YEA! HAHAHA

I guess I left out a little information. My girlfriend and I are currently living in separate cities for the next few months since she has a conference with her school/work (She's in medical school). So we made the rules that we are aloud to flirt with other people but not go any further than that... Which is why I was allowing myself to text her. Just want to make that part clear. But yeah, I know the whole guy rule about dating friend's ex's and would never want to put a girl between myself and my very good friend. Maybe it's just the lack of physically being with my girlfriend for a little while that is making me feel this way. I really do love my girlfriend and I would NEVER cheat on ANYONE. I've been cheated on before in the past and know just what it feels like, so therefor I'd never put another person through that situation. I guess maybe I've already made up my mind then... Stick with my current girlfriend. Afterall, she's there for the long run.... The other girl wouldn't be.

What should you do? Stop "talking" to your BF's ex-girls and focus on what you have "at home". Regardless if they've been split x-amount of time, that is a line you should not cross.

Not to mention disrespecting your gf.

P.S. Those "feelings" you have are probably LUST! lol

Well as I just stated above, I'm not disrespecting my girlfriend. Her and I allowed each other to flirt with other people while we are away from each other but only so long as we do not physically do anything sexual. Therefor I have not done anything to disrespect her since she said it was fine. But yes, I do agree with you... It is probably just lust.

I guess I don't understand how you and your girlfriend can have an agreement to flirt around but hey whatever!! Is your relationship with your girlfriend that serious? I would say NO if you have that kind of agreement..maybe you both need to figure out where you stand with each other.
I don't know about men, but women have this unspoken code!! WE DO NOT DATE OR SLEEP WITH OUR FRIENDS EX'S NO MATTER WHAT!! I think a friendship is so much more valuable then sleeping or dating one of my friends ex's...you just don't do it!!!
Why would you even have your best friend's ex girlfriends number? Even if you all hang-out..that is not a good thing!!! You are just asking for problems, esp after you said this is not a girl that would be there for you in the long run! DELETE HER NUMBER!! Does your best friend know that you are talking to her? OH WHAT TANGLED WEBS WE WEAVE MY FRIEND!!
Sometimes I think IF we would just focus on the relationship we are in and try to make that stronger...then things like this would never happen!!
Good Luck on making the right decision

I say dump your girl, stop talking to this other girl, and then go play with yourself until your hormones calm down, then go for a beer with your friend.

dont forget the doughnuts....

Or..... you could leave the best friends Ex alone, seeing as that line should not have been crossed to begin with. Then call the ex, and maybe "modify" your flirting agreement to full out doing other people, and then there's no issue! lol But make sure you call her and modify your agreement first, just so your not "cheating" lol

Makes no sense. Why be in a committed relationship then? If you start flirting, talking, etc....you better believe it will eventually get physical.

Well for one thing do you honestly want to date another version of you? are you really that great? Nobody wants to date themselves. Sounds like she would be a good person to talk to about things but i don't think you should leave your gf for someone like yourself. and i agree with them below it sounds like lust because if someone is like you in "those" ways then they understand but if you both know what you both like where is the fun at? and even though your GF says it's "okay" trust me it's not "okay" because if it was neither one of you "love" each other in a real "im in love" kind of way. It is never "okay". and what about the unwritten rule? never date your friends Ex's. Ever. Period. and they are also right about you being 19. your still like a 16 year old boy mentally. You think with your **** and not your heart. if you don't stop "talking" to this other girl more than person in the equation is going to get hurt and your just going to end up alone in the end anyways. and another thing about this being allowed to flirt ****, it only depends on who came up with the rule and who agreed to it. If you came up with that bullshi* then your gf really does care and would prefer you not to do that. but if she came up with it, then guess what she's doing right about now...