Topic: perverting the cause of justice
Seakolony's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:41 AM

Hmmm....mingle with jingle pervs? Just wondered why men like to be known as a pervert? In the real world it just doesn't make sense....would you be perving the girl sitting next to you on the bus or train or at work....it makes me feel sick! You know gals the ones that like to get a kick out of you...not champagne I hasten to add all for what? Is there real justification in males perverting the cause of justice in just being truthful....honest, oh you know the type of mail that says I feel horny....It is a defo no no for me so anyone have any views on perverts?

All men are a bit of a perv and only because they are the chasers and it is their lot in life......now that females sexuality are being accepted men are finding they aren't the only ones enjoying sex....does looking at that guys as s make me a perv probably do I care what other people think? No I really do not.......

msharmony's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:45 AM

As a semi- pro, I know one indisputable fact....EVERYONE likes being flirted with. It signifies a form of attraction and everyone likes to feel that they are attractive in some reguard. (Show me the person who says that they don't like feeling attractive and I will show you a liar).

Perving is a form of flirting. I am reffering to oogling and making scandelous innuendos. Not, getting a stiffy from wearing a Minnie Pearl dress.

The poor soul who would rather never be looked at in a lustful way has got real issues......or would gripe about "no one ever perv's me!!!!!"



there is a difference between flirting and perving,,, kind of like the difference between a kiss on the mouth and an all out open mouthed tongue battle,,,

but, there are women for all types , I didnt mind a little perving at one point in my life,, when I was still figuring out what worked best for me,....

freeonthree's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:47 AM
If I was romantically interested in a woman here, and I asked her to meet me on some website where I have my pics and we can chat (I perfer regular email myself), and she refused to go there, or email with me, or even talk on the phone, I would simply forget about her at that point. Life is way too short to waste time with overly suspecious people. Big deal, you go to some website, you find out the person is a freak, and you forget about him or her, and warn others, problem solved. Personally, I think all this internet fear goin round, makes it difficult to get to know anyone online.
I've met chicks on Yahoo, went to their webpage, saw it was porn, and wrote the freak off, no problem. Innocent before proven guilty is still my way of thinking, internet or not. I think some people are just wound way to tight. Relax and enjoy, and if you meet a creep along the way, write em off, block them, and move on. Dennis

krupa's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:48 AM
Dang it Sea!

Please! Don't!!!

STOP LOOKING AT MY @SS!!!


Please don't!
Stop!!!

Please don't stop looking at my @ss!!!







(I actually did a painting based on this)

Seakolony's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:51 AM

Dang it Sea!

Please! Don't!!!

STOP LOOKING AT MY @SS!!!


Please don't!
Stop!!!

Please don't stop looking at my @ss!!!




(I actually did a painting based on this)


I won't I swear!!!:wink: I really am a female perv, I swear!!! laugh :tongue: happy

hmlover's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:52 AM
Edited by hmlover on Fri 06/25/10 10:54 AM

If I was romantically interested in a woman here, and I asked her to meet me on some website where I have my pics and we can chat (I perfer regular email myself), and she refused to go there, or email with me, or even talk on the phone, I would simply forget about her at that point. Life is way too short to waste time with overly suspecious people. Big deal, you go to some website, you find out the person is a freak, and you forget about him or her, and warn others, problem solved. Personally, I think all this internet fear goin round, makes it difficult to get to know anyone online.
I've met chicks on Yahoo, went to their webpage, saw it was porn, and wrote the freak off, no problem. Innocent before proven guilty is still my way of thinking, internet or not. I think some people are just wound way to tight. Relax and enjoy, and if you meet a creep along the way, write em off, block them, and move on. Dennis


While I see your point, and agree that people can be overly cautious, I think a lot of that caution is warranted. Have you ever got sucked into a site only to find out it infested your computer with viruses and spyware? It happens more than you might think, even with software that supposedly protects you from it. There really isn't anything you can't do on this site that you'd have to do on another. Now, some common sense applies here, like moving to email, telephone, or even a Facebook page, but generally speaking that still should probably only take place when you're both comfortable in doing so, and that would usually be after at least a few exchanges back on forth on this site (or whatever other site you might be working from). The one's you have to look out for are people trying to get you to go to another site right from the get-go...

freeonthree's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:54 AM


But what if they were just pics of his Harley, his boat, and his house ? Why is he guilty right out of the gate ?


