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Topic: Some guys need more help than others
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Mon 01/14/13 11:16 AM
What are the biggest turn offs in a guys profile that woman hate to see. And what are the turn on

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Mon 01/14/13 11:31 AM

What are the biggest turn offs in a guys profile that woman hate to see. And what are the turn on


Turn off:Bad pictures. In the profile; would be seeking intimate encounters, looking for a woman for fun, a smoker, a guy that says he is a nice guy; a guy that refers a woman to a princess a drug user, heavy drinker, a one line profile, a guy that likes to stay home, a pet owner, and a single dad.

Turn on: an active man who doesn't have the above stuff I mentioned and who wants a partner that is his equal. One that is open to try new experiences, likes to travel, is interested in different cultural things, who desires a strong woman, and loves the outdoors.

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Mon 01/14/13 12:13 PM


What are the biggest turn offs in a guys profile that woman hate to see. And what are the turn on


Turn off:Bad pictures. In the profile; would be seeking intimate encounters, looking for a woman for fun, a smoker, a guy that says he is a nice guy; a guy that refers a woman to a princess a drug user, heavy drinker, a one line profile, a guy that likes to stay home, a pet owner, and a single dad.

Turn on: an active man who doesn't have the above stuff I mentioned and who wants a partner that is his equal. One that is open to try new experiences, likes to travel, is interested in different cultural things, who desires a strong woman, and loves the outdoors.

well I appear to have the first two on the list :P

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Mon 01/14/13 12:31 PM



What are the biggest turn offs in a guys profile that woman hate to see. And what are the turn on


Turn off:Bad pictures. In the profile; would be seeking intimate encounters, looking for a woman for fun, a smoker, a guy that says he is a nice guy; a guy that refers a woman to a princess a drug user, heavy drinker, a one line profile, a guy that likes to stay home, a pet owner, and a single dad.

Turn on: an active man who doesn't have the above stuff I mentioned and who wants a partner that is his equal. One that is open to try new experiences, likes to travel, is interested in different cultural things, who desires a strong woman, and loves the outdoors.

well I appear to have the first two on the list :P


laugh laugh Well my dear; these are just my personal preferences. I am not speaking for all the other ladies on this site.

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Mon 01/14/13 12:35 PM
Don't make us single dads come up there, crazy chick! :banana:

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Mon 01/14/13 12:38 PM

Don't make us single dads come up there, crazy chick! :banana:


Oops; no offence to you oldhippie. Just like a guy that can leave on a moment's notice to go out rather than having to find a baby sitter.

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Mon 01/14/13 12:39 PM
Maybe that's why I waited till they were gone and flew the coop?

Oh no, wait, it was another reason. :tongue:

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Mon 01/14/13 01:52 PM

Maybe that's why I waited till they were gone and flew the coop?

Oh no, wait, it was another reason. :tongue:


I guess I should have specified Dads with kids under 18. LOL

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Mon 01/14/13 03:28 PM
I'm just relieved that this entire topic wasn't about me. :laughing:

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Mon 01/14/13 03:34 PM

I'm just relieved that this entire topic wasn't about me. :laughing:


laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 01/14/13 03:42 PM
Turn on would be a good sense of humor, it's when i read a profile, i would be smiling at what he wrote and i'd have the interest to go back and read again.
Turn off: i'll tell ya later...i mean..it makes me think that the guy is lazy...which i may be wrong,but jmo...

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Mon 01/14/13 03:45 PM


Maybe that's why I waited till they were gone and flew the coop?

Oh no, wait, it was another reason. :tongue:


I guess I should have specified Dads with kids under 18. LOL


You might want to specify with kids under 25, it took that long to stabilize mine. Which means I haven't had nary a kiss for about 25 years now.frustrated

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Mon 01/14/13 04:22 PM



Maybe that's why I waited till they were gone and flew the coop?

Oh no, wait, it was another reason. :tongue:


I guess I should have specified Dads with kids under 18. LOL


You might want to specify with kids under 25, it took that long to stabilize mine. Which means I haven't had nary a kiss for about 25 years now.frustrated


Oh my; that has been a long time. All of us kids were punted at 18 and were never allowed to return. Besides even at 25; I am sure they don't need a babysitter. LOL

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Mon 01/14/13 04:33 PM
Turn offs . . .liars,heavy drinkers, drug users,guys looking to just hook-up. Turn ons . . since of humor,can hold a conversation,good one with integrity . . . wearing a cowboy hat is a plus :)

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Mon 01/14/13 05:58 PM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 01/14/13 05:59 PM
noway noway noway I don't read profiles I just look at the pictures

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Tue 01/15/13 08:49 AM
@ibaceltic1 youre the reason they made instagram and the reason why more guys are dropping out of college to spend more time at the gym
yet never have i seen such a sexy sixty what ever your doing you should sell your secret

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Tue 01/15/13 10:43 AM

What are the biggest turn offs in a guys profile that woman hate to see. And what are the turn on


I hate to see " I'm just me... doing me...being me"
What the F does that mean??
We don't know you, dude!:angry:

I like when a guy tells me about what he likes in himself, what he is expecting from a relatinship he hopes to be in...
and basically what I can expect from him if he is in my life.
But that's just me!:smile:

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Tue 01/15/13 12:47 PM

@ibaceltic1 youre the reason they made instagram and the reason why more guys are dropping out of college to spend more time at the gym
yet never have i seen such a sexy sixty what ever your doing you should sell your secret


blushing blushing blushing genetics

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Sun 01/20/13 02:27 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 01/20/13 02:28 PM

What are the biggest turn offs in a guys profile that woman hate to see. And what are the turn on


I , I , I all about him...etc...(I turn off)

Interested in meeting a nice, honest caring lady...(turn on)

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Sun 01/20/13 03:44 PM
Okay, read the full thread. What I get out of what you lovely, strong, independent ladies are saying is to just be yourself, and if it don't click it don't...

I say this because some like a guy that talks about himself some, but where is the line? No one knows where because the line moves and is dependent on a myriad of other factors so, again = be yourself, and observe for click (or the absense of one.)

I speculate it boils down to knowing the other person, their likes and dislikes, and where to paint those lines with easy-off paint. Dammit why didn't I learn this stuff before!?

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