Topic: I'll Be Honest, Will You?
willing2's photo
Tue 01/26/10 02:22 PM

I am me....love me...hate me....worship me.....or even lust me....I am Goof....and that is all!:banana:

Dat's da' ticket, Bro!!drinker :thumbsup:

LewisW123's photo
Tue 01/26/10 02:23 PM


Great thread, Lo.

This is funny. Since my divorce, I have been with two women who claimed I was perfect for them, they just couldn't handle my "baggage."

My kids really got screwed up in the divorce. I do what I can to spend time with them. Both women have told me how much they respect that, then have turned around and asked me when I'm going to say "enough is enough," and basically cut ties with them and move on with my life.

I find that kind of amusing.


I'm sorry to hear this. I can't imagine asking someone to cut ties with their kids. You are doing the right thing IMO. Kids come first, always.



Thanks. They are teenagers and do typical rebellious teenage stuff.

As far as the two women, I don't lose much sleep. It is easier when they sort of weed themselves out.

When my kids get to be adults, I want them to remember that I was there for them, as best I could be.

willing2's photo
Tue 01/26/10 02:25 PM



Great thread, Lo.

This is funny. Since my divorce, I have been with two women who claimed I was perfect for them, they just couldn't handle my "baggage."

My kids really got screwed up in the divorce. I do what I can to spend time with them. Both women have told me how much they respect that, then have turned around and asked me when I'm going to say "enough is enough," and basically cut ties with them and move on with my life.

I find that kind of amusing.


I'm sorry to hear this. I can't imagine asking someone to cut ties with their kids. You are doing the right thing IMO. Kids come first, always.



Thanks. They are teenagers and do typical rebellious teenage stuff.

As far as the two women, I don't lose much sleep. It is easier when they sort of weed themselves out.

When my kids get to be adults, I want them to remember that I was there for them, as best I could be.

Proud of ya' there, Lewis!:thumbsup:

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 01/26/10 02:29 PM
I admit my flaws (that way they know what they are getting into)
My main problem is with the blood disease

CatsLoveMe's photo
Tue 01/26/10 02:36 PM
I know the true meaning of the word "duplicity" I've had this card played on me enough, I ought to know what it means.

MiVidaLoca's photo
Tue 01/26/10 02:59 PM
I sometimes say things just for their shock value
I can't believe in anything that I don't see evidence of
I believe politically correctness steals individualism
I never react well to ultimatums
I believe 1 day a week I should be able to do what I want
I absolutely hate being told " you can't think like that"





Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 01/26/10 03:40 PM

So you really think your the perfect catch? What are some of
your quirks that would turn someone off?


I see sick people.
Usually they don't know they're sick.

CaveMan_27's photo
Tue 01/26/10 07:57 PM
First of all, this is probably the best thread I've ever seen, on this site or any others...it sounds like everyone is being honest for once...for the most part anyway...

Well, I started to spell out all of my turn off qualities but it started to get too depressing...so here are just a few:

I'm indecisive
I'm lazier then I should be
I have a general fear of getting close to anyone
I've lost my passion for life as I've gotten older (wish I could find it again, I was a very passionate person)

Like I said there's more but it hurt too much seeing it out in front of me...

Once again...props to all that had the 8alls to be truthful and honest...

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:05 PM
I've come to the conclusion that I am one of those people who are meant to be alone...not a bad thing, as I am use to it anyway.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:07 PM

I've come to the conclusion that I am one of those people who are meant to be alone...not a bad thing, as I am use to it anyway.
Sorry gorgeous not buying it !

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:09 PM


I've come to the conclusion that I am one of those people who are meant to be alone...not a bad thing, as I am use to it anyway.
Sorry gorgeous not buying it !


Well, I'm not selling it either...:laughing:

Seems to be my path, always has been, don't see it changing now.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:12 PM
Well if you think that way Then I do'nt know what that means for me.I've got work to do ,yes but I ai'nt quittin !

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:21 PM

Well if you think that way Then I do'nt know what that means for me.I've got work to do ,yes but I ai'nt quittin !


I haven't quit..I haven't given up. I put myself out there, I'm open to all possibilities...I don't want to be alone forever. The reality is that I do or say something that runs them off... everybody says they want real, so I am real, I just be myself...something about my real self that isn't appealing..
My 25 year old son says I'm intimidating to men.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:47 PM
Well I ai'nt skeered a ya !And I did'nt think you were the quittin type for one minute .So you just keep pokin along missy theres one for all of us I always say !bigsmile

no photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:49 PM


..i am honest,trustworthy and loyal,i have amazing powers of observation and i can sometimes sense when things are going to happen,i have cheated death many times and i have saved people and animals from death's grasp,i have known pain to the point of out of body experiences..and i was abused as a child,i've only had one serious relationship..and my very best friend in the world commited suicide
..i am a loner..smokin

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:54 PM
Well, I'm hardly scary...yep, just keep pokin along, what else can we do right.

tombraider..my best friend committed suicide also..5 years ago, still hurts. I died for 3 minutes and it forever changed me..
I am a loner.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 08:58 PM
A big hug for both of you My brother did and my best friend drank himself to death last year but I persevere !

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:00 PM

A big hug for both of you My brother did and my best friend drank himself to death last year but I persevere !


I lost a brother also.. flowerforyou

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:07 PM


A big hug for both of you My brother did and my best friend drank himself to death last year but I persevere !


I lost a brother also.. flowerforyou
:heart: Thats one I will forever wonder about what life would have been like had he not chosen that path I'll miss him forever !And my best friend for over 30 yrs.Just could'nt break the grip no matter how hard we tried !flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/26/10 09:14 PM
Yep, I'm always exploring those things about life, mine and others.
One of the strange things about me..I'm always seeking more knowledge about the mysteries of life...

Hurts to lose people, yet I don't believe in accidents..a reason for everything, even the painful things. flowerforyou