Topic: Why cant i find love?
TEXASBOY1978's photo
Sun 03/31/13 04:45 PM
Why can't I find love?love

ruth74's photo
Sun 03/31/13 04:52 PM
Maybe you're looking too hard sweetie. It's been my experience with myself and with my friends, love comes up and taps you on the shoulder when you're not even looking.
Just focus on yourself and making yourself happy and strong, well grounded and well centered. You will then become more desirable to others.
*hugs*
Welcome to Mingle by the way.:wink:

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 03/31/13 04:54 PM
I second Ruth! flowerforyou

Also, join in the forum conversations and meet some really fun people in the meantime. bigsmile

TEXASBOY1978's photo
Sun 03/31/13 04:59 PM
I have tried the focusing on myself thing, thats why I moved here from Florida in January. I got a job right away and things are going good, but its hard to be happy when you have no friends just family in a new town!

ruth74's photo
Sun 03/31/13 05:07 PM
OK....get up...step awaaaayyyyy from the computer and go join a team...bowl/darts/euchre, I don't care. Go take singing lessons, painting lessons, acting lessons. Go join a community garden, put on a leotard and go take up ballet.
*grin* just go do something bud.

Actually wait a minute...get back here on the computer for a minute and check this out.
http://www.meetup.com/cities/us/tx/houston/

Meetup is a great way to get out an involved.

In other ways, my sweet little mis planted Florida hottie...quit whining and go do something! *hugs* I mean that last sentence with love.

TEXASBOY1978's photo
Sun 03/31/13 05:16 PM
I stopped using the laptop awhile ago, smart phone is easier! :) LOL

Goofball73's photo
Sun 03/31/13 05:20 PM
I second the find groups that do things you like to do. Join a bowling league. If you like to watch sports, maybe go to a bar and start chatting with people there. Just have to find things you like to do and put some effort. All kinds of towns have ways of getting newbies into group associations so you establish new friends.

As for love? You'll more than likely find it (or it find you) in the most unsuspecting place.

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 03/31/13 06:23 PM

I second the find groups that do things you like to do. Join a bowling league. If you like to watch sports, maybe go to a bar and start chatting with people there. Just have to find things you like to do and put some effort. All kinds of towns have ways of getting newbies into group associations so you establish new friends.

As for love? You'll more than likely find it (or it find you) in the most unsuspecting place.



Great advice! bigsmile

Toks88's photo
Tue 04/02/13 07:51 AM
It is easy to find friends but not easy to find love. Many women don't actually know what they want by being selective. You'll find love one day. Good luck!

ruth74's photo
Tue 04/02/13 08:14 AM

I stopped using the laptop awhile ago, smart phone is easier! :) LOL


Smart-arse! rofl

no photo
Tue 04/02/13 08:29 AM

Why can't I find love?love

eeeeeeeeiiiiiiii,
Could it be that someone hid it from you and the rest of the team??

Btw,you are not alone in that club either..

Love,Love,Love,Oh Love!!
Elucive to many,abundant to a few....
Get out more,make time for other stuff than work..... Find a sport....
Make friends from work,from the shops/mart/market,what ever..... Talk to people.... Open yourself up to them-dont be closed off......
Oh,and dont stay focused on the phone screen when in line at the grocers either.....you'll make friends pretty easy!
All the Best!

PrintsCharming's photo
Tue 04/02/13 10:07 AM

Why can't I find love?love


The outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to reflect their inner beliefs.

PrintsCharming's photo
Tue 04/09/13 11:37 PM
Be the love you seek to find.

Rin8810's photo
Wed 04/10/13 09:13 AM
God is saving u for someone special :wink:

no photo
Wed 04/10/13 10:55 AM
Me too cant make good friends,even here on mingle i find even a chat mate yet,not to think about a friend