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Ladies. How do you know if he is real or not. A guy wants to be your friend and then he tells you that he is falling for you. Even after you tell him that your life isn't that great.He still wants to be with you. You can't understand why, he is not your kind of guy, He seems to be upper class and you are just a plain n simple kind of girl. No matter how much you want to believe that he could be your Prince. You are afraid and wonder if this is all a cruel joke. How can you tell, What do you do ??
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I'd say be careful that just happened to me and after three weeks he said he loved me and so on we texted everyday and talked he was a so called doctor and the fourth week came the scam asking for three thousand dollars long story but he really had me falling for him. So just be careful
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Mmm i say keep your heart safe be very careful there are alot of creepers on here that will play you big time an mess you up so please keep safe be strong....
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Yes, be careful, but don't pass up a real deal. I guess I just got tremendously lucky myself.
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Love takes time...That is my theory.
Too quick? Never really a good sign, there is that slight chance; but if we were about taking chances like that we probably wouldn't be here. |
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Yes, be careful, but don't pass up a real deal. I guess I just got tremendously lucky myself. Sage advice, Oldhippie. Things like class or status are totally irrelevant it's what's inside a person that really counts. If you feel deep down that you and this person could be good together then you have to give it a try, see if it is the 'real-deal; or forever ponder how things might have been. |
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JMO...always go with your gut instincts..
Intuition is your best unbiased friend. 
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Edited by
popcornncoke
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Mon 08/12/13 08:46 PM
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I've been honest with him. I've not lead him on. I can't beleve a man would want a woman like me.I'm a caregiver to my aunt who is cofield to a wheelchair. No matter what I tell him, he still say he loves me and wants to be with me. I don't have any money, in debt, 19 yr old tralier and a car that is 12 yrs old. I'm thinking this could beh a joke but then again, What if he is the man that I've looking for all my life. I haven't told him that I've lost 50% of my hearing, that no one will come between me and my 5 boys. Some of you know that I lost My Dad, 1/ yr ago this month, after a 3 year battle with cancer and this year has really, really been hard for me. My Doctor wants be to be checked for cancer, but I 'm afraid. I don't want to know,after seeing the pain that he went thur. What I want to know. Would you tell him or keep your mouth shut ???
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I've been honest with him. I've not lead him on. I can't beleve a man would want a woman like me.I'm a caregiver to my aunt who is cofield to a wheelchair. No matter what I tell him, he still say he loves me and wants to be with me. I don't have any money, in debt, 19 yr old tralier and a car that is 12 yrs old. I'm thinking this could beh a joke but then again, What if he is the man that I've looking for all my life. I haven't told him that I've lost 50% of my hearing, that no one will come between me and my 5 boys. Some of you know that I lost My Dad, 1/ yr ago this month, after a 3 year battle with cancer and this year has really, really been hard for me. My Doctor wants be to be checked for cancer, but I 'm afraid. I don't want to know,after seeing the pain that he went thur. What I want to know. Would you tell him or keep your mouth shut ??? I would be honest about your health  It's hard, I know.. |
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I've been honest with him. I've not lead him on. I can't beleve a man would want a woman like me.I'm a caregiver to my aunt who is cofield to a wheelchair. No matter what I tell him, he still say he loves me and wants to be with me. I don't have any money, in debt, 19 yr old tralier and a car that is 12 yrs old. I'm thinking this could beh a joke but then again, What if he is the man that I've looking for all my life. I haven't told him that I've lost 50% of my hearing, that no one will come between me and my 5 boys. Some of you know that I lost My Dad, 1/ yr ago this month, after a 3 year battle with cancer and this year has really, really been hard for me. My Doctor wants be to be checked for cancer, but I 'm afraid. I don't want to know,after seeing the pain that he went thur. What I want to know. Would you tell him or keep your mouth shut ??? Being honest with a good guy is the only way to go because if you lie to him then you are the same kind of messed up person he has been passing over to get to you. A nice lady who loves her family and cares for the people and doing the best that she can in real life situations. So what you have and older car, or home, some debt (don't most) or maybe (nothing is proved yet don't catastropy/size) health issue that is more often than not treatable for years more life. If you only have 50% of your hearing he already has figured it out and doesn't care. The one sure thing about telling a good guy that he has a laundry list of reasons not to love you is eventually they do get tired of trying to convince you to stop being your own worst enemy and basically they are defective for caring for you and they get tired of being insulted that you expect him to be and elitest creep just because he has been a li8ttle successful and move on. How about just stepping back and enjoying the blessing that has come your way and see if he turns out to be worth having you? Doesn't your family deserve a break from worrying about you being sad and greiveing? Life does not have to be "miserable" just because you don't see yourself as the top shelf of society. Maybe he prefers salt of the earth and sweet over snooty and selfish. |
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Joy. I haven't met him. He send me a friend request on Facebook and I answered it.I'm still afraid of letting my wall down. I told him,he was going to fast I think someone is joking around with me. You are the only one I know that lives in California. How are you doing with your own one year loss??
