Topic: BFF VS. GODMOTHER....
KAY KAY 's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:10 PM
Ok.....I was talking with my bff tonight and she was telling me about a guy that she had been seeing off and on. Some points she hit on sound familiar. So, I asked her what does this guy look like and she describes him.......6'10", light complexion so on and so on. Well, in the small town I am from....there aren't many 6'10" men there. She went on to say that he was married and his wife left him due to cheating and went to stay with her daughter. BINGO!!! I said, "please don't tell me that his name is _______!!!!! It was him, my Godmothers husband that she had just left to go and stay with my sister!!!!!! What do you do in this situation???? My Godmother is thinking about returning to him and he is STILL cheating!! Once we determined that it was him <<<< he sent my bff pics of him in the hot tub and she sent a decent one to me to confirm>>>> she called him and broke it off. What to do?? Stay out of it?? How can I face my Godmother and her husband during family get-togethers knowing this secret??? HELP!!!! shocked surprised

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Sat 09/19/09 10:14 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh bad scene!!!scared surprised scared

First off.....ask your friend to stop seeing him if possible.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:17 PM

Ok.....I was talking with my bff tonight and she was telling me about a guy that she had been seeing off and on. Some points she hit on sound familiar. So, I asked her what does this guy look like and she describes him.......6'10", light complexion so on and so on. Well, in the small town I am from....there aren't many 6'10" men there. She went on to say that he was married and his wife left him due to cheating and went to stay with her daughter. BINGO!!! I said, "please don't tell me that his name is _______!!!!! It was him, my Godmothers husband that she had just left to go and stay with my sister!!!!!! What do you do in this situation???? My Godmother is thinking about returning to him and he is STILL cheating!! Once we determined that it was him <<<< he sent my bff pics of him in the hot tub and she sent a decent one to me to confirm>>>> she called him and broke it off. What to do?? Stay out of it?? How can I face my Godmother and her husband during family get-togethers knowing this secret??? HELP!!!! shocked surprised
surprised oh dangsurprised

Queene123's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:18 PM
she has every right to know and hes more than a 'j ***. hes waste of anyone time and energy...

KAY KAY 's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:24 PM
She has left him alone once I told her my relation to her situation.

KAY KAY 's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:26 PM

she has every right to know and hes more than a 'j ***. hes waste of anyone time and energy...



How do I tell her with out putting my bff in it anymore than what she already is?

Queene123's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:42 PM


she has every right to know and hes more than a 'j ***. hes waste of anyone time and energy...



How do I tell her with out putting my bff in it anymore than what she already is?


just tell her point out blank.. you cant hide anymore

KAY KAY 's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:45 PM



she has every right to know and hes more than a 'j ***. hes waste of anyone time and energy...



How do I tell her with out putting my bff in it anymore than what she already is?


just tell her point out blank.. you cant hide anymore


Thank you flowers

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:46 PM

she has every right to know and hes more than a 'j ***. hes waste of anyone time and energy...
:thumbsup:

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Sat 09/19/09 10:47 PM
hmmmmmm its always a nice gesture to send a pic of the 2 of them in a sexual nature to the godmother......maybe it would GIVE HER A CLUE????!!!slaphead slaphead slaphead

I once sent a card that a "married man" who I didnt know was married ( he told me he was split up from his gf)that he gave me to his wife. Hahahaaaaaaaa he was really mad at me for that!!!rofl rofl rofl

But that didnt stop him from trying to come over all the time....I just made him buy me stuff after that!!!!rofl

KAY KAY 's photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:55 PM

hmmmmmm its always a nice gesture to send a pic of the 2 of them in a sexual nature to the godmother......maybe it would GIVE HER A CLUE????!!!slaphead slaphead slaphead

I once sent a card that a "married man" who I didnt know was married ( he told me he was split up from his gf)that he gave me to his wife. Hahahaaaaaaaa he was really mad at me for that!!!rofl rofl rofl

But that didnt stop him from trying to come over all the time....I just made him buy me stuff after that!!!!rofl


shocked OH WOW

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Sat 09/19/09 10:59 PM


hmmmmmm its always a nice gesture to send a pic of the 2 of them in a sexual nature to the godmother......maybe it would GIVE HER A CLUE????!!!slaphead slaphead slaphead

I once sent a card that a "married man" who I didnt know was married ( he told me he was split up from his gf)that he gave me to his wife. Hahahaaaaaaaa he was really mad at me for that!!!rofl rofl rofl

But that didnt stop him from trying to come over all the time....I just made him buy me stuff after that!!!!rofl


shocked OH WOW
Ya but I didnt sleep with him. He would knock on my window and I would torture him by parading around in sexy lingerie....and not having sex.....ohhhhhhh noooooooooo we cant do that!!! YOURE MARRIED SUCKER!!!! haha go buy me some champagne and some smokes....oh and Im hungry.....we need food!!laugh laugh laugh

I told him he was an idiot but he kept doing it until I moved far away....

KAY KAY 's photo
Sat 09/19/09 11:07 PM



hmmmmmm its always a nice gesture to send a pic of the 2 of them in a sexual nature to the godmother......maybe it would GIVE HER A CLUE????!!!slaphead slaphead slaphead

I once sent a card that a "married man" who I didnt know was married ( he told me he was split up from his gf)that he gave me to his wife. Hahahaaaaaaaa he was really mad at me for that!!!rofl rofl rofl

But that didnt stop him from trying to come over all the time....I just made him buy me stuff after that!!!!rofl


shocked OH WOW
Ya but I didnt sleep with him. He would knock on my window and I would torture him by parading around in sexy lingerie....and not having sex.....ohhhhhhh noooooooooo we cant do that!!! YOURE MARRIED SUCKER!!!! haha go buy me some champagne and some smokes....oh and Im hungry.....we need food!!laugh laugh laugh

I told him he was an idiot but he kept doing it until I moved far away....


surprised :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: