Ya think??

What I'm looking for is simple. Someone I get along with, who makes me laugh, who isn't going to try and change me into someone I'm not. Someone who has some things in common with me, but also likes to try new things. Somoene who actually likes to go out and do things, rather than sitting home all the time.

I'm not into guys who are always negative about women, always putting themselves down or who are still bitter about their last relationship. Or guys who assume all women are the same and just want money.

Exactly. Expect that type of woman and that's exactly what you're going to get.

Well U are so beautiful any guy would wanna shag U!! I mean snag U!!

After reading the responses, I must say, im very impressed. It blows me away that any of you wonderful ladies are single.

The question was for the ladies, about the kind of men they like. I hope someone tops you off soon though, your awfully shallow. Dennis

Hmmmm I would like a guy who is confident with out a GIANT ego. For some reason guys think they need to impress us. I don't know maybe some women do need that but I sure don't. What really gets my attention the most is someone who is themselves no regardless of what anyone else thinks. How am I suppose to love and respect someone who doesn't love an respect their self enough to be who they really are.

ALSO- I like tall, dark hair, light eyes, handsome and tattooed

I'm not Dennis. My original post was tongue in cheek (hence the lauging smiley's) but was attacked as a serious barb, so I made the mistake of going one step further. That was my fault. However, after reading more of this thread I realize what women really want is a man that bends to their opinions and will.

Guarentee that was aimed at me, but that's okay I'm a well hated man and used to my sense of humor getting me in trouble. It's nice to see that one woman, TxGal, actually got the joke. It made it worth the hatred I'll receive for days. Not that anyone on here would ever be petty.

I've found that the guys who think they have to impress us also feel we need to work hard to impress them. That gets old very quickly.

Not doing so well with your guesses, huh?

Funny you should say that, especially since your apparantly looking for a man. I'll take my shallow ring of water anyday

that's not necessarily true. i don't expect to be impressed, but i do expect to not be toyed with.

and maybe some of us think we have to impress because we've seen how finicky some women can be.

myka said she likes a guy who's confident and has a sense of self. however, she also says that she like tall, dark, handsome, and tattooed. if a guy doesn't fit the bill physically, and he wants to get her attention, then he's likely going to try something to impress her.


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It's all about preferences. I love dark hair on guys. Does that mean I'm only going to be attracted to and want to date guys with dark hair? No. I also like tattoos on guys. Does that mean I'm only going to go for guys with tattoos? Of course not. It also does not mean that those who do not have dark hair or tattoos are going to have to try to impress me. Those who do that come off as trying too hard.

Crap ! Im only 5'8", have dark (brown) eye's, and no tatoo's. No comment on the handsome, except that I think I was kinda handsome when I was younger. Looks like im still ridin alone

I meant ever word of it

I would like a man who doesn't need to downgrade others to feel better about himself. A man who has his goal in life in sight or has reached it. A man who feels that woman are just as deserving of respect and value as men are. A man who believes that our purpose in a relationship is to attend to life together, supporting and enjoying each other along the way. Etc...

Maybe a man who can ask for directions, I have met a couple so I know they are out there