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I was exchanging emails with a decent sounding guy and on the 7th email he casually mentions his ex. Does anyone see that as a red flag?
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Edited by
michiganman3
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Tue 09/08/09 09:12 PM
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Not necessarily,
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did he mention having her body tied up in the basement or something...?
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Depends on what he said about her. If he's still in love with her, yeah it's a red flag. If he hates her, he's a keeper.
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I want to know about the ex's...all of them...in minute detail...
so I know how he will describe me...when I become one...  
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the exes are always a b*tch.......Im sure Im one too!!!
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Depends on what he said about her. If he's still in love with her, yeah it's a red flag. If he hates her, he's a keeper. But if he hates her doesn't that mean he's really still not over her? |
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I don't hate my ex. I hope she doesn't hate me either.
Because of children still living at home, we must interact from time to time and I like to keep it civil. |
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Depends on what he said about her. If he's still in love with her, yeah it's a red flag. If he hates her, he's a keeper. But if he hates her doesn't that mean he's really still not over her? Maybe..I don't want to hear a guy complain about his ex... she shouldn't be taking up so much space in his head if it's over. imo |
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did he mention having her body tied up in the basement or something...? That's definitely not a good sign. |
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Depends on what he said about her. If he's still in love with her, yeah it's a red flag. If he hates her, he's a keeper. But if he hates her doesn't that mean he's really still not over her? Maybe..I don't want to hear a guy complain about his ex... she shouldn't be taking up so much space in his head if it's over. imo Yeah thats what I mean...
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WHy is it not ok to talk about an ex?
Are we supposed to pretend we are blank...like a barbie doll's genitalia? We have had full lives, prior to meeting someone new.....are we supposed to pretend that didn't happen? I talk about all my life, the people who have been in it, the places I have seen, the things I have done... of course ex's fit into that also.. |
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In a relationship of course we can discuss our ex's.. it's part of who we are and our experiences. 7 emails is hardly a relationship...he should be putting his energy into getting to know her if he's interested.
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Part of her is HER exs....part of HIM is his exs...
we see things differently...and I dont have a statute of limitations on the exact formula of what when where and how one must approach these things... I share, I answer, I ask.... from the getgo.... am not real big on pretending anything.. |
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I think if they keep talking about the ex........constantly, then they are not over it somehow.
Call me when your over it...... 
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Part of her is HER exs....part of HIM is his exs... we see things differently...and I dont have a statute of limitations on the exact formula of what when where and how one must approach these things... I share, I answer, I ask.... from the getgo.... am not real big on pretending anything.. I'm not into pretending..if someone asks I'll talk..but I have no ill feeling about any of my ex's and I don't complain about them..so I guess I don't want to hear them complain. Discuss at some point..sure, not whine about how she did me wrong... |
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I was exchanging emails with a decent sounding guy and on the 7th email he casually mentions his ex. Does anyone see that as a red flag? It depends on the context. mentioning of the ex on the seventh e-mail is not a red flag in its self. But, if it was a red flag to you, then I would have to say proceed with caution. |
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I get bored REAL FAST!!! when a guy talks about his ex......makes me want to leave and not come back.
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Depends on what he said about her. If he's still in love with her, yeah it's a red flag. If he hates her, he's a keeper. But if he hates her doesn't that mean he's really still not over her? I hate all my exes and I'm over all of them. You don't have to be into someone to wish them ill will.
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I dont hate any of my exes anymore.....I have no feelings towards them. That means, I am over them.
If you harbour such hate over someone, you are not over it. GET OVER IT!!!  
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