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I'd say be careful that just happened to me and after three weeks he said he loved me and so on we texted everyday and talked he was a so called doctor and the fourth week came the scam asking for three thousand dollars long story but he really had me falling for him. So just be careful I want to Thank You for sharing what happen to you. I though about things that he had wrote to me and things just didn't feel right. So I wrote him and told him that I wasn't ready for a relationship right noe and I quit text him. He didn't give up, He wrote he needed a favor. He needed to borrow some money. I think Facebook put a stop to his texts. But later he send me 2/ friend request and 3 other guys textt me. I just wanted to say Thanks. |
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I've been honest with him. I've not lead him on. I can't beleve a man would want a woman like me.I'm a caregiver to my aunt who is cofield to a wheelchair. No matter what I tell him, he still say he loves me and wants to be with me. I don't have any money, in debt, 19 yr old tralier and a car that is 12 yrs old. I'm thinking this could beh a joke but then again, What if he is the man that I've looking for all my life. I haven't told him that I've lost 50% of my hearing, that no one will come between me and my 5 boys. Some of you know that I lost My Dad, 1/ yr ago this month, after a 3 year battle with cancer and this year has really, really been hard for me. My Doctor wants be to be checked for cancer, but I 'm afraid. I don't want to know,after seeing the pain that he went thur. What I want to know. Would you tell him or keep your mouth shut ??? Being honest with a good guy is the only way to go because if you lie to him then you are the same kind of messed up person he has been passing over to get to you. A nice lady who loves her family and cares for the people and doing the best that she can in real life situations. So what you have and older car, or home, some debt (don't most) or maybe (nothing is proved yet don't catastropy/size) health issue that is more often than not treatable for years more life. If you only have 50% of your hearing he already has figured it out and doesn't care. The one sure thing about telling a good guy that he has a laundry list of reasons not to love you is eventually they do get tired of trying to convince you to stop being your own worst enemy and basically they are defective for caring for you and they get tired of being insulted that you expect him to be and elitest creep just because he has been a li8ttle successful and move on. How about just stepping back and enjoying the blessing that has come your way and see if he turns out to be worth having you? Doesn't your family deserve a break from worrying about you being sad and greiveing? Life does not have to be "miserable" just because you don't see yourself as the top shelf of society. Maybe he prefers salt of the earth and sweet over snooty and selfish. Amen to that! 
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Ladies. How do you know if he is real or not. A guy wants to be your friend and then he tells you that he is falling for you. Even after you tell him that your life isn't that great.He still wants to be with you. You can't understand why, he is not your kind of guy, He seems to be upper class and you are just a plain n simple kind of girl. No matter how much you want to believe that he could be your Prince. You are afraid and wonder if this is all a cruel joke. How can you tell, What do you do ?? You shut him out and if he's real he is persistent, and proves what he say. |
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