I was dating a guy, who told me he was separated from his wife,
I went out with him, and he never wanted to say later than 12am
I thought that was strange.
came to find out he lied to me and still with his wife
why do man have to lie? if he could just be honest, he is having problems with wife but still living with her, do you think I did wrong in dumping him?

Hell no, you did no wrong in dumping him - that's what he deserved!

Uhhhhhh....NO! He did wrong by lying to you...rule of thumb...it's not over til it's over and separated does NOT mean single!

If he lies to her, he'll lie to you!! You did the right thing!!!
I've chatted with a few men who say they are separated, but still living with their wives due to the economy. Hmmmmmmmmmm. Nope!! Not for me, man!!! I won't date a separated man at all, whether living with their ex or not as they have unfinished business and there's more of a liklihood of reconciliation. Too many TRULY single men to get to know.
Best wishes and hope you move on quickly from that turd.

" do you think you did wrong ? "

he lied to you,.he lied to his wife,.he`s cheatig on her ..and you want to know if YOU did wrong ?????

I think you did the right thing. Why would you want to remain with someone who lies. If he did it once, he will do it again. Doesn't sound like it would be a good relationship. Makes you wonder, how many other women he was stringing along. If I were you, I would run and never look back. You deserve better than that. Don't settle for anything less. Good luck!

Digger is right on the money. You are such an awesome lady. You deserve way more than that. You did the right thing.

Thanks guys, I think I liked him a lot, because what he did hurt
I guess I was hoping he was telling me the truth, because that's what I wanted to believe, but it just wasn't wright and I had it, he keeps calling me and I wont answer the phone

Stick to your guns and don't let him back in....it hurts right now, but he will be a memory soon and you will be better off for it.

Hell No, you did the right thing in dumping him. He deserved it.

Always tough to do the right thing.

(((((Mo)))))

I know (((CAT)))

((sage)) you know how I am with dating,,took me a while
and when finally found someone who I liked, look what happens
I think that is it for me!!!

your so right, but I see that now!!

Best advice I can give: Look for friends first, the foundation of any relationship.

Something I live by.

i was with a guy for 2yrs and he had been separated from his wife for over 5yrs. and they never did talk..(and no he didnt live with her either) he wanted a divorce so i helped him with the self divorce papers and he got his divorce.. he was just lazy thinking that working once a yr at the fair was enough(i was working 3 jobs just because of him)
i finally had enough and told him what i felt...
funny part now he met someone and they have been married for a little over 2yrs..


but other than that no i wont date a man that is married

hell no a cheating liar deserves the worst

yep, now he is calling me like crazy leaving me messages
saying that he will divorce his wife, and he loves me, wants to get back with me, that he is sorry..but I know once a lier always a lier

This is a bit like asking "is water wet?"

I don't think you are going to get any responses that say

"Wow, maybe he is really a great guy. Why don't you just give him the benefit of the the doubt and maybe he WILL leave his wife for you!"

If he did it to her, he'll do it to you.