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Topic: Is it normal or abnormal to pretend at first date
Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:02 AM
If normal but for hw long

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Tue 08/06/13 08:09 AM
Depends on what you mean by "pretend"....

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:14 AM
Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart

TawtStrat's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:21 AM
No, I don't think that's normal and I always find that you learn a lot of truth about someone on a first date, particularly if you have only chatted on the internet prior to the meeting.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:28 AM
It is never normal to pretend to be something or someone your not to another....Be real or get out of my way is my motto~~waving

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:31 AM
drinks thats great idea Tawtstrat

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:34 AM
flowerforyou i lyk that you are bold

1Cynderella's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:35 AM

Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


How have you won her heart by making her fall for a figment of your imagination? She is now in love with the invisible man. It seems to me you've just invented your own competition. slaphead

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Tue 08/06/13 08:37 AM
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MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:38 AM
Lying will only be seen as intentionally deceitful when the person you lied to finds out.
It's a bad idea.
Even if it's just little lies, you will be more likely to lie about other topics that won't be as miniscule.
Then it will come back to bite you as a lot of lies do.
Just ask Obama and his administration.
They know all about lies and their downsides.
Be truthful and you will be respected for it even if it's not what someone else wants to hear.

:thumbsup:

mightymoe's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:40 AM

Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
huh

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:49 AM


Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


How have you won her heart by making her fall for a figment of your imagination? She is now in love with the invisible man. It seems to me you've just invented your own competition. slaphead
hahah....is not about me,but am goin to aggree is what i jst invinted to get som ideas,but have you givn it a thought about what you appreciated to hav but you aint gona let it slip out of you when you ve gotta chance to have a date with him or her,so wuld you lie to impress or wuld you be yourselv thats it!

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:55 AM


Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
huh
is not a good thing and is not about me here am trying to figour out things,but is goin on in some relationship,am jst advocating for those who wuldnt knw about it,thanks ok

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Tue 08/06/13 08:58 AM

Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


It's not normal to lie to impress, but from personal experience I can tell you it happens ....A LOTgrumble and is usually a set up to fail..."Pretending" as in putting your best foot forward in an effort to make a good first impression because you are attracted enough to want to continue getting to know someone is, in my opinion and based on personal experience, pretty normal during a first date...flowerforyou

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:58 AM

Lying will only be seen as intentionally deceitful when the person you lied to finds out.
It's a bad idea.
Even if it's just little lies, you will be more likely to lie about other topics that won't be as miniscule.
Then it will come back to bite you as a lot of lies do.
Just ask Obama and his administration.
They know all about lies and their downsides.
Be truthful and you will be respected for it even if it's not what someone else wants to hear.

:thumbsup:
: drinker: thats cool hav a 2 cup of cofee hop u drink it

mightymoe's photo
Tue 08/06/13 09:02 AM



Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
huh
is not a good thing and is not about me here am trying to figour out things,but is goin on in some relationship,am jst advocating for those who wuldnt knw about it,thanks ok


IMO, lying is never good in any situation...what if someone starts lying to their date, then finds out they are the "one"... not a great start, huh...

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 09:02 AM

'normal' as in common? dunno. I gotta think it happens some. I was about to go out with someone, then caught him in a lie. It was about his age and only a couple years, but it meant, to me, that he was dishonest. I wouldnt have cared that he was his true age. I did care however that he was not trustworthy. How could I possibly continue with someone I dont trust?
thats pretty gud you were smartdrool

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 09:07 AM


Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


It's not normal to lie to impress, but from personal experience I can tell you it happens ....A LOTgrumble and is usually a set up to fail..."Pretending" as in putting your best foot forward in an effort to make a good first impression because you are attracted enough to want to continue getting to know someone is, in my opinion and based on personal experience, pretty normal during a first date...flowerforyou
oh so cute opinion

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 09:12 AM




Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
huh
is not a good thing and is not about me here am trying to figour out things,but is goin on in some relationship,am jst advocating for those who wuldnt knw about it,thanks ok


IMO, lying is never good in any situation...what if someone starts lying to their date, then finds out they are the "one"... not a great start, huh...
well lying about date is not a big deal after age is a number,but when some culd pretend to be what he or she is not or say what he or she cnt do is a bad one swty

Swetcocumba's photo
Tue 08/06/13 09:12 AM




Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


do you really think lying to your date is a good thing?
huh
is not a good thing and is not about me here am trying to figour out things,but is goin on in some relationship,am jst advocating for those who wuldnt knw about it,thanks ok


IMO, lying is never good in any situation...what if someone starts lying to their date, then finds out they are the "one"... not a great start, huh...
well lying about date is not a big deal after age is a number,but when some culd pretend to be what he or she is not or say what he or she cnt do is a bad one swty

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