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Hell is a piece of cake....Indianastan is something else again....! Hmmm, perhaps you should look to import, unless there's a law or something. Or flee Indianastan, unless they have armed guards at the borders with orders to shoot narcissistic authors that might be trying to escape. Loneliness is a self imposed prison.  Importing would be good, if there was anyone importable (that's probably not a word, either). As for fleeing Indianastan -- yeah, I've been trying to come up with a viable strategy to do that almost since I got here -- While loneliness has a definite downside, I have to admit that it's generally better than being with any of the people I've been involved with in the past -- so there's no perfect solution.... |
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Okay, seriously, Redsox, you need to e-mail me ASAP. Let's talk it out, and maybe we can help each other. We'll probably share some tears, but I'm there for you. God Bless. Just do it, contact me, I'm there for you. I lost someone too, Marilyn, she died on 5/18/04 and she was a big part of my life, I knew her for 18 years, and my heart was ripped out when she died. I loved that woman so much, and she didn't deserve to die that soon. You have friends here, Sox, just reach out.
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Don't feel so bad...I know how you feel...all the girls I went out with figured someone else is better than me and cheated...I was left with a broken heart that will never heal
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Yes, it sucks when you want something really badly and someone tells you to stop trying for it, but...
How about trying to stop spending time thinking about how no one loves you (in the way that you want) and just spend that time making new friends and spending time with old ones and giving them some love. Spending time with friends (single ones who are in the same boat as well as ones in a relationship who can remind you of all the bad stuff that goes along with it) will give you a chance to get out and meet new people (new "possibles") as well as be a distraction from the thing you want but don't have yet. I've not been on here in a while (last time was this past August), but when I was... I made friends online as well as met those I could in person... and, well... the site works. I have friends I truly love... as well as got way more than I thought at the time I wanted. Yep, think you don't want it, stop looking for it, and it sneaks up and is suddenly there. I wish you the best of luck. |
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Yes, it sucks when you want something really badly and someone tells you to stop trying for it, but... How about trying to stop spending time thinking about how no one loves you (in the way that you want) and just spend that time making new friends and spending time with old ones and giving them some love. Spending time with friends (single ones who are in the same boat as well as ones in a relationship who can remind you of all the bad stuff that goes along with it) will give you a chance to get out and meet new people (new "possibles") as well as be a distraction from the thing you want but don't have yet. I've not been on here in a while (last time was this past August), but when I was... I made friends online as well as met those I could in person... and, well... the site works. I have friends I truly love... as well as got way more than I thought at the time I wanted. Yep, think you don't want it, stop looking for it, and it sneaks up and is suddenly there. I wish you the best of luck. ain't that the truth!!! huge hugs my dear, dear friend, and i agree totally   
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Edited by
alternativa
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Wed 03/17/10 05:39 PM
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I've not been on here in a while (last time was this past August), but when I was... I made friends online as well as met those I could in person... and, well... the site works. I have friends I truly love... as well as got way more than I thought at the time I wanted. Yep, think you don't want it, stop looking for it, and it sneaks up and is suddenly there. I wish you the best of luck. ain't that the truth!!! huge hugs my dear, dear friend, and i agree totally  recognizing yourself as one of those I was speaking of? I put a reminder about your visit and a (hint! hint!) in my profile for you today... no more delays! It's been 2 and a half months since you were here. COME! |
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Don't feel bad, every guy I thought I liked ended up being gay. Every single one of them.
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 wow! I've had some gay friends, but I always knew they were... even before some "came out of the closet". I can't imagine finding out AFTER I allowed myself to start liking them that way! Ouch! That would really suck. |
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wow! I've had some gay friends, but I always knew they were... even before some "came out of the closet". I can't imagine finding out AFTER I allowed myself to start liking them that way! Ouch! That would really suck. That it does...... |
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I know how that goes...I dated a girl that dumped me for a girl that I once dated
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I dated a guy whose gf dumped him for the girl they had the 3way with before he was able to dump her for the same girl. People are nasty, aren't they?
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That would be willing, and able to love me???  I feel like noone ever will I just feel like giving up on the whole 'love' thing!!   I can RELATE to THAT!!!  Maybe,,,just MAYBE,,,WE could jump off the SAME BRIDGE together????????  WELL,,,,people would then say we,,MUST HAVE BEEN IN LOVE!!! Red,,truly,,,I do believe this in my heart,,ALL OF US shall have someone fall in-love with us some day,,,NOW,,,when that time happens?? Only GOD and Cupid know that answer,,,but,,I do have some ties to Cupids family,,,,so maybe I can get him to give it up,,,on OUR when,,,,,wink,
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I dated a guy whose gf dumped him for the girl they had the 3way with before he was able to dump her for the same girl. People are nasty, aren't they? |
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That would be willing, and able to love me??? I feel like noone ever will I just feel like giving up on the whole 'love' thing!! I can RELATE to THAT!!! Maybe,,,just MAYBE,,,WE could jump off the SAME BRIDGE together???????? WELL,,,,people would then say we,,MUST HAVE BEEN IN LOVE!!! Red,,truly,,,I do believe this in my heart,,ALL OF US shall have someone fall in-love with us some day,,,NOW,,,when that time happens?? Only GOD and Cupid know that answer,,,but,,I do have some ties to Cupids family,,,,so maybe I can get him to give it up,,,on OUR when,,,,,wink,  I would love to find you!! LOL!! Love ya!!
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You know I guess I like the feeling of feeling loved by someone. But, the minute a guy says he loves me (usually doesn't) I get scared & run!! I just can't seem to deal with a guy really caring about me. I've only had that once in my life & threw it away out of fear. It's like I'm afraid I can't live upto someones expectations. Now, that me & my ex split 3 years ago (the only guy who really loved me) I really don't think I could be faithful to one guy. Reason I'm not wanting in a relationship. Plus, I enjoy my freedom too much now.
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I dated a guy whose gf dumped him for the girl they had the 3way with before he was able to dump her for the same girl. People are nasty, aren't they? He turned out to be a raving psychotic. I wonder why I have such a thing for crazy? |
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Try giving your love to others on the community forums ,and i bet you will get yours back in 10 fold.
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Try giving your love to others on the community forums ,and i bet you will get yours back in 10 fold. Never ever give up no matter what. There are lots of friends here who care about and love you. |
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Try giving your love to others on the community forums ,and i bet you will get yours back in 10 fold. Never ever give up no matter what. There are lots of friends here who care about and love you. YES WE DO......  |
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Edited by
DunScamMe
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Wed 03/17/10 08:30 PM
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That would be willing, and able to love me??? I feel like noone ever will I just feel like giving up on the whole 'love' thing!! Supposedly there is someone for everyone and to some extent I believe that. However I think it's exactly as it's worded. "someONE". I met my someone and we were happy for 7 years but,, anyway. As I move through life however, that someONE line of thought becomes truer and truer. One in 9 billion and some change- is kind of hard to find if you haven't found him or her yet. |
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