So who has been divorced, and you have you teen aged kids that live with you, and you find some one you like to bring home but the kids dont wont you to brind her over...
Most of the girls that i have found dont wont or cant handle the "pre-pakaged deal"....

I have a "pre-packaged"deal too, so I understand.

Good-luck...

I've had a devil of a time finding anyone who ISN'T a "pre-packaged deal" -- I don't think there are any on dating sites....! (Except me -- divorced, no kids, and I don't want any!)

1.- Make an agreement with your kids, or
2.- Don´t take her home until you are ready for the "next step".
Good luck!

I was feeling alittle selfish wont to take care of my needs....
Plus they are in that wonderfull age of 16 boy and 13 girl....AH AH AHA AHA HA AHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I have tryd that they wont me all of my time....
I was just off for two days in a row and all i did is wash clothes 20 loades!!!!!!!! I just wont a nother adult to shoot the breezzzzzzzz with....

My son is the same way. He DOES not want ME to meet anyone much less him having to meet them. Kids are funny and he is 13! You would think he would understand at his age.

See I like the pre-pakaged deal. If these woman cant handle that then they are not the one you want. I alway feel that if u cant handle the whole deal then o well thier lost

My oldest is almost 13 (boy), he is the one that took my pics. and started my profile...lol..He said he was tired of seeing me unhappy and alone.
sweet huh..

Damm honey lets have coffee.........

my son is eager for me to meet someone

Your son needs to meet my son and tell him this.

I would like for my son to meet some other kids that there parents have been divorced. I think he would maybeeee understand.

Sounds great...were gonna party sometime, anyway.....lol.

My oldest son's father died 2 yrs..ago...so he is very mature for his age...

sounds like a great kid

If they can't handle the pre-packaged deal, then they are not worth your time.

I still beleave it's not so darn hard to find friends.....
not just ones here.

Yes but i am not going to live my life alone and feeling like i must have done something really bad in my past life's.......

I guess that after seeing what has been posted so far I have been lucky. My kids go to spend time with their father everyother weekend. When I do happen to find someone to spend time with, I have every other weekend to be free to do so. When I was first divorced and my son lived with me ( he was 16 at the time), He was not going to let some guy come over. And told me about it all the time. Thank goodness the one guy was like, "I dont care if you have kids and if I want to stop by and see if you want to go for a ride on the bike, I am going to stop by." And he did. On the other hand, there were more guys that didnt want the hastle of a teen boy giving them dirty looks. (I couldnt blame them) But under no way, no how did any of them EVER spend the night when the kids were home. That was a big no, no. If they didnt like that, they were out of here right quick. The only suggestion I have is just be patient. The right person will come along and fit in your life and the kids will adjust. Good Luck.

You don't want someone who is not interested in your children either.