there is this guy that i have known for over a year
i met him before i met this one guy that i met on mingle and i dated that guy for awhile and i ended up braking up with him for he turned out to be a chicken wimp for not wanting to communicate with me by telling me he didnt want to be with me any more and didnt want to hurt me, well he didnt he just pist me off by not being honest
well any how jeff and i got together shortly after and everything seem to be ok but after a few months his so call work pattern didnt even change for he is selfemployed as he works on computers.he made nothing but excuses and it was pissing me off more. when my daughter moved to tinian over the summer i had given him the computer so he could fix it and resell it and he was supose to give me the money so i could give it ot my daughter, its been 6months and all i have ever heard was excuses after another does it have to come to the point where i have to turn blue in the face.. and no he never gave me the money which was my mistak by not having him sign a paper saying e owes this or that
for i have no proof that i bought that computer a little over 4yrs ago.
well any how i had always had him fix my computer if i had a problem well this time when he put in windows 7 he messed it up where i couldnt do anything with it. for i had my neighbor brother put xp back in and to find out when jeff put window 7 in he should had known that my comupter didnt have the mega ram for it for computer 7 is to big. any computer guy should know that.. he was a idiot he didnt know squat, and then there was one nite i was trying to commuincate with him by phone and he kept texting me telling me how to download the software for my printer well there again he should had known that the printer i had didnt work on window 7,
he only comes over on his terms and you know thats not a relationship, my daughter went over to see him the other day and she said that he didnt invite her in but he talk to her outside like he was hiding something. well i can agree with that. i had always had a feeling he was hiding something a friend of mine last summer was at the park walking his dog as he lives close by there and he saw jeff walking with some lady and he said they were chummy, i didnt say anything for awhile to him and then i finally said we need to talk and we did on the phone, it would had been nicer to see his expression in person but he admited he was at the park but the person was a friend that was going through a divorce and needed someone to talk to, and he said they wernt chummy. but my friend roy that i have known for over 30yrs knows jeff from the area he used to live and often seen him with differnt woman. and he told me this way before jeff and i got together.. he doesnt like him either. my mom met him and she didnt like him at the start she saw him as nothing but a know it all
i had ask him one day how long was his longest relationships he said 3-10yrs (10yrs was with his ex wife)
i cant admagine how anyone was able to tolerate him not being around his work is more important to him than family or relationships he has proven that.. he told me last jan he had a heartattch. but that i dont belive for they wouldnt release anyone the next day
he also told his clients that he was going to have a 9-5 schedule.. LOL thats funny for he never kept that promise
well any how i sat down the other nite and wrote a 9 page letter to him stating what i was feeling and letting him know that were finished.. actually im my eyes we had been months ago. he a waste of my energy and i dont need him around. yes i know i deserve better we all do.

most of the poems i have written is based on him on how i have been feeling. im opening up that way which is good

any how i was talking to a friend of mine that is also a reader
and she was saying that she saw him as a player, well yea i had seen that for quit sometime, and why didnt i brake up with him before, actually i tried and he wouldnt let me... but i had email him. when i tried. and this time im sending him a reg letter so he can read it...
so i guess i would say that his shortest relationship wasent 3yrs for i beat his record for less than a year
he had me listen to a recording on his phone from a ex gf that was fliping out for he claimed she off her meds.. im wondering what actually why she was fliping out on him. and im thinking oh the next person he gets with he going to tell her that im a nut case as well.

LOL!!!

well hes history i dont need him in my life. i have known this for quit sometime, he hasent grown he will never will
hes nothing but a workaholic that thinks his work is the only important thing

he never hurt me. he wasent around enough to get to my emotions
the very first day i met him he told me he loved me..(yea right)
what attracted me to him was he has these AWSOME!! blue eyes oh there outstanding.. but his charm stinks.. for there is non for all he has shown has been lies

i know i can go on and on an i wont
i said the same thing in the letter after 9 pages i said i could go on and on...

Sounds like you're better off without him.

I agree with LA

9 pages eyh.....thats some heavy writing...
at least you know you deserve better and did something about it

Move on hun you did the right thing he would have just played with your emotions. Anna x

he didnt play with my emotions
he wasent around enough for him to even do so
sense my mom thought he was a know it all
im pretty sure he had thought he was gods gift in woman
LOL
dont think so
my ex hubby thought he was god gift to woman
thats pretty bad

my daughter couldnt stand him at the moment she met him
and when my older sister met him,
he had the nerve to ask me the next day if
she was high on drugs
my sisters dont do drugs
he had some nerve to ask that