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I agree with SansSouci. I believe there are many women out there who say they don't like sex, or hubby expects too much, too often, etc. because they either have never had good sex or very rarely. I know women who have never had an orgasm! I am serious! To them, sex is one of the marital duties she must comply to on occasion! Hence sex for pleasure is something a man pays for (prostitute) and is classified as dirty! These women do not know any different! Masturbation is out of the question. There are still many people both male and female who do not discuss the act of lovemaking other than some words during: "Oh Baby! Oh Baby! Oh Yeah! ......" It's a shame really and both miss out, yes, the man as well, on what can be a most satisfying and exhilirating bonding experience. There has to be a huge level of trust and willingness to please and be pleased by both parties. Without open communication and the willingness to step out of your comfort zone and trust your loving partner - bad sex will ruin the relationship even if they stay together for the sake of the kids, their faith, or whatever reason. [/quoit Thank you my friend, This is the exactly I want to tell. Thank you very much again. |
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Hi N2000,
My ex-wife had a friend who was in her 40's and never had an orgasm yet she had been married for at least 20 years. My ex-wife bought a vibrator for her. I agree with you. Communication is crucial for a contented sex life. Very early in our relationship my ex-girlfriend & I would discuss sex while eating dinner. I never judged her. We were best friends. She knew she could tell me anything and I'd still be in love with her. One of the first things she told me was that she has always loved being naked with her boyfriends. So as soon as we got back home, I took off her clothes. I think she loved the power that her very sexy & hot body had over men. Because she knew she could tell me anything, I knew her sexual history in detail That's how I knew what she liked and didn't. It was because she was comfortable telling me about her sexual history, I knew how to satisfy her. And believe me, I did satisfy. While she was very sexually experienced, she told me that I was the first man who had ever made her orgasm during oral sex. She could orgasm as many as ten times during each mystical sexual experience, and often we'd have sex more than once a day. In fact, she could have sex all day long. My job was to assure that she enjoyed it. When she was happy she made me very happy. As a man, I can tell you that too many men have no clue how to satisfy their wives/girlfriends. It seems that many men find it taboo to ask their wives/girlfriends what they desire. My ex-girlfriend and I used to talk about sex all the time and while having sex. She knew she could tell me she wanted me to do while we were having sex and I'd do it. She was the most horny woman I have ever known, and she was the only woman with whom I was thoroughly in love. Take care, SansSouci |
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Hi N2000, My ex-wife had a friend who was in her 40's and never had an orgasm yet she had been married for at least 20 years. My ex-wife bought a vibrator for her. I agree with you. Communication is crucial for a contented sex life. Very early in our relationship my ex-girlfriend & I would discuss sex while eating dinner. I never judged her. We were best friends. She knew she could tell me anything and I'd still be in love with her. One of the first things she told me was that she has always loved being naked with her boyfriends. So as soon as we got back home, I took off her clothes. I think she loved the power that her very sexy & hot body had over men. Because she knew she could tell me anything, I knew her sexual history in detail That's how I knew what she liked and didn't. It was because she was comfortable telling me about her sexual history, I knew how to satisfy her. And believe me, I did satisfy. While she was very sexually experienced, she told me that I was the first man who had ever made her orgasm during oral sex. She could orgasm as many as ten times during each mystical sexual experience, and often we'd have sex more than once a day. In fact, she could have sex all day long. My job was to assure that she enjoyed it. When she was happy she made me very happy. As a man, I can tell you that too many men have no clue how to satisfy their wives/girlfriends. It seems that many men find it taboo to ask their wives/girlfriends what they desire. My ex-girlfriend and I used to talk about sex all the time and while having sex. She knew she could tell me she wanted me to do while we were having sex and I'd do it. She was the most horny woman I have ever known, and she was the only woman with whom I was thoroughly in love. Take care, SansSouci This is the exactly relationship I had with my married Guy. But in the end I got hurt,lonely, depress. Still trying to forget him.That is why I am here to get little bit relief. |
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i agrry with you
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Well said
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I'm in agreement with SansSouci and N2000. They both seem to understand that women feel too repressed to talk about sex openly. If we can't talk about sex with our man, then maybe he isn't the one for us. You should be able to tell your guy what you enjoy about it. After all, it's only you two in this relationship. He won't laugh at you for liking sex. No wonder men talk about it so much with each other. I mean when will the battle of the sex's die down? We should feel free to talk about everything with our lover. We're not children anymore ;)
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If a guy is bad in the sack I see it as not worth making the effort to try and improve him since he clearly has not made the effort to be better. I agree. Well said I totally agree... because it means he is selfish and self centered, or doesn't care enough to make certain your needs are taken care of. Either way, he's not worth your time. Here's the problem with this way of thinking, you assume sex is a universal skill, that applies equally to all individuals, I am willing to bet that each of the women above like different things in bed. Saying that a man is just "bad in bed" means that he hasn't figured out what YOU like yet, he may have had a girlfriend who told him he was great in bed, and she may have meant it because he did what SHE liked. Saying you're not going to bother telling a guy what YOU like because he hasn't cared enough to improves himself is frankly stupid, he may have cared and improved for someone ELSE just he doesn't understand what YOU want, so he hasn't LEARNED you. Sex is like boxing, you can't master boxing and apply the same technique to every fight, even professional boxers still study their opponent before a fight, they have to learn how their opponent responds to different techniques. Same with sex, try different techniques, watch how your partner responds, and eventually you'll find out what they like. |
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Hell yes. I am very sexual when I am with a man. That is a big part of.our relationship. Obviously much more comes into play.
However I'm not vanilla so I need to partner up with someone like me. Maybe getting to know these people better and their views on sex would help before starting a relationship. |
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Hi there Are you online right now 
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Hi there Are you online right now Romantical. |
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Edited by
eddzz72
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Sat 10/19/13 03:50 PM
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Hi all im new but i say bad sex comes down to the couple man and woman the way id do it is a lot of teaseing takeing my time lots of fore play and talk to each other
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Yes,bad sex can kill relationship,u need a real man who can interprete your body chemistry and act as at when due.he should hv a good manhood n know how to use it
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Yes,bad sex can kill relationship,u need a real man who can interprete your body chemistry and act as at when due.he should hv a good manhood n know how to use it
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I need sex to bond to someone, but after that, it`s not that important really.
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Edited by
Brassmonkey74
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Sun 10/20/13 09:57 AM
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I tried staying with a woman that just couldn't satisfy me and wouldn't make an attempt to learn or get better. Needless to say I was always FUSTRATED! And that's the same as feeling rejected. I just couldn't deal with it. I'm very sexual and freaky. I need the same. I don't think its wether someone is good or bad. I think the main thing when it comes to sex is COMPATABILITY. I've been with gorgeous women that dressed like they'd set the world on fire in the sack yet had the sexual drive of a shoe when the time came. I know it seems shallow but if sex is a huge part of a relationship to you then you need to find someone that thinks the same.
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