My Name is Rick and I need some help I have been trying to do this online thing in the hopes of meeting that someone special and have had some issues I have not met anyone on this site yet but I have met a couple locally on craigslist we went through all the preliminaries of chatting online and talking on the phone ect. It seemed with both things were going very well. I took the first one out to lunch and we hit it off but she had a lot going on in her life and I was not interested in that. took the second one out to lunch and was told later that night that there was no connection I can also understand that. but the thing I can't understand is both women talked the whole time about how bad they were treated by their ex's and I pretty much just sat back and listened to it all. I can't figure out for the life of me why these are the types I keep attracting. I am not mad about this just frustrated and can't figure out why. I have a great job and a college degree and just want to meet someone who is sincere to fill the gap that I think is missing in my life. Thank you in advance for any help you can give me

Rick

trying to understand women is like trying to understand darkmatter in space...clueless,just give them your full attention and throw in some affection,not infection.then you'll be okay