If your date was to ask what are your top three faults/flaws, what will you admit to? Or do you believe in putting your best foot forward and slowly let the flaws seep out? :)

For me, full disclosure is a good thing, and its better to be underestimated. Its all about seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

My three flaws: overly arrogant, self centered, and loud. :)

I'd have a hard time narrowing it down! I'll go with control-freak, opinionated, and unorganized.

Since I got divorced I discovered that I don't have any faults.

LOL...Same here!

I'm a Mr. Smarty Pants. Can't help it. I just think I'm right about most things. I'm learning rapidly when to keep my mouth shut. Sites like this are useful for dissapating the urge.

I've enjoyed your comments though artlo - must be we share the same fault as we seem to agree on most things.

Its so nice to find someone here who understands that remark.

Thanx Tao. I get a lot of abuse over in the politics forum. I've laid some eggs, and gotten caught at it. That's part of the game.

The flaw question is hard for me to answer and I dread getting it. I would say that paaperwork clutter would be mine but that's about it. I have spent a lifetime of making my weaknesses into my strengths. When I am made aware of a fault and I agree, it's does'nt stay a fault for long.

Anyone who has been divorced should understand it...lol

I'm with you, Cold. I don't mind telling dates I have faults--we all do and they'll find out anyway if they stick around! lol Which three to choose??? I'm not always sweet and happy, have a temper and like to get my own way!

that one's a b*tch, ain't it?

I'd be honest from the beginning, of course I wouldn't go overboard either like I'm in a confession room.

I'm a procrastinator, too lighthearted, and very indecisive.

Ok...

Totally unorganised

Refuse to deal with problems if it involves upseting someone. People tend to find this frustrating.

if something is going to go wrong it is going to happen to me and no matter what it is i wil find someway to make it fun. although it does seem to work out in the end. This seems to frustrate people as well, maybe because i dont like to see anything as a problem that might muck up my fairytale world.

I always say anything about myself straight away so that nobody gets more of a shock then they have to.

I have a control issue...if I'm not in control then I don't want to play

I'm unpredictable...especially to myself...sometimes I don't like something or someone for no good reason...like The Simpsons..just typing that makes me grind my teeth...why I don't know

I am the queen of procrastination...then I whine until I either do what I didn't want to do or the deadline passes...

I don't think I would tell all that to a date...he would run screaming from the restaurant....but I am who I am so it will eventually leak out...hopefully before weddings and such...

Wow, I totally understand that. I also am no longer crazy or have a memory problem.

I have long, complicated conversations with myself.

I get angry sometimes when I start feeling worthless, usually when I'm really bored. I just need some space for a little bit. Angry words might come out, but they aren't focused at you. As someone who is constantly engaged in their philosophy, I've been a lot of ways. Suffice to say that a few moments left their mark.

With any problem it can be reasonably applied to, I tend to just eliminate the problem completely. Cross the bridge and set it ablaze. So while it is a fact that our mind can now not be changed, the problem is now completely neutralized.

Me too. I have arguments with myself too. We don't always agree.

Jellybean, you talk to yourself because you don't believe in God.

As for me, what are my flaws? Well, some people would say that I am opinionated. And it is true that I do have opinions, but I am open to others' viewpoints, so that is not it.

Hmmm, some women are thrown off because of my intellect. But then again, I like being intelligent, so that is not it.

I like working out and that can be considered to be vain. Then again, a healthy body is a happy body, so that is not it.

I do not need to take the blue pills with the V on them, so that is not it.

This is tougher than it seems.

What are my flaws?

Hmmmm.

OK, I have one.

I love yammies.

Is that a flaw?

Let's put that down.

stubborn to ask for help
not physically active (outside of dancing)
not authoritative enough with my kids

I cant think of anything else I would want to work on(which is how I think of a 'flaw'). Pretty happy with everything else about me.