Topic: I'll Be Honest, Will You?
HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:19 PM
Here's a few quirks of mine:

I tend to procrastinate
My bachelor pad could use a woman's touch
I smoke
I cook alright, but only out of necessity
I've always been a bit of a loner


I assure you though, the positives outweigh the negatives flowerforyou

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:20 PM
I ca'nt nor wo'nt argue logic !You are correct bigsmile

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:25 PM

I ca'nt nor wo'nt argue logic !You are correct bigsmile


eh, I am the most non logical person I know. I perceive life through my heart, not my mind. Once I quit trying to be logical things fell into place...I make decisions based on intuition, not logic.
Seems to work better for me.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:29 PM


I ca'nt nor wo'nt argue logic !You are correct bigsmile


eh, I am the most non logical person I know. I perceive life through my heart, not my mind. Once I quit trying to be logical things fell into place...I make decisions based on intuition, not logic.
Seems to work better for me.
Well thats whats important which brings us back on topic you are who you are and there is someone to appreciate that !

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:43 PM



I ca'nt nor wo'nt argue logic !You are correct bigsmile


eh, I am the most non logical person I know. I perceive life through my heart, not my mind. Once I quit trying to be logical things fell into place...I make decisions based on intuition, not logic.
Seems to work better for me.
Well thats whats important which brings us back on topic you are who you are and there is someone to appreciate that !


Maybe
Since I don't believe in accidents I also know that life has a way of working itself out..so I worry not, all things happen as they should.

In the meantime..my sons think I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread and my cat loves me.

Gawd, I'm depressing myself,
must be bed time. slaphead :laughing:

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:46 PM




I ca'nt nor wo'nt argue logic !You are correct bigsmile


eh, I am the most non logical person I know. I perceive life through my heart, not my mind. Once I quit trying to be logical things fell into place...I make decisions based on intuition, not logic.
Seems to work better for me.
Well thats whats important which brings us back on topic you are who you are and there is someone to appreciate that !


Maybe
Since I don't believe in accidents I also know that life has a way of working itself out..so I worry not, all things happen as they should.

In the meantime..my sons think I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread and my cat loves me.

Gawd, I'm depressing myself,
must be bed time. slaphead :laughing:
Mine does too a so does my dog !Ca'nt beat thatgood night sweet lady !

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:49 PM





I ca'nt nor wo'nt argue logic !You are correct bigsmile


eh, I am the most non logical person I know. I perceive life through my heart, not my mind. Once I quit trying to be logical things fell into place...I make decisions based on intuition, not logic.
Seems to work better for me.
Well thats whats important which brings us back on topic you are who you are and there is someone to appreciate that !


Maybe
Since I don't believe in accidents I also know that life has a way of working itself out..so I worry not, all things happen as they should.

In the meantime..my sons think I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread and my cat loves me.

Gawd, I'm depressing myself,
must be bed time. slaphead :laughing:
Mine does too a so does my dog !Ca'nt beat thatgood night sweet lady !


Good Night, and thanks for your kind words flowerforyou

wux's photo
Tue 01/26/10 11:19 PM
My major quirks:

- No tattoos
- Constantly drooling
- I break wind if I am lucky. If not, there is instant baggage.
- I'm 5'4". In heels while I stand on a chair on the top of the Empire State Building, I appear taller.
- I have a wicked and dry sense of humour. The authorities use some of my jokes to get rid of cockroach infestations in buildings.
- My pet tapeworms make too much noise at night.
- I yawn too much.
- I don't own a Harley.
- I am scared of dogs -- the bigger and the fiercer they look, the more baggage they cause.
- and yet I like dogs, once I am assured they won't tear me into little pieces. Some of my best friends ever were dogs.
- I am not a real man -- I adore cats.
- I don't own a pet snake, haven't, since age six.
- I prefer buying tools and building stuff around the house and fixing broken pipes over buying porno and whacking off. I am weird.
- I fall for a kind look, but even more so for a pretty older woman. I am sucker for good looks.
- I avoided fighting during my entire schooling. I am a whimp.
- I was beaten up twice by my only friend during high school for beating him in cards. I did not cheat, but I gloated. He was immensely strong.
- I had lewd fantasies with most of my female teachers.
- I had lewd fantasies with the members of the Ladies' Group at my parrish.
- I had lewd fantasies with movie actresses.
- I had lewd fantasies with waitresses.
- I had lewd fantasies with charwomen.
- I had lewd fantasies with charges in geriatric wards.
- I had lewd fantasies with women in nursing homes.
- I had lewd fantasies with policewomen.
- I had lewd fantasies with the fat lady they showed at the circus.
- I ahd lewd fantasies with the pavians in the circus.
- I had lewed fantasies withe the bicycles the pavians were riding in the circus.
- I shan't elaborate the point any furhter.

Jhavez's photo
Thu 01/28/10 03:22 PM


I've raised a family alone and am very independent, and use to being the boss.
As the man, whether I am single or in a relationship, I have assumed the "head of household" position, or as you call it, being the boss.


