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whobedat Joined Sat 01/07/12 Posts: 141	Sat 01/14/12 07:21 AM
why is it that good girls date bad guys?

whobedat Joined Sat 01/07/12 Posts: 141	Sat 01/14/12 07:29 AM
i have been observing with dismay, why bad guys have good times with good girls, is it ttheir swag. Or ignoraance on the part of the ladies, or does it means they love lies and deceit? After they would be complaining he has broken my heart???? Or is it a crime to be transparent and take u for granted?

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 01/14/12 07:40 AM Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 01/14/12 07:44 AM
Good and bad are in the eyes of the beholder. But this question has been asked here many times before. It also has been answered. Women are attracted to men who are or appear to be confident. Confident means brave. Often brazen men are mistaken for being confident. Men need to realize this and not be so afraid of women. Yet they still complain because it appears to them, that women like "bad" men and they consider themselves to be "nice guys." If you are confident, and also a nice guy, you will attract the women.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76372	Sat 01/14/12 07:42 AM
Because most of the guys that refer themselves as so called "Good Guys" end up to be mommy's boys and wimp's.... Myself I want a man that acts like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it....

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 01/14/12 07:45 AM
To the OP...it's a myth dude.A generalization of falsified rewritten information that was once a rumor that has became a false untruthful fact.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 01/14/12 07:51 AM
To the OP...it's a myth dude.A generalization of falsified rewritten information that was once a rumor that has became a false untruthful fact. It could also be that some men who think they are nice guys, are really not.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 01/14/12 07:52 AM
<--------HOW ABOUT A NICE SMILE. You look a little angry here.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 01/14/12 09:11 AM
Because most of the guys that refer themselves as so called "Good Guys" end up to be mommy's boys and wimp's.... Myself I want a man that acts like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it.... THERE YOU GO GIRL self defined 'good' guys are often the mommys boys and wimps there are also good guys who can stand on their own and handle adversity or , like my co mingler stated above ACTS like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it,,,

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/14/12 09:18 AM
Dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is Good in everyone!!!! Ok...some go Really bad........ But an average person has both good and bad qualities. Find a woman with a balance... and she will appreciate the balance in you as well. No one is truly good.....or bad. Well, Except me......... I am Bad..... But I'm Good at it!!!!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 01/14/12 09:49 AM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Sat 01/14/12 09:50 AM
why is it that good girls date bad guys? the thrill of getting used and hurt, its a turn on to them. certain girls don't wanna be with a saint. they're boring. i haven't understood women going there either. thank god i got out of it.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 01/14/12 09:50 AM
Because most of the guys that refer themselves as so called "Good Guys" end up to be mommy's boys and wimp's.... Myself I want a man that acts like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it.... Definitely.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 01/15/12 02:31 PM
why is it that good girls date bad guys? Why is it that men make these generalizations?