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Why do some women desire to be with a man who doesnt want them? treats them badly? or uses them?
Even when there is a truly nice man who wants to be with them!? |
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Edited by
YouAndImake1
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Wed 06/03/09 04:50 PM
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Why do some women desire to be with a man who doesnt want them? treats them badly? or uses them? Even when there is a truly nice man who wants to be with them!? Why do some people like to be whipped? Why do some like dirty sex? I have to think it has something to do with childhood and abuse,,, |
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It's like that saying, "nice guys finish last". We all want a bad boy until they are bad to us!
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It's like that saying, "nice guys finish last". We all want a bad boy until they are bad to us! Im talking wanting them even AFTER they are bad to us! |
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I have a few female friends that stay in bad relationships & I can't for the life of me figure out why...makes no sense
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I looked at your profile after I answered,,,
what a poop you are,,, you already knew the answer,,, |
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Because they are stupid
Needy Dependent Afraid Weak .....etc |
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I asked my sister that once... and she said if a man gets so mad at her that he gets violent then he must really care. She was with one man who put a gun to her head and hospitalized her more than once. He died commiting a robbery. She was with another who (after getting his green card) started hitting her with coat hangers and pulled a machette out on her threatening to kill her. There have been others. Now she doesn't date... but for years she was drawn to abusive bad boys and could not stay with the nice guys... go figure.
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Why do some women desire to be with a man who doesnt want them? treats them badly? or uses them? Even when there is a truly nice man who wants to be with them!? |
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they are wacky in needing that kind of relationship. And their are guys that give it to them.
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I think it is b/c we think when someone does not want us we then have to prove that we are worth having. Thus a very nasty cycle starts.
Another thought is that some people like to be treated badly. |
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Why do some women desire to be with a man who doesnt want them? treats them badly? or uses them? Even when there is a truly nice man who wants to be with them!? No, actually they have them. It's why do they stay with them. |
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I looked at your profile after I answered,,, what a poop you are,,, you already knew the answer,,, ? 
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I think it is b/c we think when someone does not want us we then have to prove that we are worth having. Thus a very nasty cycle starts. Another thought is that some people like to be treated badly. 
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I love woman that think like this
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Why do some women desire to be with a man who doesnt want them? treats them badly? or uses them? Even when there is a truly nice man who wants to be with them!? No, actually they have them. It's why do they stay with them.
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I think its like this: http://www.sniggle.net/stock.php
Also, like this: http://www.divorcenet.com/states/oregon/or_art02 Or variations of the two. wierd psycology. Some people arent all that bright. As for dirty sex? Whats dirty sex?? Some people like to be dominated, some people like to dominate. I like it, I wasnt abused. Some people like intense sex, in different ways, thats all. |
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I have no clue really, I think it's the whole "I want a bad boy thing" however they don't realize they are "bad" boys for a reason.
Some girls try to make it work out in their minds or try to "fix" the guy, this never works. I was going out with this one girl and she told me I was too nice for her. Huh? It's ok though, she turned out to be bipolar. What a horrible roller coaster ride that was! whew! |
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I asked my sister that once... and she said if a man gets so mad at her that he gets violent then he must really care. She was with one man who put a gun to her head and hospitalized her more than once. He died commiting a robbery. She was with another who (after getting his green card) started hitting her with coat hangers and pulled a machette out on her threatening to kill her. There have been others. Now she doesn't date... but for years she was drawn to abusive bad boys and could not stay with the nice guys... go figure. fair play mate, if i were you... id be in prison |
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I asked my sister that once... and she said if a man gets so mad at her that he gets violent then he must really care. She was with one man who put a gun to her head and hospitalized her more than once. He died commiting a robbery. She was with another who (after getting his green card) started hitting her with coat hangers and pulled a machette out on her threatening to kill her. There have been others. Now she doesn't date... but for years she was drawn to abusive bad boys and could not stay with the nice guys... go figure. fair play mate, if i were you... id be in prison 
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