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Topic: Can You change the orientation of a Lesbian
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Fri 12/28/12 12:41 AM
Hi, was on another but similar thread and someone bragged on how he slept with Lesbians. Being around the block I have met both Lesbians and Bisexual women. But seriously if a Lady goes that way is there anything any guy can do to change her. I say NO!

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Fri 12/28/12 01:49 AM
:banana: frustrated I say no-way

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Fri 12/28/12 02:07 AM
Edited by HotRodDeluxe on Fri 12/28/12 02:09 AM
He possibly slept with someone who SAID she was gay. Note the distinction. She may have even believed it herself.

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Fri 12/28/12 02:32 AM
It can be.. its just in mind

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Fri 12/28/12 02:40 AM
I ended up dated a "lesbian", she told me when she first saw me, she knew she was not a lesbian, she was bi. I have met many many people who end up identifying themselves as gay, who may have had tendencies, but needed a lot of trauma to help them make that decision. However, I have also met a smaller group of people who were born that way.

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Fri 12/28/12 05:03 AM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Fri 12/28/12 05:16 AM
I do not believe homosexuality is a choice among men. This is because I cannot imagine enjoying myself while doing sexual things with another man. I find the thought repulsive.

However, I think it's different with women. I don't mean to suggest that a woman can be turned one way or the other. What I'm saying is that the right person (man or woman) may come along at the right time and she'll go the other way, at least for a while.

In other words, according to what I've read on the subject and my personal experience, women are bi-sexual and DO make a choice about their sexual orientation and therefore can go either way for the right person.

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Fri 12/28/12 06:05 AM
true homosexuals of either gender have very little choice in the matter. The real choice is whether to be honest about it. I think it is wonderful that people in today's society can be accepted for their true orientation.

With my long history in athletics I can confidently say that true homosexuals are born that way.

You can find research to support almost anything so to me that is a lesser reasoning

Bi sexuality is another matter. That is a choice, and it's mostly curiousity. A lesbian (true lesbian) who sleeps with a man was probably just curious.


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Fri 12/28/12 06:09 AM
I tell gay Ladies Im a Lesbian but for some reason they dont Believe me!!!!grumble bigsmile flowerforyou

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Fri 12/28/12 09:30 AM

Bi sexuality is another matter. That is a choice, and it's mostly curiousity. A lesbian (true lesbian) who sleeps with a man was probably just curious.


wait a damn second.
i chose to be attracted to both sexes?
so i can choose to stop being attracted to either one at any time?

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Fri 12/28/12 09:39 AM


Bi sexuality is another matter. That is a choice, and it's mostly curiousity. A lesbian (true lesbian) who sleeps with a man was probably just curious.


wait a damn second.
i chose to be attracted to both sexes?
so i can choose to stop being attracted to either one at any time?


Just like a light switch. Didn't you know that,b?

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Fri 12/28/12 09:45 AM

Just like a light switch. Didn't you know that,b?


why doesn't anyone tell me these things?!

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Fri 12/28/12 10:04 AM

true homosexuals of either gender have very little choice in the matter. The real choice is whether to be honest about it. I think it is wonderful that people in today's society can be accepted for their true orientation.

With my long history in athletics I can confidently say that true homosexuals are born that way.

You can find research to support almost anything so to me that is a lesser reasoning

Bi sexuality is another matter. That is a choice, and it's mostly curiousity. A lesbian (true lesbian) who sleeps with a man was probably just curious.

Thanks for your input. The reason I started this thread is because of being sick and tired of the cliche that I am so good that I changed a Lesbian straight. I used to be in the alcohol delivery business and have been in many bars of all aspects of America right here in Tampa. To be honest I have met Lesbians that Tom Cruise couldn't change. I also believe if a person is straight there is nothing to change that person's orientation. I mean come on the light is on the door is open and that person was never in the closet. Usually when encountering one on "Who's Online" I do tend to leave them alone most of the time. Sometimes although I will give them advice on how to use the filters to eliminate men from contacting them. Believe me, from personal experience unwanted sexual advances can suck. Especially if that person is persistant. One of the favorite lines form homosexual men is that come on you are gay, you just don't know it. Even befriending a lesbian can be a challenge. Basically they have to be comfortable that you are not going to change them. Sincerely wish everyone happiness even if not agreeing with them

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Fri 12/28/12 10:09 AM


Just like a light switch. Didn't you know that,b?


why doesn't anyone tell me these things?!


Didn't you go to the seminar?

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Fri 12/28/12 10:20 AM
they told me i couldn't be dressed as batman.

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Fri 12/28/12 10:21 AM

they told me i couldn't be dressed as batman.


Those meanies!

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Fri 12/28/12 10:32 AM
D':

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Fri 12/28/12 10:41 AM

Hi, was on another but similar thread and someone bragged on how he slept with Lesbians. Being around the block I have met both Lesbians and Bisexual women. But seriously if a Lady goes that way is there anything any guy can do to change her. I say NO!


A woman would be able to change if she chooses to change her lifestyle. She must have that desire herself. No man can do it.
I myself Love MEN.

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Fri 12/28/12 10:41 AM
Nobody should ever deny you dressing up like Batman!

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Fri 12/28/12 11:19 AM
those bastards!

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Fri 12/28/12 11:27 AM
Curses!

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