Because scammers and perverts have made that a dangerous thing to do... that's just reality on the Internet. 99% of the time, if someone is trying to get you to go to another site, it's because they want you to click on their affiliate link to make money.


So what, they make a 5 cents, and you write them off, no problem.

msmyka's photo
Fri 06/25/10 10:55 AM
Depends on the person really. If it's a great looking guy with a nice smile and a great bod, hes a flirt. If it's a fat, nasty old man he's a perv. They could do/ say the same exact thing and would typically be considered completely different by most women.

freeonthree's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:03 AM


If I was romantically interested in a woman here, and I asked her to meet me on some website where I have my pics and we can chat (I perfer regular email myself), and she refused to go there, or email with me, or even talk on the phone, I would simply forget about her at that point. Life is way too short to waste time with overly suspecious people. Big deal, you go to some website, you find out the person is a freak, and you forget about him or her, and warn others, problem solved. Personally, I think all this internet fear goin round, makes it difficult to get to know anyone online.
I've met chicks on Yahoo, went to their webpage, saw it was porn, and wrote the freak off, no problem. Innocent before proven guilty is still my way of thinking, internet or not. I think some people are just wound way to tight. Relax and enjoy, and if you meet a creep along the way, write em off, block them, and move on. Dennis


While I see your point, and agree that people can be overly cautious, I think a lot of that caution is warranted. Have you ever got sucked into a site only to find out it infested your computer with viruses and spyware? It happens more than you might think, even with software that supposedly protects you from it. There really isn't anything you can't do on this site that you'd have to do on another. Now, some common sense applies here, like moving to email, telephone, or even a Facebook page, but generally speaking that still should probably only take place when you're both comfortable in doing so, and that would usually be after at least a few exchanges back on forth on this site (or whatever other site you might be working from). The one's you have to look out for are people trying to get you to go to another site right from the get-go...


OK, I see your point, but if I meet someone, and talk for a week or more, and she's still suspecious of me, screw her, and the horse she rode in on, period. Dennis

no photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:05 AM


If I was romantically interested in a woman here, and I asked her to meet me on some website where I have my pics and we can chat (I perfer regular email myself), and she refused to go there, or email with me, or even talk on the phone, I would simply forget about her at that point. Life is way too short to waste time with overly suspecious people. Big deal, you go to some website, you find out the person is a freak, and you forget about him or her, and warn others, problem solved. Personally, I think all this internet fear goin round, makes it difficult to get to know anyone online.
I've met chicks on Yahoo, went to their webpage, saw it was porn, and wrote the freak off, no problem. Innocent before proven guilty is still my way of thinking, internet or not. I think some people are just wound way to tight. Relax and enjoy, and if you meet a creep along the way, write em off, block them, and move on. Dennis


While I see your point, and agree that people can be overly cautious, I think a lot of that caution is warranted. Have you ever got sucked into a site only to find out it infested your computer with viruses and spyware? It happens more than you might think, even with software that supposedly protects you from it. There really isn't anything you can't do on this site that you'd have to do on another. Now, some common sense applies here, like moving to email, telephone, or even a Facebook page, but generally speaking that still should probably only take place when you're both comfortable in doing so, and that would usually be after at least a few exchanges back on forth on this site (or whatever other site you might be working from). The one's you have to look out for are people trying to get you to go to another site right from the get-go...


Yep...what he said! :thumbsup:

I might add, some of these folks are not just luring folks to other sites, they are workin' their game to get folks to send them money and they know just what to say to lure you in, especially those not so saavy to Internet dating sites....it happens all the time, to seemingly intelligent people.

