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Topic: Time & Marriage
TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:19 PM
When is the proper amount of time a couple must be together before tying the knot?


Your opinion plz...

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Sat 12/26/09 01:21 PM
When they both agree it's time to get married.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:21 PM
I don't know that there is a set time really. Depends on the couple. But for me...I wouldn't rush into it...MAYBE a year of talking about marriage

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Sat 12/26/09 01:26 PM


..why would someone want to ruin a perfectly good relationship by getting married...:laughing:

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Sat 12/26/09 01:32 PM
when I met my ex-wife 12 years ago I fell in love immediately. Had to really conquer her. But then there was our first tender kiss. I asked her to marry me after a month. I was convinced she was the love of my life; my princess.

And here I am: recently divorced...

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:33 PM
Ive been with my guy over a year now and I cant ever imagine him not in my life.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:34 PM
the proper time to me is neverdrinker

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Sat 12/26/09 01:34 PM

Ive been with my guy over a year now and I cant ever imagine him not in my life.

so, what is keeping him from popping the question?:smile:

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:34 PM

when I met my ex-wife 12 years ago I fell in love immediately. Had to really conquer her. But then there was our first tender kiss. I asked her to marry me after a month. I was convinced she was the love of my life; my princess.

And here I am: recently divorced...



but one month turned into 12 years? Do you wish things had gone differently?

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Sat 12/26/09 01:35 PM

Ive been with my guy over a year now and I cant ever imagine him not in my life.


If he feels the same way about you, you have your answer. Every couple is different and there are no set "rules" for anything. If it feels right for both of you go for it, and good luck.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:39 PM
I think everything will just happen when its meant to happen...no one has made me believe in fate more.

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Sat 12/26/09 01:39 PM


when I met my ex-wife 12 years ago I fell in love immediately. Had to really conquer her. But then there was our first tender kiss. I asked her to marry me after a month. I was convinced she was the love of my life; my princess.

And here I am: recently divorced...



but one month turned into 12 years? Do you wish things had gone differently?

it is as it is I guess. There is just no way you can predict the future. Listen closely to both your feelings and your instict.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:50 PM
Interesting topic to discuss. How long to wait?

Well, Mick Jagger and Jerry Hall started dating in 1977. Married in 1990 and divorced in 1997. So, I guess 13 years isn't long enough to wait.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:51 PM

Interesting topic to discuss. How long to wait?

Well, Mick Jagger and Jerry Hall started dating in 1977. Married in 1990 and divorced in 1997. So, I guess 13 years isn't long enough to wait.


noway Or maybe it was too long?

oldsage's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:51 PM
Once for honor

Once for love


NEVER again.

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Sat 12/26/09 01:56 PM

Once for honor

Once for love


NEVER again.

three times a charm?

Shaggy59's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:57 PM
I prefer to wait 16 months before proposing (nobody's made it past 15 months, and I made the mistake of proposing to the wrong girl once too soon). After that, probably a year till tying the knot

oldsage's photo
Sat 12/26/09 01:59 PM
Not at my age, looking forward to collecting my dead wife's Social Security. Can't remarry till after 60, or I don't get it.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:00 PM

I prefer to wait 16 months before proposing (nobody's made it past 15 months, and I made the mistake of proposing to the wrong girl once too soon). After that, probably a year till tying the knot


Whens too soon? Anything before 16 months?

Dont tell the girls this...theyll know when you'll pop the big Q

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:00 PM
1 day if meant to be

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