hubby gets drunk, you laugh, hubby gets drunker and more jealous, she gets up to goto the bathroom... Raging bull confronts me while the rest of "My Boys" are mac'n on girls on the dance floor... soon after the stars clear your looking into the flashlight of an EMT wondering why you have two broken ribs and your old girlfriend's Hubby is in the cop car.... if in 6 months she moves on, gets married and has kids, something was already going on on the down low. seriously though, if she moves on quickly, she wasn't that interested. i'm not going to wait and wait and wait for some girl to realize how great i am. (jill, had to put humble on hold again) there is no "the right one for me" in this life. there is "a right one for me" but i don't believe in destined to be together crap. . . . |
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(jill, had to put humble on hold again) Drew- That's good tho. If you're to humble all the time we'll start to think you don't even like yourself 
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I've gotten to a point in my life where I realize I've spent to much time waiting for things to happen for me. I have to go make them happen. I don't want to waste all kinds of time wondering and hoping someone likes me when I could just ask him.
And in Drews scenario- if she moved on in the 6 months you were away, it doesn't mean she didn't like you anyway. It could mean she moved on because she felt you weren't interested so why should she wait? |
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Or... she coulda not been interested in you in the first place and you wasted 6 months on your plan and not seeing her. You could lose a friendship that way. If one of my friends avoided me for 6 months, I'd be kinda pissed. ok..the best way is to express and do it it in a nice way. But, I still believe,there are chances of friendship getting affected. I know,some of you may think the other way but indivual experiences cant be generalised. Either way can happen. |
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Or... she coulda not been interested in you in the first place and you wasted 6 months on your plan and not seeing her. You could lose a friendship that way. If one of my friends avoided me for 6 months, I'd be kinda pissed. ok..the best way is to express and do it it in a nice way. But, I still believe,there are chances of friendship getting affected. I know,some of you may think the other way but indivual experiences cant be generalised. Either way can happen. |
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Plant a HUGE kiss on her, and see what happens.
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the best advice i received was "take a break from her. don't let her see or hear from you for a long time (6 months). when you do finally see her again, let her see you with an attractive woman. she'll start to think about what she's been missing." . . . Ah Drew... bad advice, sorry. That could be the one, and what then... she moves on, gets married, has kids and then suddenly you bump into her again 15 yrs later... only her Husband is an Amateur MMA and weighs 220. You talk, Hubby gets drunk, you laugh, hubby gets drunker and more jealous, she gets up to goto the bathroom... Raging bull confronts me while the rest of "My Boys" are mac'n on girls on the dance floor... soon after the stars clear your looking into the flashlight of an EMT wondering why you have two broken ribs and your old girlfriend's Hubby is in the cop car.... if in 6 months she moves on, gets married and has kids, something was already going on on the down low. seriously though, if she moves on quickly, she wasn't that interested. i'm not going to wait and wait and wait for some girl to realize how great i am. (jill, had to put humble on hold again) there is no "the right one for me" in this life. there is "a right one for me" but i don't believe in destined to be together crap. . . . This is true too... and I was being rather specific, plus there is more to that story... but not now |
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I would think you would be able to tell if there are any real sparks between you and a friend you are romantically interested in.
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I once had a male "friend" who walked up to me, put his arm around my waist, pulled me against him and put the other hand on the crook of my neck, tangling his fingers in my hair as he placed his mouth on mine and laid a kiss on me.
We dated for awhile. I had never thought about him as bf material - but I am glad he did it. |
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you have 3 choices
action reaction inaction the last one is currently getting you nowhere. the second one could take forever meanwhile leaving you in the friend zone and possibly missing out on someone great elsewhere. that only leaves choice number one. you have to do something even if it's wrong. and i know that this is all just hypothetical. . . . |
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