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Perhaps this should be in "Well Wishes" ...today should have been my husbands 61st birthday. I try very hard not to predict, plan or predetermine how these still present 'days' should play out. I have learned to simply let them be what they are and let me 'be' how I need to be....For the first time since his death, today brought muses of how the day would have been if he were still alive...fantasies I guess. Mostly, as the day draws to its end, what I get from this is realizing how far I have come, how very much I lost and how far I have to go BUT the big news for me is that WE ALL HAVE FAR TO GO sooooo I am right where I need to be. Tears and all.
I did my annual 'remembrance' celebration and feel good. Strangely perhaps, knowing you are here, helped. One more biggie in July...our anniversary - July just kicks my butt. You are the greatest bunch of strangers i could have ever hoped to come across, so again, thank you all! |
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Glad we could help!
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You hang in there
..like you have been doing(I could only imagine)He is gone but not forgotten
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You're gonna make it I can tell, and if you ever need to talk about anything, you can always PM me.
How long has it been since he passed out of curiosity? |
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My condolences
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My condolences
Its been 2 yrs since I lost my husband and my mom.. Its still very hard sometimes..just remember the good times..it helps...
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You're gonna make it I can tell, and if you ever need to talk about anything, you can always PM me. How long has it been since he passed out of curiosity? Three and a half years. I was so very blessed/lucky to have shared my life with him. |
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Wishing that you find the peace and strength to keep moving forward life at times is rough but what a glories life it is...
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You're gonna make it I can tell, and if you ever need to talk about anything, you can always PM me. How long has it been since he passed out of curiosity? Three and a half years. I was so very blessed/lucky to have shared my life with him. I bet, always cherish those times, remember them when you feel sad, that you were able to have those moments with him while he was here. How long were you two married? |
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Perhaps this should be in "Well Wishes" ...today should have been my husbands 61st birthday. I try very hard not to predict, plan or predetermine how these still present 'days' should play out. I have learned to simply let them be what they are and let me 'be' how I need to be....For the first time since his death, today brought muses of how the day would have been if he were still alive...fantasies I guess. Mostly, as the day draws to its end, what I get from this is realizing how far I have come, how very much I lost and how far I have to go BUT the big news for me is that WE ALL HAVE FAR TO GO sooooo I am right where I need to be. Tears and all. I did my annual 'remembrance' celebration and feel good. Strangely perhaps, knowing you are here, helped. One more biggie in July...our anniversary - July just kicks my butt. You are the greatest bunch of strangers i could have ever hoped to come across, so again, thank you all!
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Thank you, and thank you all. I am starting to feel a new family or at least a group of friends I can count on. FRIENDS RULE! |
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Wishing that you find the peace and strength to keep moving forward life at times is rough but what a glories life it is... Yes, life is glorious! |
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the kindness and strength of people on this site are awesome!!!
for you sea: 
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My best to you. I am also widowed. If you ever want to chat....It was 10 yrs for me in June and I know about those "days".
Hugs
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My best to you. I am also widowed. If you ever want to chat....It was 10 yrs for me in June and I know about those "days". Hugs Ten years. There was a time I didn't think I'd see a week then a month...at least now I know that time does pass and bring change. Thank you so much for your kind offer, not all of truly know about those 'days'. I may just take you up on your offer...grief is a weird, powerful bond, don't you think? |
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