Topic: can silence b a solution
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Thu 09/19/13 01:32 PM
can silence b a solution 2 tame a cheater. i think men love 2 b followed around lyk kids...why r u late? where have u been? if a woman decides 2 ignore n assume everything iz fine, he tends 2 think da lady has gotten a lover...then he wants 2 b with u 24/7.

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Thu 09/19/13 01:35 PM
The only thing that will stop a guy from cheating is himself, if he wants to cheat, he will, if he doesn't, he won't.

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Thu 09/19/13 01:37 PM
sounds like a borderline...

save yourself the headaches and heartaches from all the lies and games and move on...

i'm speaking from personal experience...

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Thu 09/19/13 01:37 PM
Why would you want to?slaphead ... And be careful about having unprotected sex with your cheaterpitchfork

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Thu 09/19/13 01:49 PM
whoa

can silence b a solution


asleep

SURE....And a shock collar might help too
If he were your DOG
Even marriage is not some declaration of "ownership"
He has to WANT to be with you
Maybe you need to work at it a little
REMIND him why he chose to be with you
In the first place
Sugar gets you more than salt...any day !
Since you seem to find some "Cheater" to be worth the trouble...
flowerforyou
GOOD LUCK !

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Thu 09/19/13 01:58 PM
Silence is not the solution, for being with a cheater. The cheater will continue to cheat.

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Thu 09/19/13 02:19 PM
katskary,,,,being up front and honesty is always best.........don't play games in a relationship it will come back and bite you.............careful ......std's..................smile2 PS,,,,games usually have 3 parts..... the 1-persecutur 2- victim 3-rescuer...... you can start in any order but you will always end up as victim...,example... dad scolds child [persecutor] mom says don't be so hard on little billy [rescuer] dad now shifts to victim etc.....Stephen Karpman coined the phrase ''the drama triangle'' a lot of people have whats called starting gate positions in the game.........what it does is support favorite feelings and validate unhealthy beliefs............don't be a victim:.......smile2:

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Thu 09/19/13 02:24 PM

can silence b a solution 2 tame a cheater. i think men love 2 b followed around lyk kids...why r u late? where have u been? if a woman decides 2 ignore n assume everything iz fine, he tends 2 think da lady has gotten a lover...then he wants 2 b with u 24/7.

Ain't reverse psychology wonderful bigsmile

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Thu 09/19/13 02:45 PM
toss the cheater. who wants a cheater?