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Topic: personal question
sohailnayak's photo
Tue 09/18/12 10:27 PM
Why do girls put me down and nvr care even wen i strive 4 luv oef a partner. Ply help

kc0003's photo
Tue 09/18/12 10:33 PM
would this be "all" girls or just the ones you seek out?

Totage's photo
Tue 09/18/12 10:35 PM
If you present yourself carelessly and with lack of respect, you will get treated in that way. Perhaps it's the way you carry yourself and interact with them that prompts them to treat in such ways. IDK

eileena9's photo
Tue 09/18/12 10:36 PM
Can't answer your question because you didn't write anything about yourself on your profile and I don't know what you are like. (Are you rude? Unkempt? Obnoxious? Pushy? Maybe that is why they put you down.)

dontbitemuch's photo
Tue 09/18/12 11:17 PM
You are speaking about reactions of others towards you - what actions are you taking to provoke negativity from women?

If you are open, honest and love who you are then you will be showing everyone your best side - this should get you the reaction that you deserve.

....take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye....

explore30's photo
Wed 09/19/12 01:24 AM
Well. You look handsome. Nice appearance. Maybe your business like looks is not appealing to everybody. Maybe a more relaxed like looking photo will be more eye catching. Try.

wux's photo
Wed 09/19/12 05:43 AM
Edited by wux on Wed 09/19/12 05:44 AM

Why do girls put me down and nvr care even wen i strive 4 luv oef a partner. Ply help


I don't know. I am in the same boat as you.

Except in my case it is more oviously a wish for sex than for love. Love is easy to get. And care. Break your leg, and you are cared for by women in the hospital.

But sex... is much, much harder to come by. You practically have to pay for it. In one way or in another. And then you pay big amounts.

It never used to be like this, back 20 years ago or more.

sohailnayak's photo
Wed 09/19/12 07:00 AM
Thnks 4 all ur responses.about myself? M down 2 earth person simple. Loving caring .dunno hw 2 dfine0 myself. Can just say dat i m alone. Bad luck alwåys favoured my luv life. No 1 lovs me even if i give my evrything 2 including my life. I tried àll means even death but no 1 cared! I wish any 1 2 luv me but dont know y no1 does. is my life 2 go in vain? Had a lot! Wish it ends but always i try 2 propse i get a big reject n whén i try 2 end my lífe, i always end up nd hv 2 live dis lonely life. Any1 plz hlp gimme advice.i do not dzire sex only true love.

sohailnayak's photo
Wed 09/19/12 07:17 AM

Thnks 4 all ur responses.about myself? M down 2 earth person simple. Loving caring .dunno hw 2 dfine0 myself. Can just say dat i m alone. Bad luck alwåys favoured my luv life. No 1 lovs me even if i give my evrything 2 including my life. I tried àll means even death but no 1 cared! I wish any 1 2 luv me but dont know y no1 does. is my life 2 go in vain? Had a lot! Wish it ends but always i try 2 propse i get a big reject n whén i try 2 end my lífe, i always end up nd hv 2 live dis lonely life. Any1 plz hlp gimme advice.i do not dzire sex only true love.

sohailnayak's photo
Wed 09/19/12 07:22 AM
M i unlúcky

Hikerjohn's photo
Wed 09/19/12 07:46 AM
shalom alekum My friend.

If you permit me to say, is it possible you are looking for love to do more than it can? You seem to be looking for a relationship of love to bring you peace and contentment. Wouldn't It be better to seek peace and contentment then find love?

A woman's love cannot do this for you any more than your love will do this for her. And when a woman sees how much you need from her, it will scare her away.

You are ok my friend. Learn to like yourself first. You are an attractive man out side. Become an attractive man Inside.

sohailnayak's photo
Wed 09/19/12 08:02 AM
Thnks frnd so kind actuly m so depresd

sohailnayak's photo
Wed 09/19/12 09:44 AM
about myself? M down 2 earth person simple. Loving caring .dunno hw 2dfine0 myself. Can just say dat i m alone. Bad luck alwåys favoured my luv life. No 1 lovs me even if i give my evrything 2 including my life. I tried àll means even death but no 1 cared! I wish any 1 2 luv me but dont know y no1 does. is my life 2 go in vain? Had a lot! Wish it ends but always i try 2 propse i get a big reject n whén i try 2 end my lífe, i always end up nd hv 2 live dis lonely life. Any1 plzhlp gimme advice.i do not dzire sex only true love.

sohailnayak's photo
Wed 09/19/12 09:45 AM
about myself? M down 2 earth person simple. Loving caring .dunno hw 2dfine0 myself. Can just say dat i m alone. Bad luck alwåys favoured my luv life. No 1 lovs me even if i give my evrything 2 including my life. I tried àll means even death but no 1 cared! I wish any 1 2 luv me but dont know y no1 does. is my life 2 go in vain? Had a lot! Wish it ends but always i try 2 propse i get a big reject n whén i try 2 end my lífe, i always end up nd hv 2 live dis lonely life. Any1 plzhlp gimme advice.i do not dzire sex only true love.

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Wed 09/19/12 02:12 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Wed 09/19/12 02:15 PM

about myself? M down 2 earth person simple. Loving caring .dunno hw 2dfine0 myself. Can just say dat i m alone. Bad luck alwåys favoured my luv life. No 1 lovs me even if i give my evrything 2 including my life. I tried àll means even death but no 1 cared! I wish any 1 2 luv me but dont know y no1 does. is my life 2 go in vain? Had a lot! Wish it ends but always i try 2 propse i get a big reject n whén i try 2 end my lífe, i always end up nd hv 2 live dis lonely life. Any1 plzhlp gimme advice.i do not dzire sex only true love.


Wondering...
Are you being a little too pushy? If you are looking for true love, like you say you are, then give it some time. You can't expect to be handed something as genuine and rare as true love.

Hikerjohn's photo
Wed 09/19/12 03:34 PM

Thnks frnd so kind actuly m so depresd


We get depressed. That's ok. Give yourself permission to feel bad. Just don't stay there. Put a time frame on
It. An hour a day a week. What you think you.need. But when the time is up. Stop.

Next do things you like. Go places you enjoy. Talk to people just to talk. Sit and listen just to listen. Just don't give the power of control to fixing your depression to a relationship. You cannot control a relationship. Just participate. If the relationship does not work out. You will be depressed again.

Head up my friend. There are many good things in the world. Find them.


jacktrades's photo
Wed 09/19/12 07:11 PM
I think its good to suffer and have these feelings like you do because when you meet the right woman you will treat her right with respect, honesty. You will not take her for granted because you understand how lucky you are to have her. hang in bro its coming for you

sohailnayak's photo
Wed 09/19/12 07:59 PM
Thnks 4 respnse. Frnd but i hv been waiting since .13 yrs but failed ever.n nw no hope 2.

Precious-Man's photo
Thu 09/20/12 09:44 AM
Don't you think you rush and fall for the wrong girls

sohailnayak's photo
Thu 09/20/12 09:59 AM
Is it so! Pls adv

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