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This sounds like you BOTH, can't reach each others true thoughts of how to LIVE HERE, let alone how to LOVE each other while HERE.
IF you feel he'swrong, then HE IS. Just as HE FEELS your wrong, as your always be! Whats the point of TRING anything? If YOU already have YOUR minds made-up? LOVE should not be done to making compromises, to HAVE LOVE. LOVE should allow compromises to be BOTH in agreements.....? YOUR NOT! HE'S NOT! Move-on.  But NEVER LOOK BACK! with regrets! |
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If you aren't going to put him before the animals, why should he put you before his money? Valid point. Maybe they just aren't right for each other. Different priorities in life. Its what it comes down to, but it was his priorities that changed over the time, not mine. If you have only been involved for 4 months, I doubt if his priorities have changed. My guess is, he was not totally honest from the start. Sorry, but that is the picture you are painting. If it is true, just feel lucky that you found out now, rather than a year from now. |
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You've been together 4 months...is he asking you to get rid of the animals? Actually he keeps asking to butcher them out and eat them. But where would you put a horse, 3 pbpigs, 4 turkeys, maybe 6 chickens, 5 steers, and 6 goats on 2 acres? That's animal abuse and mistreatment. He wants to just leave them at my folks. But the animals aren't all belonging to them and its not their responsibility. |
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Iam4u, you are exactly right, and while I am saddened, I don't regret it. He opened my eyes to interesting things.
Lewis, unfortunately you are probably correct on the lack of total honesty and that's what really frustrates me. |
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Equus- Stay strong. Once you allow someone to make decisions that rule your life, they continue to rule YOUR life.
Everyone else- Does anyone know what someone has to go through to move horses? The land has to be checked for vegitation that might harm the horse. You can not just plop a horse on acerage and expect the best. And on top of that Move the horse again in 2 years(let alone the rest of the other animals). That is stressfull on the animals. |
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Iam4u, you are exactly right, and while I am saddened, I don't regret it. He opened my eyes to interesting things. Lewis, unfortunately you are probably correct on the lack of total honesty and that's what really frustrates me. Been there. It sucks. You feel lied to, but the other person doesn't always see it that way. In their mind, they will paint you as stubborn and unwilling to see things their way. They will minimize YOUR strong feelings about something, in order to make it "your" fault, that the relationship didn't work out. But as I said, better you find out now, then a year from now. The more time you put into a relationship, the harder it would be. |
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Lewis is so wise!!
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You've been together 4 months...is he asking you to get rid of the animals? Actually he keeps asking to butcher them out and eat them. But where would you put a horse, 3 pbpigs, 4 turkeys, maybe 6 chickens, 5 steers, and 6 goats on 2 acres? --------------------------------------------------------------------- You ought to be able to have a pretty big freezer on two acres. And couldn't you name and feed the fish as your new pets? Sorry. I apologize profusely. Just felt like being a smartass.  |
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You've been together 4 months...is he asking you to get rid of the animals? Actually he keeps asking to butcher them out and eat them. But where would you put a horse, 3 pbpigs, 4 turkeys, maybe 6 chickens, 5 steers, and 6 goats on 2 acres? --------------------------------------------------------------------- You ought to be able to have a pretty big freezer on two acres. And couldn't you name and feed the fish as your new pets? Sorry. I apologize profusely. Just felt like being a smartass.  Sends a kick in the butt your way! LOL! |
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Iam4u, you are exactly right, and while I am saddened, I don't regret it. He opened my eyes to interesting things. Lewis, unfortunately you are probably correct on the lack of total honesty and that's what really frustrates me. Been there. It sucks. You feel lied to, but the other person doesn't always see it that way. In their mind, they will paint you as stubborn and unwilling to see things their way. They will minimize YOUR strong feelings about something, in order to make it "your" fault, that the relationship didn't work out. But as I said, better you find out now, then a year from now. The more time you put into a relationship, the harder it would be.
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Yes I can identify with men who fell they have to be dishonest.
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do not get rid of your animals, My guy I dated 4 8 months was jelous of me and my friend and family and my two dogs, he knew I loved so much
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do not get rid of your animals, My guy I dated 4 8 months was jelous of me and my friend and family and my two dogs, he knew I loved so much
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Lewis is so wise!! Lewis is wise, listen to what he has to say. |
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Some people tell so many lies, or not full truths they dont even know where they have messed up. But they always get caught.
Its what you decide to do that tells who you are, once you have caught them. |
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