I'm a paycheck to paycheck single mom.
I was a paycheck to paycheck single dad, so I hear where you are coming from

I'm menopausal, and have my b!tch moments.
Can't say that I share any of these moments with you, ha ha ha

I'm not a Christian.
I am Catholic, but am not devoted

I dabble with Tarot Cards, Full Moon fires, energy healing's..
Monthly Horoscope for me, and that is about it

things that come off as strange to some.
Yes I do those things too, most ex bartenders do, ha ha ha

I am protective of my sons, even though they are grown up.
So am I and probably most parents are the same too

I like to sleep in and if I don't get to, I like naps.
So do I, especially the older I get, ha ha ha


I don't really like to cook.
I HATE TO COOK!!!!

I'm no Suzi home maker, my house is never completely clean
Messy does not bother me as long as it does not bother you

and always have a pile of laundry.
you can borrow my shovel to move the pile if you like

I'm opinionated.
DUH!!!!! I figured that out after reading many of your posts, ha ha ha

I'm super-sensitive and cry...nothing has to be wrong, I just feel what others feel.
I am the opposite when it comes to showing emotions

I'm more of a listener than a talker, I won't always say what I'm thinking or feeling. I will if asked...
I am usually cautious when first meeting someone, I do not open up right away. But once they are my friend, I listen and talk to them, but I always say what is on my mind

I don't like my mother.
I felt the same way when I was younger, and I am glad that I changed my outlook

I'm not into hunting and fishing..so I won't do that with a man.
Damn! I guess if I ever wanted to go fishing up your way, I won't be able to invite you, HA HA HA

I don't take any shiit from anyone.
I am too old to take shiit from anyone, besides I never really did when I was younger

I have saggy boobs.
I can hold them up for you, if you like, ha ha ha

These are just a few of the things others may not like about me. I admit it..I'm not perfect. So you really think your the perfect catch? What are some of your quirks that would turn someone off?

Lori, I really think that it is not so much finding the perfect person or not. The scary part for most people would be making a commitment to a relationship and then to find out that some of the "quirky" things about that person are going to come up and become a problem.

If lying is a quirk, then that would be the number one thing I would not want to see in a woman. I think the only way for two people to find out about each others "quirks" is thru communication and/or dating.

bigsmile





no photo
Thu 01/28/10 03:59 PM
**** tarot cars ese

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 01/28/10 04:02 PM



I've raised a family alone and am very independent, and use to being the boss.
As the man, whether I am single or in a relationship, I have assumed the "head of household" position, or as you call it, being the boss.


I'm a paycheck to paycheck single mom.
I was a paycheck to paycheck single dad, so I hear where you are coming from

I'm menopausal, and have my b!tch moments.
Can't say that I share any of these moments with you, ha ha ha

I'm not a Christian.
I am Catholic, but am not devoted

I dabble with Tarot Cards, Full Moon fires, energy healing's..
Monthly Horoscope for me, and that is about it

things that come off as strange to some.
Yes I do those things too, most ex bartenders do, ha ha ha

I am protective of my sons, even though they are grown up.
So am I and probably most parents are the same too

I like to sleep in and if I don't get to, I like naps.
So do I, especially the older I get, ha ha ha


I don't really like to cook.
I HATE TO COOK!!!!

I'm no Suzi home maker, my house is never completely clean
Messy does not bother me as long as it does not bother you

and always have a pile of laundry.
you can borrow my shovel to move the pile if you like

I'm opinionated.
DUH!!!!! I figured that out after reading many of your posts, ha ha ha

I'm super-sensitive and cry...nothing has to be wrong, I just feel what others feel.
I am the opposite when it comes to showing emotions

I'm more of a listener than a talker, I won't always say what I'm thinking or feeling. I will if asked...
I am usually cautious when first meeting someone, I do not open up right away. But once they are my friend, I listen and talk to them, but I always say what is on my mind

I don't like my mother.
I felt the same way when I was younger, and I am glad that I changed my outlook

I'm not into hunting and fishing..so I won't do that with a man.
Damn! I guess if I ever wanted to go fishing up your way, I won't be able to invite you, HA HA HA

I don't take any shiit from anyone.
I am too old to take shiit from anyone, besides I never really did when I was younger

I have saggy boobs.
I can hold them up for you, if you like, ha ha ha

These are just a few of the things others may not like about me. I admit it..I'm not perfect. So you really think your the perfect catch? What are some of your quirks that would turn someone off?

Lori, I really think that it is not so much finding the perfect person or not. The scary part for most people would be making a commitment to a relationship and then to find out that some of the "quirky" things about that person are going to come up and become a problem.

If lying is a quirk, then that would be the number one thing I would not want to see in a woman. I think the only way for two people to find out about each others "quirks" is thru communication and/or dating.

bigsmile







flowerforyou

Thanks Jesse..I still don't like my mother...

