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Topic: Can You change the orientation of a Lesbian
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Tue 01/01/13 05:42 PM

it is easy to change the orientation of a lesbian...

have her lie down with her head pointing geographic north.
nudge her gently until her head is pointing more like northwest.

there you go.
change again when you get tired of northwest or as needed.


Merry-go-round....

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Tue 01/01/13 05:44 PM


it is easy to change the orientation of a lesbian...

have her lie down with her head pointing geographic north.
nudge her gently until her head is pointing more like northwest.

there you go.
change again when you get tired of northwest or as needed.


Merry-go-round....


this answer is probably fairly accurate

Kahurangi's photo
Wed 01/02/13 10:24 AM

Hi, was on another but similar thread and someone bragged on how he slept with Lesbians. Being around the block I have met both Lesbians and Bisexual women. But seriously if a Lady goes that way is there anything any guy can do to change her. I say NO!


I say why would any man attempt to??

Seriously.....

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Wed 01/02/13 10:55 AM


Hi, was on another but similar thread and someone bragged on how he slept with Lesbians. Being around the block I have met both Lesbians and Bisexual women. But seriously if a Lady goes that way is there anything any guy can do to change her. I say NO!


I say why would any man attempt to??

Seriously.....


Really. They'll change if and when they want to.

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Thu 01/03/13 01:12 AM

I say yes. If she is pointing north I can rotate her 180 degrees so she is pointing south. Then she will indeed have anew direction.
oops thought you were arrogant, but you were making a joke. sorry not always with it

PrintsCharming's photo
Tue 04/23/13 11:25 AM
Been there,
done that.

Traumer's photo
Tue 04/23/13 06:50 PM
Edited by Traumer on Tue 04/23/13 06:55 PM




true homosexuals of either gender have very little choice in the matter. The real choice is whether to be honest about it. I think it is wonderful that people in today's society can be accepted for their true orientation.

With my long history in athletics I can confidently say that true homosexuals are born that way.

You can find research to support almost anything so to me that is a lesser reasoning

Bi sexuality is another matter. That is a choice, and it's mostly curiousity. A lesbian (true lesbian) who sleeps with a man was probably just curious.



Being a lesbian, I agree. I was born that way.


Bi sexuals are also born that way. The confusing part for those of us who are either homo or hetero is that we cannot comprehend well that state of being where sexual attraction has no gender. But sexuality is a born state of being. What we do with it is a choice but who we are attracted to in our basest biological state is born to us.


well considering that there are few absolutes in this world, you could be right about some of the people some of the time. but I still think that bi sexuality is a choice OR eventually that person will have to make a choice if they want to marry or enter a committed monogamous relationship.



Exceleent observations. I fully concur with both on the Bi; it is both; one of curiosety and one biologic. Though from my own experiences with Lesbians and 'Bi's from the friends of my mother, when a child being cared for by them many times and growing up with/ while around several, I certainly valued them all as family. However when much older, I met a rather disconcerting number of women to out of mainly domestic trauma with their males, husbands and boyfriends, they chose the comfort of being around them as it was 'safe'. Much psychological damages was dome to these women over extended time. They were truly sick of men that beat and abused them or even pimped them out to other men who behaved in the same manner. When the normal urges for sex and the desire to love and be loved finally kicked in, they found the 'soft side of sex/ love' very satisfying. As one told me when I was 15 or so, everyone needs love and expressing it sexually comes naturally as does the returning of love. Most people suffer through life with little or no love. No one is hurt by a mutually loving relationship. That has pretty much stayed with me since that time. What many males do to females has also stuck. The damages some inflict upon females makes for a lasting impression and commitment never to do the same for any reason. Sadly I've also seen time and time again the raping, the torture and eventual killing of women and even children in war zones...no charges were or should be ever filed for shooting those that committed those types of atrocities.
A person's sexual orientation is the least reliable trait one can rely on for character, innate decency or values. Morality is even less so. Orientation is certainly not anyone's business other than the person's partner.

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Tue 04/23/13 07:28 PM
I Dont believe we have an orientation, I truly dont

I believe we are built to MATE with the opposite sex
that we are made to be physically stimulated by different activites

and the gender we attach to that stimulation is a result of the emotional composite of our experiences throughout life

much like pavlov dogs learned to salivate due to the sound in stead of the actual food

I believe we program ourselves ot respond to gender rather than the actual interaction,,,,

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Tue 04/23/13 07:29 PM
so my answer is,, no, we can influence people but the change we make in ourselves starts with ourselves

in the end , we all have the capacity to program ourselves toward whatever 'orientation' we wish to,,,,,,

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