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Topic: Mutal Matches that don't reply
MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 11/02/09 11:49 AM

Not to upset the ladies, BUT I think some of these females are attention starved and this is an outlet for them to get just that.


rofl rofl rofl rofl

Wow! surprised

To the OP: have YOU emailed them? It's a two-way street. If you mutually clicked "yes" to another member, why are you waiting for her to make the first move? Maybe she hasn't logged in for a while; maybe she is shy and needs encouragement; maybe she is old fashioned and wishes to be courted and asked out from a gentleman?

I hope things get better for you but if you are not more proactive in online dating then you will not be happy.

Good luck flowerforyou

Gator76's photo
Mon 11/02/09 11:52 AM
Learn tolerance boys and girls or we'll send people over to kick your a$$es.
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

nolaking's photo
Mon 11/02/09 12:03 PM


Not to upset the ladies, BUT I think some of these females are attention starved and this is an outlet for them to get just that.

ditto for the males :wink:

I dont doubt it at all

catseyes1's photo
Mon 11/02/09 12:31 PM
What's the big deal, there are other fish in the sea.

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 11/02/09 02:47 PM

What's the big deal, there are other fish in the sea.

nope cats keep eating them all sad

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Mon 11/02/09 03:42 PM
Back when I still used Mutual Match, I noticed the weirdest guys in the world were the ones actually emailed after matching....laugh laugh laugh scared

kyle_maddisson's photo
Mon 01/18/10 11:26 PM
yes I did email them first. I'm sorry if I seem short tempered but it's just that if this is real dating site fine. I have been on here for a long time and not met one person. Now I have been on other dating sites and filled out my profile briefly and put one picture on just to check it out. Well wouldn't you know within in the first few days I get at a couple messages a day but in order to read them of course you have to upgrade. So I do. Well it doesn't take long to figure out that it was some ******** message to make you give them your credit card number. I just want to know if I'm wasting my time and if these women are not just employees of this site.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 01/18/10 11:33 PM

yes I did email them first. I'm sorry if I seem short tempered but it's just that if this is real dating site fine. I have been on here for a long time and not met one person. Now I have been on other dating sites and filled out my profile briefly and put one picture on just to check it out. Well wouldn't you know within in the first few days I get at a couple messages a day but in order to read them of course you have to upgrade. So I do. Well it doesn't take long to figure out that it was some ******** message to make you give them your credit card number. I just want to know if I'm wasting my time and if these women are not just employees of this site.


Maybe online dating just isn't for you. You can't expect a reply just because you send a message...it doesn't even work like that in real life. Best of luck anyway though.

msharmony's photo
Mon 01/18/10 11:36 PM

What the hell is up with these women that will mutual match with you but then when you send them a message they will not even answer you.


Im gonna be honest with ya and say I dont understand it either. The mutual match option goes through a LONG line of possibles that someone must either say they like (yes) or dont (no). I dont understand why , after being picked from this long list of no's to be one of the few yes's, the female would not respond to you. I have the similar situation that I mutual match with people but then I dont hear anything further from them,,,,

maybe I am mutual matching with males who arent initiators and maybe you are mutual matching with females who dont LIKE initiators?....who knows

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Mon 01/18/10 11:36 PM


yes I did email them first. I'm sorry if I seem short tempered but it's just that if this is real dating site fine. I have been on here for a long time and not met one person. Now I have been on other dating sites and filled out my profile briefly and put one picture on just to check it out. Well wouldn't you know within in the first few days I get at a couple messages a day but in order to read them of course you have to upgrade. So I do. Well it doesn't take long to figure out that it was some ******** message to make you give them your credit card number. I just want to know if I'm wasting my time and if these women are not just employees of this site.


Maybe online dating just isn't for you. You can't expect a reply just because you send a message...it doesn't even work like that in real life. Best of luck anyway though.


:thumbsup:

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Mon 01/18/10 11:38 PM
scared Attack of "The Thread From The Dead." scared

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Mon 01/18/10 11:39 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

momfor2's photo
Wed 01/20/10 10:18 AM
not just women.............men are just as rudethink

bedlum1's photo
Wed 01/20/10 10:32 AM
wait ...wait....i hear violins playin...laugh maybe the waiter will come along and you can order some good cheese to go with that fabulous whinerofl rofl

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Wed 01/20/10 10:32 AM

not just women.............men are just as rudethink



drinks

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