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 01/28/10 04:03 PM

**** tarot cars ese


huh?

xbombxchellex's photo
Thu 01/28/10 05:13 PM
would anyone like 2 date some1 perfect that has no faults?
its a learning curve people need 2 fail at things 2 get better 2 achieve something if something is so perfect you would get bored of it.

i hate most of my family

reggae music rules my life

my intrests and hobbies are somewhat to familiar to a man's struggle 2 hold a friendship with a man because they fall 4 me because of my intrests

im to soft

i wuld rather give my friends money to feed there kids thn pay my rent

i suck my thumb at night 2 get me 2 sleep

i hate the fact that because some people have loads money they matter more an that a woman is going 2 be intrested in them because of it

i dont believe in god

and i most certainly would argue my rights till im blue in the face

but thats me and i wouldnt change 4 any one i can be your best friend and a great companion but if you pissed me off you'd no about it

i love my little boy 2 peices :)

cherie091279's photo
Thu 01/28/10 05:38 PM
I am extremely stubborn and persistant.
I work my azz off everyday to give my kids what they need.
I am very strong and independent. I don't depend on anyone but myself.
I don't smoke in my house. I will go outside when it's 10 below zero just to smoke.
I hate laundry, not the washing and drying, but the folding and putting away.
I have zero body heat and am always cold.
My mom is my best friend.
I'm usually nicer to people than they are to me, untill they really piss me off.
I love kids.
I tend to care more for others than they do for me.
I love to sleep.
I love to cuddle.
I love sex.
If I love you, you will know it.
I am confident, but sometimes it is seen as cocky or conceited, which I am not.


Mikebert4's photo
Thu 01/28/10 06:14 PM
Hey, this looks like fun. Testing and Masochistic fun, but fun nonetheless!

Here goes:

I'm surprisingly egotistical
I'm happiest talking about me, myself and I
I'm Stubborn
I'm incredibly opinionated
I'll argue for he sake of the debate - even if I actually agree with you
I love cuddling
I'll be nice to anyone, even ********, to the point of obscenity
I never think to call my family or friends
I idolise my Father, even though he's clearly deeply flawed
I used to despise my Mother, now I admire her more than any
I'm good with small kids
I used to be into heavy/death/speed/power/black metal - now I'll listen to anything
I smoke when I'm drunk
I -hate- religion, faith, alternative medicine, or anything supposedly supernatural
Since I learnt to read the longest I've been without a 'current' book has been three days.
It drove me mad.


Updawg's photo
Thu 01/28/10 06:22 PM
I dont have very much patience
I am truely looking for something great
I love playing tickle fight on the floor with my daughter
I am a great cook
I dont like ignorant people...again lack patience
I hate liers and cheaters
I am on a TV show (state broadcast)
I do alot of volunteer work with kids
I am a christian
I will drink but hate being around drunks
I love my life and those people in it
I cant sit still long unless I am hunting, then I can sit all day

Goofball73's photo
Thu 01/28/10 07:06 PM
I have my own style of dancing...Getting Goofy wit it!
I bowl for charity. The Trix rabbit has fallen on hard times man.
I believe that Santa is still real. Shut up. Stop laughing.
I have the best looking azz you have ever seen.
I love myself three times a day.
I am a closer lesbian. Shhhhh. Don't tell.
I believe that guns don't kill people, but they sure help.
I have 10 fingers and 10 toes. Go figure.
I was once Chuck E' Cheese. Yes, I was the rat.
I rock and I roll.
I was voted most likely to be a Goofball. Look at me now. Weeee!
I can read and write.

and lastly........

I....Didn't.....Do It!!

RKISIT's photo
Thu 01/28/10 07:09 PM

I have my own style of dancing...Getting Goofy wit it!
I bowl for charity. The Trix rabbit has fallen on hard times man.
I believe that Santa is still real. Shut up. Stop laughing.
I have the best looking azz you have ever seen.
I love myself three times a day.
I am a closer lesbian. Shhhhh. Don't tell.
I believe that guns don't kill people, but they sure help.
I have 10 fingers and 10 toes. Go figure.
I was once Chuck E' Cheese. Yes, I was the rat.
I rock and I roll.
I was voted most likely to be a Goofball. Look at me now. Weeee!
I can read and write.

and lastly........

I....Didn't.....Do It!!
love dreamylove

MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 01/29/10 12:09 PM
Please add, I love that Chuck E. Cheese serves beer to my list.drinker

Shasta1's photo
Fri 01/29/10 12:14 PM
For years I focused on my 'quirks' and realized that got me nowhere, besides working on them- my poor self esteem needed a boost. Last night when I made a list I got irritated because I was (again) way too hard on myself. I worked on my esteem, am a forgive and forget woman, hold no grudges, tender hearted, empathetic, a little psychic.
I get angry at people who judge others but afterwards realize it's what they were taught and it's their lesson in life to deal with. I can be inconsistant with housecleaning, it's not high on my list, grumpy in the morning before coffee, I smoke, too independent and still too sensitive for my own good. And at this time in life I really don't care what others think of me because have had a very difficult life and became the person am now because of it, which I am comfortable with- finally.