Topic: Have a question.
raeme's photo
Sun 08/25/13 07:41 AM
I am new to the modern dating scene,I was married a long time. Are the woman expected to make the first contact? Silly question, possibly, but I really don't know. I am kinda shy about doing that.

I am also aware there are some real strange people out there wrapped up ,in what at first appears on the surface to be, normalcy.

So, if you got an advice I'm listing.

BrianLovesGuitar's photo
Sun 08/25/13 07:44 AM

I am new to the modern dating scene,I was married a long time. Are the woman expected to make the first contact? Silly question, possibly, but I really don't know. I am kinda shy about doing that.

I am also aware there are some real strange people out there wrapped up ,in what at first appears on the surface to be, normalcy.

So, if you got an advice I'm listing.


Hi,

I dont think the etiquette is any different to the real world. If your having 'nudges' but no messages, dont be scared to stick the foot in.

There is a saying in football/soccer - 'dont wait for the ball to come to you'

....struggling to see any relevance there laugh laugh offtopic

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Sun 08/25/13 08:00 AM
be careful, be VERY careful scared

777Babygirl777's photo
Sun 08/25/13 08:22 AM
:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
Not necessarily in my opinion. Im new to the dating game as well. I can be shy and i can be bold..figure out what you want and then go for it!

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Sun 08/25/13 08:50 AM
old school rules still apply for today's modern dating. the he man woman haters club has two basic dating rules
rule number one: don't date a woman with boobs smaller than your own

rule number two: don't date a woman you can't bench press

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Sun 08/25/13 10:02 AM

I am new to the modern dating scene,I was married a long time. Are the woman expected to make the first contact? Silly question, possibly, but I really don't know. I am kinda shy about doing that.

I am also aware there are some real strange people out there wrapped up ,in what at first appears on the surface to be, normalcy.

So, if you got an advice I'm listing.


I think it's fine to stick to what you are comfortable with, but if you like the idea of expanding your comfort zone, you can always try contacting some of the guys first. we are adults, it is really not a matter of "rules"

but I also do not think you are obligated to respond to anyone who tries to pressure you to leave your comfort zone if you so not wish to

irisheyes79's photo
Sun 08/25/13 10:48 AM

old school rules still apply for today's modern dating. the he man woman haters club has two basic dating rules
rule number one: don't date a woman with boobs smaller than your own

rule number two: don't date a woman you can't bench press

very true id also like to mention also no arms bigger than ur thighs

TawtStrat's photo
Sun 08/25/13 11:20 AM
Personally I like it when the woman makes first contact, unless it says that she's from another country and just says "Hi", or "How are you?", or tells me straight away that she's looking for a lover and a best friend, or something of the sort; i.e, scammers.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 08/25/13 11:30 AM

I am new to the modern dating scene,I was married a long time. Are the woman expected to make the first contact? Silly question, possibly, but I really don't know. I am kinda shy about doing that.

I am also aware there are some real strange people out there wrapped up ,in what at first appears on the surface to be, normalcy.

So, if you got an advice I'm listing.



You can make the first move or you can wait on them.

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Mon 08/26/13 12:39 PM
i m ready with u