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Topic: Single mums
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Wed 09/25/13 06:21 AM
Hi! Why do single mums keep dating? I mean, if they can`t even stay faithful to the father of her children, what makes them think they will stay faithful to someone else? I just don`t get it ... You can`t have it both ways, and it`s not right to use someone (to get kids) ether. So many ****ed up people out there.

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/25/13 06:33 AM
If they are single mums they most likely aren't with the father of their children, so I don't know what you're going on about.

dcastelmissy's photo
Wed 09/25/13 06:43 AM

Hi! Why do single mums keep dating? I mean, if they can`t even stay faithful to the father of her children, what makes them think they will stay faithful to someone else? I just don`t get it ... You can`t have it both ways, and it`s not right to use someone (to get kids) ether. So many ****ed up people out there.


Well when I was a single mom, it was my husband who cheated and wouldn't stop. I know I can stay faithful to one man, he couldn't do that but he still keeps getting married over and over again and having more kids. I never had any more kids, just the one's I had to raise by myself. I think you're being stereotypical about single moms. What you said does not apply to ALL single moms; however, it can also apply to some single dads.

sparkyae5's photo
Wed 09/25/13 07:14 AM
you sound just like a young ''dude'' you see a problem do you really believe getting upset will fixit?? how about you be part of the solution??????? how about helping young mom's without expecting anything in return.... be a hero in someones life........ this issue must have colored how you now see all woman??....don't weary about others, get own stuff handled and magic happens the issue goes away.... tears tears tears tears frustrated frustrated frustrated

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Wed 09/25/13 09:33 AM



Hi! Why do single mums keep dating? I mean, if they can`t even stay faithful to the father of her children, what makes them think they will stay faithful to someone else? I just don`t get it ... You can`t have it both ways, and it`s not right to use someone (to get kids) ether. So many ****ed up people out there.


Well when I was a single mom, it was my husband who cheated and wouldn't stop. I know I can stay faithful to one man, he couldn't do that but he still keeps getting married over and over again and having more kids. I never had any more kids, just the one's I had to raise by myself. I think you're being stereotypical about single moms. What you said does not apply to ALL single moms; however, it can also apply to some single dads.



Your sorry!

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 09/25/13 09:39 AM
on the contrary , usually men are the ones who cheat , and when a woman does, that means there's something missed in her life ... while men doesn't need a certain purpose to cheat upon their ladies , it's something related to the men's nature

soufiehere's photo
Wed 09/25/13 10:08 AM
Edited for targeting a specific group.

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TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/25/13 10:30 AM

on the contrary , usually men are the ones who cheat , and when a woman does, that means there's something missed in her life ... while men doesn't need a certain purpose to cheat upon their ladies , it's something related to the men's nature


Yeah, it's always our fault.

Do you know for a fact that usually it's men that cheat? Where are you getting your statistics from please? I just get so tired of reading crap like this.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 09/25/13 10:46 AM
it doesn't need statics , look around and it's all clear ..
women tend to be tied in one relationship while men (mostly) don't mind having more than one heart to love if they have the chance...

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/25/13 10:52 AM
Right, so it's purely your personal opinion.

Yeah, I look around and I see just as many women doing it as men but as a society we give the men a hard time about it, that's all.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 09/25/13 10:59 AM
well , let's make a statistic here .. as a random sample ... from all over the world , how many ladies who were mistreated , beaten down , cheated upon ... and how many men had the same experience ?
do u bet ?

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 09/25/13 11:03 AM
Edited by Ɔʎɹɐx on Wed 09/25/13 11:04 AM
starting with me , i was never cheated upon by any lady ... while i cheated upon many ... i couldn't resist being with more than one in the same time .. and i do regret it now when looking back to that days

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/25/13 11:05 AM
Go ahead and make up any statistics that you like. You are just being sexist and have nothing that counts as evidence to back up your prejudiced claims.

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 09/25/13 11:09 AM

starting with me , i was never cheated upon by any lady ... while i cheated upon many ... i couldn't resist being with more than one in the same time .. and i do regret it now when looking back to that days


Right, you are just talking about yourself and saying that now you have changed but want to tar other men with that brush.

Well, I've never cheated on any woman but they have been unfaithful to me.

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Fri 09/27/13 10:51 AM
ur comment is ignorant -ie. lots of single mamas out there that r single, not by choice. some of us have been through abusive relationships/the man has just left/cheated/some r even raped. see it alot through my job, it's tough being a single mum (playing2parents' roles) and think everyone deserves2have a happy, healthy relationship/even company(adult company, i mean). women who cheat-it's thier choice. and frankly, nt worth the time :) #singlemama

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 09/27/13 11:03 AM
Often times, it is the Father's who were unfaithful in the marriage and women do not choose to live with an Adulterer.

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Fri 09/27/13 11:15 AM

ur comment is ignorant -ie. lots of single mamas out there that r single, not by choice. some of us have been through abusive relationships/the man has just left/cheated/some r even raped. see it alot through my job, it's tough being a single mum (playing2parents' roles) and think everyone deserves2have a happy, healthy relationship/even company(adult company, i mean). women who cheat-it's thier choice. and frankly, nt worth the time :) #singlemama


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KinBarrie's photo
Fri 09/27/13 11:30 AM
What's this about single bums?spock

no photo
Fri 09/27/13 11:43 AM

Often times, it is the Father's who were unfaithful in the marriage and women do not choose to live with an Adulterer.


This too

TawtStrat's photo
Fri 09/27/13 11:56 AM
Most single mums that I know of were never married in the first place. A guy I know used to call it the "wacky races" when you see them all out with their kids in their pushchairs. It's young girls getting pregnant and sometimes the guys that knock them up want to step up to the mark and sometimes they don't. It takes two to tango though and if you have unprotected sex you tend to get babies.

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