Topic: Is there anything wrong with long distance relationship?
mikaxel80's photo
Wed 02/13/13 11:48 PM
I can't understand why some has problems with it. Can I have your thoughts? Is love limited by distance?

Winlei's photo
Thu 02/14/13 01:12 AM
Love shouldn't be hinder by distance...if that is your excuse then you are never in love with her.... As they say love will make the impossible, possible..in these case both are possible to happen.

mikaxel80's photo
Thu 02/14/13 01:20 AM

Love shouldn't be hinder by distance...if that is your excuse then you are never in love with her.... As they say love will make the impossible, possible..in these case both are possible to happen.

I am with you on that one. Some ppl make me sick. They only think about the physical part. What is it? Just 5 or 10% of love

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Thu 02/14/13 03:27 AM
long-distance relationship can be as easy as trying to maintain an elaborate updo in a windstorm. The reality is that you’re in for a lot of effort so get off on the right foot if you want to keep this relationship standing.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 02/14/13 04:06 AM
The trouble is if you want someone to be there, with you, during difficult times. To maintain it, both people have to be very independent. But, usually independent people don't need relationships at all.

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Thu 02/14/13 04:18 AM
I have enjoyed my long distance relationship for a year...They are not always easy, often lonely, and offer special challenges...BUT...The upside is we spend a lot of time talking (communicating) so we are learning a lot about each other, we never let a day go by without contact, and we are becoming very creative in how we express our love...Neither of us thought we would end up in a long distance relationship, but here we are and we will do whatever is necessary to make it work until we are able to be together....

To answer you question, "Is love limited by distance?'...No, not for me...

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 02/14/13 04:22 AM
Edited by TawtStrat on Thu 02/14/13 04:32 AM


Love shouldn't be hinder by distance...if that is your excuse then you are never in love with her.... As they say love will make the impossible, possible..in these case both are possible to happen.

I am with you on that one. Some ppl make me sick. They only think about the physical part. What is it? Just 5 or 10% of love



Kind of missing the point. You are involved with someone. You miss each other but you can't be together.

I tried to make what was for me a long distance thing work and it didn't due to a whole load of problems that were beyond my control. I couldn't just go and see her whenever I wanted and there was a whole load of stuff going on that I knew very little about. Her life was there and mine was here. She had joint custody of a child whose father lived there. She was still involved with someone else, even though they had technically broken up. I had to trust this woman and she wasn't communicating with me properly and she was hiding things from me.

Solace84's photo
Thu 02/14/13 04:39 AM
Distance can't limit love..love knows no boundary..

mikaxel80's photo
Thu 02/14/13 04:46 AM

I have enjoyed my long distance relationship for a year...They are not always easy, often lonely, and offer special challenges...BUT...The upside is we spend a lot of time talking (communicating) so we are learning a lot about each other, we never let a day go by without contact, and we are becoming very creative in how we express our love...Neither of us thought we would end up in a long distance relationship, but here we are and we will do whatever is necessary to make it work until we are able to be together....

To answer you question, "Is love limited by distance?'...No, not for me...

There you go, girl! I love you already? Do u have a single sister? I read somebody wrote u r taken. I applaud all you said. Sure there are challenges in every relationship. So right, there is nothing wrong in long distance.

kenattefa12's photo
Thu 02/14/13 04:47 AM
2ru luv cnt be hinderd by distance. if u cn be faithful n cn hold on, y nt.

Kennee77's photo
Thu 02/14/13 04:51 AM
Yep! There's Something Wrong with it; Relationships and Feeling (Touching, being Touched Physically) Only Work Right when they're Pari-Passu

mikaxel80's photo
Thu 02/14/13 04:51 AM

long-distance relationship can be as easy as trying to maintain an elaborate updo in a windstorm. The reality is that you’re in for a lot of effort so get off on the right foot if you want to keep this relationship standing.

Right, ma lady. U on a long distance or have u tried one before?

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 02/14/13 05:28 AM

Distance can't limit love..love knows no boundary..



This says it all really. People that come out with meaningless platitudes in place of reasoned arguments are the sort of people that jump into things without thinking them through.

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Fri 02/15/13 01:13 AM
You say people who aren't into ldr relationships make you sick. Well, people who try to use me as access to a green card make ME sick. Also, I'd only torture myself if I couldn't at least go visit my lover a few days a week. Or him visit me at times.

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Fri 02/15/13 01:15 AM


Love shouldn't be hinder by distance...if that is your excuse then you
are never in love with her.... As they say love will make the
impossible, possible..in these case both are possible to happen.

I am with you on that one. Some ppl make me sick. They only think about
the physical part. What is it? Just 5 or 10% of love



Sorry for double post, but this is the quote I was referring to. I think physical chemistry is just as important as the mental.

mikaxel80's photo
Fri 02/15/13 01:19 AM

You say people who aren't into ldr relationships make you sick. Well, people who try to use me as access to a green card make ME sick. Also, I'd only torture myself if I couldn't at least go visit my lover a few days a week. Or him visit me at times.

Hey I am not sayn physical is not important. It is but less than the mental according to my opinion