Seakolony's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:05 AM
Edited by Seakolony on Fri 06/25/10 11:21 AM



If I was romantically interested in a woman here, and I asked her to meet me on some website where I have my pics and we can chat (I perfer regular email myself), and she refused to go there, or email with me, or even talk on the phone, I would simply forget about her at that point. Life is way too short to waste time with overly suspecious people. Big deal, you go to some website, you find out the person is a freak, and you forget about him or her, and warn others, problem solved. Personally, I think all this internet fear goin round, makes it difficult to get to know anyone online.
I've met chicks on Yahoo, went to their webpage, saw it was porn, and wrote the freak off, no problem. Innocent before proven guilty is still my way of thinking, internet or not. I think some people are just wound way to tight. Relax and enjoy, and if you meet a creep along the way, write em off, block them, and move on. Dennis

While I see your point, and agree that people can be overly cautious, I think a lot of that caution is warranted. Have you ever got sucked into a site only to find out it infested your computer with viruses and spyware? It happens more than you might think, even with software that supposedly protects you from it. There really isn't anything you can't do on this site that you'd have to do on another. Now, some common sense applies here, like moving to email, telephone, or even a Facebook page, but generally speaking that still should probably only take place when you're both comfortable in doing so, and that would usually be after at least a few exchanges back on forth on this site (or whatever other site you might be working from). The one's you have to look out for are people trying to get you to go to another site right from the get-go...


OK, I see your point, but if I meet someone, and talk for a week or more, and she's still suspecious of me, screw her, and the horse she rode in on, period. Dennis

a week that's all you give wow, to know that you are real.

msmyka's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:08 AM
Edited by msmyka on Fri 06/25/10 11:17 AM

Depends on the person really. If it's a great looking guy with a nice smile and a great bod, hes a flirt. If it's a fat, nasty old man he's a perv. They could do/ say the same exact thing and would typically be considered completely different by most women.


Let me clarify, I didn't mean to say that's what I think.... just seems to be the way society treats this situation.

krupa's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:14 AM
Actually Myka....that is a spot on accurate statement.

msmyka's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:18 AM
I know, and it IS sad.

freeonthree's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:24 AM



Depends on the person really. If it's a great looking guy with a nice smile and a great bod, hes a flirt. If it's a fat, nasty old man he's a perv. They could do/ say the same exact thing and would typically be considered completely different by most women.


Thats really sad...


Let me clarify, I didn't mean to say that's what I think.... just seems to be the way society treats this situation.


Whew ! Thats a releif bigsmile
People need to realize that their looks won't last forever. When I was young, I guess I was really cute, because I used to get hit on all the time, and could not even have a steady GF because of it. I was like a kid in a candy store. Turned out, the attraction was always the same, and went no further, purely physical and very boring. It's depressing when ya have nothing in comon but sport sex.
Maybe if I hadn't been so shallow back then, I would have married an average girl, that I had something in comon with, and had a nice family now. Today, sex is on the bottom of the list for me. Probably just induce a heart attack anyway bigsmile

freeonthree's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:28 AM




If I was romantically interested in a woman here, and I asked her to meet me on some website where I have my pics and we can chat (I perfer regular email myself), and she refused to go there, or email with me, or even talk on the phone, I would simply forget about her at that point. Life is way too short to waste time with overly suspecious people. Big deal, you go to some website, you find out the person is a freak, and you forget about him or her, and warn others, problem solved. Personally, I think all this internet fear goin round, makes it difficult to get to know anyone online.
I've met chicks on Yahoo, went to their webpage, saw it was porn, and wrote the freak off, no problem. Innocent before proven guilty is still my way of thinking, internet or not. I think some people are just wound way to tight. Relax and enjoy, and if you meet a creep along the way, write em off, block them, and move on. Dennis

While I see your point, and agree that people can be overly cautious, I think a lot of that caution is warranted. Have you ever got sucked into a site only to find out it infested your computer with viruses and spyware? It happens more than you might think, even with software that supposedly protects you from it. There really isn't anything you can't do on this site that you'd have to do on another. Now, some common sense applies here, like moving to email, telephone, or even a Facebook page, but generally speaking that still should probably only take place when you're both comfortable in doing so, and that would usually be after at least a few exchanges back on forth on this site (or whatever other site you might be working from). The one's you have to look out for are people trying to get you to go to another site right from the get-go...


