Topic: sex
TheShadow's photo
Tue 08/20/13 10:49 AM

Look bad sex is when u ain't sniffing licking and u don't have that many positions to put that woman in .
look most women when they want sex and you're in a relation ship u better be hitting it right cuz she might leave ya


That's actually not always the case. There some women prefer not to so much engage in sex that because its not that important to them. Now for me im the opposite, not that it is all that important but i do take care of the one im with. At the same time though ot depends how willing there are give themselves. Can bad sex brake a relationship yes. That doesn't me there can't be room for improvement if the other is willing...

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Wed 08/21/13 12:11 PM
love aged beauties why?

Sweetpuffnplay's photo
Wed 08/21/13 01:49 PM


I am getting laid right now




Good for u.
Let us know how it went noway

joeE101's photo
Wed 08/21/13 02:51 PM
It's sad to see that there are a lot of guys that don't see bad sex as a problem. In the time and age we are in, sex is where it's at. I believe that in this subject, you have to find out what the girl you are with likes, and then go from there. Mix it up too, cause you can't just go rough on every gal. Gotta be gentle sometime, but if she really enjoys the hair pulling and *** slapping,then, it's even better. :)

Draiiiiinme's photo
Wed 08/21/13 09:00 PM
Sometimes one of you has to take charge and lead the way coaxing with diolouge and some spicy talk or a sudden switch of positions :)

N2000's photo
Sat 09/14/13 08:16 AM


Look bad sex is when u ain't sniffing licking and u don't have that many positions to put that woman in .
look most women when they want sex and you're in a relation ship u better be hitting it right cuz she might leave ya


That's actually not always the case. There some women prefer not to so much engage in sex that because its not that important to them. Now for me im the opposite, not that it is all that important but i do take care of the one im with. At the same time though ot depends how willing there are give themselves. Can bad sex brake a relationship yes. That doesn't me there can't be room for improvement if the other is willing...


I agree with you. I had a relationship with a man in sexless marriage.Wife does not like even talk about sex when the guy trying to help her. They are having sex once in two month. she does not want to go any kind of therapy. Guy was tired,and met me had a great relationship.not only the sex. recently he see a Councillor,She told him, He expecting too much sex from his wife. Weird. She gave him books to read. We stop seeing each other.He tried to leave wife,But because of society,Divorce problems he decide to stay with his wife in a sexless life. I feel so bad. Why men have to suffer like this. Why when women get older stay away from sex.

opeyemi5050's photo
Sun 09/15/13 04:10 AM
I wish I was a teddy bear, layin on your bed, so
everytime you cuddled it, you cuddled me
instead. you can hook me up or whatsapp me
on 08154559106

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Sun 09/15/13 05:28 AM

Can bad sex make or break a relationship? Or is there room for improvement?


Yes to both....Bad sex that cannot be improved upon will most certainly end a new beginning unless one or both have other than romantic reasons for being together (like a relationship of convenience for instance)...If both partners trust each other, are willing to listen to each other, and experiment by trying new things, bad sex can be turned into exquisite, satisfying (tasty), very hawt good sex....bigsmile

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Sun 09/15/13 06:42 AM


Can bad sex make or break a relationship? Or is there room for improvement?


Yes to both....Bad sex that cannot be improved upon will most certainly end a new beginning unless one or both have other than romantic reasons for being together (like a relationship of convenience for instance)...If both partners trust each other, are willing to listen to each other, and experiment by trying new things, bad sex can be turned into exquisite, satisfying (tasty), very hawt good sex....bigsmile


Couldn't agree with u more listening n finding the perfect area to satisfy ur partner is a must good communication is needed to have incredible sex n ohhh having a stamina of a race horse helps too bigsmile lol

oldsage's photo
Sun 09/15/13 06:49 AM
NEVER had any BAD sex.

Some just better than others.

SAGE advice.

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Sun 09/15/13 09:36 AM
Sexual incompatibility will undermine an otherwise solid relationship. I have heard many men complain that their wives weren't giving it up enough, which usually drives men to find it elsewhere. When their wives find out, they blame their husbands for infidelity, and they certainly are blameworthy, but so are their wives.

I was in an intense relationship with woman for about three years. She was the most sexual woman I have ever known. She has abnormally high testosterone. She has always been horny. She has always loved sex, and she knows great sex from all over variations. She is the most sexually experienced woman I have ever known. She has been with at least thirty men, and I have not judged her for it because what she did before I fell in love with her was none of my business.

She married a man who was much older yet far less experienced. She tried to teach him how to have good sex. He used to ridicule her when she asked him to do something completely normal like cumming on her ****. She even loves facials. She has a *** fetish that she acquired in college when her boyfriends used the withdrawal method.

I always accommodated her sexual fantasies & desires. Her husband used to demean her for them. He though great sex was rolling on top of her and doing her missionary. She wanted rough sex while bent over their bed or at least doggie style. Finally after years of being degraded and rejected and her husband refusing to learn, she grew to loathe having sex with him. When she couldn't avoid him, she'd submit with the hope of it ending quickly. But by then it took him a long time to orgasm, so she'd have to use lubricant. Her last few years with him were sexual misery.

There is no excuse for refusing to learn how to have great sex. Were I to meet a woman who wants to teach me what she expects during sex, I have an obligation to learn sans judgment. I know that sexual incompatibility will destroy an otherwise wonderful relationship.

My advice is open communication sans judgment. Men ought to encourage women to tell them what they like and don't like during sex. Accentuate and perfect what they like and avoid what they don't. That way you'll be much happier.

NotScience's photo
Sun 09/15/13 09:40 AM

NEVER had any BAD sex.

Some just better than others.

SAGE advice.


Real.

