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best advice i think, back me up here people, you both have to be best friends. i know it's hard in your early 20's, but concentrate on personallity!
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My realization came along a lot later than 20 -- !! After many, many really horrible relationships, I began to understand what it was I truly wanted/needed in a partner. Just a few months ago, I finally came to the realization that that person probably doesn't exist. Yeah, it's depressing on any number of levels. But I've realized that I can't base my life on the hypothetical existence of another person. It's two different things. I do what I do (write books and goof off, mainly) with the understanding that I'm actually better off alone than getting into another catastrophic relationship. There ARE worse things than being alone. In my experience, being married is one of them. I beat you, I learned it at 23. I don't care, doesn't depress me in the least...so what if I have to live out the rest of my years alone, better than getting into a relationship and devoting years to it only to have it fallout from underneath me in 10 or so years. There are worse things, like going hungry just off the top of my head...people don't need love for survival, hell, we don't really need people, but I guess that is the bridge where I walk away from popular belief and idea. I, personally, am far better off alone than I will ever be in a relationship. |
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I beat you, I learned it at 23. I don't care, doesn't depress me in the least...so what if I have to live out the rest of my years alone, better than getting into a relationship and devoting years to it only to have it fallout from underneath me in 10 or so years. There are worse things, like going hungry just off the top of my head...people don't need love for survival, hell, we don't really need people, but I guess that is the bridge where I walk away from popular belief and idea. I, personally, am far better off alone than I will ever be in a relationship. It's really just the reality of it all -- whenever a woman has told me "I love you," it either means "I want you to do something for me and I'll disappear as soon as you get it done" or "I want to change you." Who needs that? |
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something I've noticed that's funny is how easy some people make themselves think they're with the right person. Example I've dropped acid with my friends a couple times who are together and it's guaranteed, every time, that at some point they will hold eachother crying for twenty minutes and make out, and when watch that you think, "man that's commitment." Nothing like dropping some acid to solidify a commitment. 
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something I've noticed that's funny is how easy some people make themselves think they're with the right person. Example I've dropped acid with my friends a couple times who are together and it's guaranteed, every time, that at some point they will hold eachother crying for twenty minutes and make out, and when watch that you think, "man that's commitment." Nothing like dropping some acid to solidify a commitment. It's the little things that really bring you together.... |
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something I've noticed that's funny is how easy some people make themselves think they're with the right person. Example I've dropped acid with my friends a couple times who are together and it's guaranteed, every time, that at some point they will hold eachother crying for twenty minutes and make out, and when watch that you think, "man that's commitment." Nothing like dropping some acid to solidify a commitment. It's the little things that really bring you together.... Sounds like a Hallmark moment to me. |
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something I've noticed that's funny is how easy some people make themselves think they're with the right person. Example I've dropped acid with my friends a couple times who are together and it's guaranteed, every time, that at some point they will hold eachother crying for twenty minutes and make out, and when watch that you think, "man that's commitment." Nothing like dropping some acid to solidify a commitment. It's the little things that really bring you together.... Sounds like a Hallmark moment to me.
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something I've noticed that's funny is how easy some people make themselves think they're with the right person. Example I've dropped acid with my friends a couple times who are together and it's guaranteed, every time, that at some point they will hold eachother crying for twenty minutes and make out, and when watch that you think, "man that's commitment." -keep doing things like "dropping acid" and you'll really miss out on the best things in life... You are too young to worry so much about the right "one"....BUT too old to think it's "cool" to do drugs at all, then post about it like it's no big deal. Wish you the best. |
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When ya dropped the acid.....
Wasn't the "right one" "right there" Floating in front of you in a white gown Beckoning you Lucy in the sky with diamonds Lucy in the sky with diamonds!!! 
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hormones from about 16 to about 25 your hormones are going crazy and pummeling you emotionally. that is the source of so-called "teenage angst" I'm 27 and my hormones are still going crazy like that! 
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Mr Maybe real simple... Go to college, get the grades and like we all did...PARTY.. worry about all that stuff LATER waaaayyyyy....good advice...       
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I was just wondering does everybody, right around twenty start getting that feeling that there's really no such thing as mr. or mrs. right because honestly, even though the thought doesn't really get me depressed, that thought just kind of makes me wonder what's the point in even saying two words to anyone of the opposite gender and it's really affecting my social life. I have friends and I talk to women but The closest thing I've had to romance was a crazy girl in highschool that needed serious psychiatric help. THATS the kind I meet,,,,,our WE related?? lol,,,The nuts just age man,,,,they don't just stay back there in high school,,,,,,SOME,,,,even go as far as to look you back up ten years later,,,,,,and they're worse..........lol    FUNNY! OMG......that's a scary thought! 
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