OK, I see your point, but if I meet someone, and talk for a week or more, and she's still suspecious of me, screw her, and the horse she rode in on, period. Dennis

a week that's all you give wow, to know that you are real.


Absolutely. If I can't tell wether your for real or not, in a week of chatting every day, then I got a serious problem.

msmyka's photo
Fri 06/25/10 11:30 AM




Depends on the person really. If it's a great looking guy with a nice smile and a great bod, hes a flirt. If it's a fat, nasty old man he's a perv. They could do/ say the same exact thing and would typically be considered completely different by most women.


Thats really sad...


Let me clarify, I didn't mean to say that's what I think.... just seems to be the way society treats this situation.


Whew ! Thats a releif bigsmile
People need to realize that their looks won't last forever. When I was young, I guess I was really cute, because I used to get hit on all the time, and could not even have a steady GF because of it. I was like a kid in a candy store. Turned out, the attraction was always the same, and went no further, purely physical and very boring. It's depressing when ya have nothing in comon but sport sex.
Maybe if I hadn't been so shallow back then, I would have married an average girl, that I had something in comon with, and had a nice family now. Today, sex is on the bottom of the list for me. Probably just induce a heart attack anyway bigsmile


I realized after I saw your comment how it could have been taken, MY BAD lol.... I'm really not shallow I swear!

markc48's photo
Fri 06/25/10 12:00 PM


I would say most folks dislike those types of e-mails, but there is a certain element, male and female, here and on other dating sites, of folks who are pervs, for whatever reason...they're bored, they're lookin for somethin more than what they have at home, they're trying to lure folks to smut sites...whatever. whoa I view those e-mails as testing the water to see whether I'm a fellow perv or not. I delete them and move on. Not really worth my time gettin' all worked about them because the folks with honorable intentions out number them considerably, but if you're having a paricular problem with someone, you can report them, and they will be handled accordingly by Admin.
i agree with this.not a thing to get worked up over.


however dont most people male or female deep down rather typed in words have some perversion in them at times? and i ask this to everyone....
now for me i like a lil perversion from my man at times.. just as long as i am the only one he is perverting lol!!!!!!!!
Other wise we wouldn't be chasing after you.:wink:

freeonthree's photo
Fri 06/25/10 12:46 PM


Depends on the person really. If it's a great looking guy with a nice smile and a great bod, hes a flirt. If it's a fat, nasty old man he's a perv. They could do/ say the same exact thing and would typically be considered completely different by most women.


Let me clarify, I didn't mean to say that's what I think.... just seems to be the way society treats this situation.


Thats really sad, and your right. Im pretty sure there's plenty of perverted good looking people out there. Just because im not attracted physically to someone, im not going to consider that person a perve if they hit on me. That would be ridiculas.

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Fri 06/25/10 01:02 PM



I would say most folks dislike those types of e-mails, but there is a certain element, male and female, here and on other dating sites, of folks who are pervs, for whatever reason...they're bored, they're lookin for somethin more than what they have at home, they're trying to lure folks to smut sites...whatever. whoa I view those e-mails as testing the water to see whether I'm a fellow perv or not. I delete them and move on. Not really worth my time gettin' all worked about them because the folks with honorable intentions out number them considerably, but if you're having a paricular problem with someone, you can report them, and they will be handled accordingly by Admin.
i agree with this.not a thing to get worked up over.


however dont most people male or female deep down rather typed in words have some perversion in them at times? and i ask this to everyone....
now for me i like a lil perversion from my man at times.. just as long as i am the only one he is perverting lol!!!!!!!!


I'm thinkin' I'm pleadin' the 5th on this one! :angel:
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