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 09/15/13 10:11 AM

Can bad sex make or break a relationship? Or is there room for improvement?


I believe that when two people love one another, their love will manifest physically. If one or both is lacking in experience in how to best convey their feelings in a physical sense...they will learn from one another if they are patient and communicate with each other. flowerforyou

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Sun 09/15/13 11:11 AM


Can bad sex make or break a relationship? Or is there room for improvement?


I believe that when two people love one another, their love will manifest physically. If one or both is lacking in experience in how to best convey their feelings in a physical sense...they will learn from one another if they are patient and communicate with each other. flowerforyou


This ^

N2000's photo
Sun 09/15/13 01:00 PM

Sexual incompatibility will undermine an otherwise solid relationship. I have heard many men complain that their wives weren't giving it up enough, which usually drives men to find it elsewhere. When their wives find out, they blame their husbands for infidelity, and they certainly are blameworthy, but so are their wives.

I was in an intense relationship with woman for about three years. She was the most sexual woman I have ever known. She has abnormally high testosterone. She has always been horny. She has always loved sex, and she knows great sex from all over variations. She is the most sexually experienced woman I have ever known. She has been with at least thirty men, and I have not judged her for it because what she did before I fell in love with her was none of my business.

She married a man who was much older yet far less experienced. She tried to teach him how to have good sex. He used to ridicule her when she asked him to do something completely normal like cumming on her ****. She even loves facials. She has a *** fetish that she acquired in college when her boyfriends used the withdrawal method.

I always accommodated her sexual fantasies & desires. Her husband used to demean her for them. He though great sex was rolling on top of her and doing her missionary. She wanted rough sex while bent over their bed or at least doggie style. Finally after years of being degraded and rejected and her husband refusing to learn, she grew to loathe having sex with him. When she couldn't avoid him, she'd submit with the hope of it ending quickly. But by then it took him a long time to orgasm, so she'd have to use lubricant. Her last few years with him were sexual misery.

There is no excuse for refusing to learn how to have great sex. Were I to meet a woman who wants to teach me what she expects during sex, I have an obligation to learn sans judgment. I know that sexual incompatibility will destroy an otherwise wonderful relationship.

My advice is open communication sans judgment. Men ought to encourage women to tell them what they like and don't like during sex. Accentuate and perfect what they like and avoid what they don't. That way you'll be much happier.



Well said, Thank you. I had a relationship with a married man. I am married to my husband (separated).But I did not had any affair 13 year I met this guy. Same problem sexless marriage.But we had great relationship.What I did I search on the net how to have a good relationship and sex. I followed those advice. There are lot of info to have good sex and have a healthy relationship. We ended our great relationship, because he is married. Women have to learn how to feed their husband. Do not blame them if they eat out side later.

highleaf75's photo
Sun 09/15/13 01:47 PM

NEVER had any BAD sex.

Some just better than others.

SAGE advice.

highleaf75's photo
Sun 09/15/13 01:48 PM

NEVER had any BAD sex.

Some just better than others.

SAGE advice. try coming to nova Scotia that will change

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Sun 09/15/13 04:43 PM
N2000,

I am not sure why so many men have difficulty taking care of their wives/girlfriends. In my former girlfriend's relationship with her ex-husband, he had a lot of hangups, which would have been OK if he had been willing to recognize them and purge them. Everything that woman wanted out of sex was 100% normal.

When I hear women say that they say that they don't like sex, I think what they're really saying is they don't like bad sex, and here I'm conveying the thought that men they're with have no clue of what they ought to be doing. Women require a lot for foreplay & attention. Rolling over on top of a woman and doing her is sex for him and an ordeal for her.

If a man refuses to learn or demeans his wife/girlfriend because she knows great sex and is willing to teach her husband/boyfriend & he refuses to listen to her, that's selfish & deplorable.

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Sun 09/15/13 05:49 PM
I agree with SansSouci.

I believe there are many women out there who say they don't like sex, or hubby expects too much, too often, etc. because they either have never had good sex or very rarely. I know women who have never had an orgasm! I am serious! To them, sex is one of the marital duties she must comply to on occasion! Hence sex for pleasure is something a man pays for (prostitute) and is classified as dirty! These women do not know any different! Masturbation is out of the question.

There are still many people both male and female who do not discuss the act of lovemaking other than some words during: "Oh Baby! Oh Baby! Oh Yeah! ......" It's a shame really and both miss out, yes, the man as well, on what can be a most satisfying and exhilirating bonding experience. There has to be a huge level of trust and willingness to please and be pleased by both parties.

Without open communication and the willingness to step out of your comfort zone and trust your loving partner - bad sex will ruin the relationship even if they stay together for the sake of the kids, their faith, or whatever reason.

N2000's photo
Sun 09/15/13 06:12 PM
SansSouci

I understand what are you saying. I read a article most men refusing sex. I thought women. If men refuses to learn it is not right. I have no much experience about this topic. In my situation my guy was a wonderful with everything. I learned a lot of thing from him. foreplay how to care each other,please ect. I do not understand why his wife cannot enjoy with this wonderful person. He is married to 29 years. This was since he married. They had little good sex but it went less and less. He tried to help her with counselling, therapist ect. But she did not want to, saying it is private.So,What happened he find sex out side (its me) we fell in love. I cannot see anything wrong with him.wife does not want to talk about this matter, she is busy with her dog volunteering. recently He went to a counselor(woman) she told him, he is expecting too much from his wife. They are having sex once in 2 month. I do not understand what this counselor saying. I would like to have every day, as much as I can. What ever, he is not in my life now. He decided to stay with his wife and suffer. But I still love him. This should understand both men and women. How to keep happy their partner.Today I am suffering without him,Because of his wife.