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I don't like talking during the day b/c work is too hectic with meetings, calls, etc. I do enjoy random off the wall texts that make me laugh and vice versa.... I will do the end of the evening call before bed but I don't like my whole evening being on the phone chatting, there's too much to do before bed.... Here being my relaxing release as well as the chores when I get home..  ya mean like this! ((((((((((((((((((((((((((MEW!))))))))))))))))))))))))))  yep that's one way... |
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I like a domineering woman to walk all over the ground I worship as often as possible...
...and when I ask her to "hurt me" and she says "no" the irony makes me want to explode  then if she ignores me for a week...well..that's just icing
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I talk to my girlfriend every time that i can, and she call's me and i call her too, we see each other only once i a week and that suck's, but there's not a thing i can do about that.
i'm the type of girl who likes her space. i can go a few days without hearing from a boyfriend, but it would seem my current boyfriend would like to hear me throughout the course of the day. to compromise i decided to at least call him once a day every night. however, it would seem this is not completely satisfactory. how often do you need to hear from your significant other?  |
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Hahaha. Oh then you wouldn't like me!!! If you and I were dating you would constantly get texts from me saying 'whatcha doing?' and stupid stuff like that. And I'd text you every night saying something like 'sleep tight cutie!' or something of that nature. Just me. im looking s  someone like you
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I like a domineering woman to walk all over the ground I worship as often as possible... ...and when I ask her to "hurt me" and she says "no" the irony makes me want to explode then if she ignores me for a week...well..that's just icing well that's .. um.. different... |
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YES, I THINK SHE'S BEING UNREASONABLE FROM THE FACT THAT HE MAY NOT WANT ALL THIS SPACE BETWEEN THEM, AFTERALL SHE IS HIS GIRLFRIEND!? WHAT'S A MARRIAGE EVER GOING TO BE LIKE? DAYS SPENT AWAY FROM EACH OTHER? IF SHE WANTS TO BE INDEPENDENT OF ANY AND ALL GUYS THEN WHY EVEN BOTHER HAVING A RELATIONSHIP? SHE PHONED HIM TO COMPROMISE? THAT'S VERY DECENT OF HER TO TAKE TIME OUT OF HER BUSY SCHEDULE.... NOT!
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IS SHE A LESBIAN...!? :) I LOVE THESE PEOPLE WHO HAVE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS - EVEN WHEN THEY'RE LIVING IN THE SAME TOWN!!! 'I ONLY SEE MY BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND ONCE A YEAR...' TYPE RELATIONSHIPS. IT ONLY TAKES ONE PERSON IN ANY RELATIONSHIP TO THINK LIKE THIS TO PUT AN IMMEDIATE STRAIN ON THEIR PARTNERS LIFE. HE OR SHE WILL JUST GET BORED PRETTY QUICKLY AND MOVE ONTO SOMEBODY MORE ACCOMODATING!
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Stalkerish...comes to mind.
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WHEN YOU GENUINELY LOVE SOMEONE, ISN'T IT ONLY NATURAL TO WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH THAT PERSON? BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM!? YOU LOVE THE WAY THEY SMILE, THE WAY THEY MAKE YOUR DAY BRIGHTER? AND HOW WHEN YOU'RE NOT AROUND - THEY FEEL LOST AND DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THEMSELVES? INDEPENDENCE CAN BE TAKEN FOR SELFISHNESS.... UNLESS YOU'VE GOT A HIGH FLYING BUSINESS TO TAKE CARE OFF AND IF NOT, IT'S JUST MAKING EXCUSES.
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everyones different....if we were all the same, the world would be a boring place.
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need my space, (not selfish, just have responsibilities), i am very busy in my life doing what i have to do to make it. I am more of a visual person, not a texter...
I do like the idea of the last call in the evening to say good nite. but no, i don't need or want all day phone calls, or texting... happy hunting usa |
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thanks for the honesty male2009, i don't mean to seem like i am arguing with those i sought out for advice, but...
i may be his girlfriend...whats your point? he doesn't own me, nor does he seek to. he is quite committed to the relationship. i don't operate out of fear of someone leaving. if he wanted to, he knows he's free to go. i never said i want to be independent of any and all guys, otherwise, you are correct, i wouldn't have a boyfriend. my relationship does not resemble a long distance relationship. i don't see my boyfriend once every year, in fact he works at the university i go to. and we have gone out alone together every week since we became a couple, and we talk every night. you are attempting to exaggerate the situation in order to make your position seem less unreasonable than it is. i'm not lesbian when i genuinely love someone i still don't feel the need to check up on them several times a day. in my opinion that's a sign of insecurity and co-dependence... i simply don't understand that concept...the texts during the day and the call at night seems sufficient to me... it also allows me to have the opportunity to miss him lastly, don't take this the wrong way if i'm mistaken but are you trying to be a troll?  |
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