Topic: Is it bad to believe and wait your soulmate?
rona48's photo
Wed 01/01/14 04:53 AM
Just last year,i started to believe in waiting my soulmate. Well i got envy when i saw a couple very sweet to each other even if the girl is not good in physically..so that's why i am asking you guys.

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 01/01/14 07:27 AM
You are right to believe in waiting for your soulmate. An expression I have heard many times about finding your soulmate that makes sense to me is, it is not finding the one you can live with, but finding the one you cannot live without. I see from your profile you are young. so you have lots of time to find the one for you and get it right first time.

Good luck in your search and welcome to Mingle2.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/01/14 12:37 PM
Waiting for the 'perfect' one spells loneliness.

It is someone you have made up in your head that
fits your current needs.

Someone you have concocted to appease yourself and
those around you.

Get on with life, you may be surprised who comes along :-)

no photo
Wed 01/01/14 02:55 PM
Nothing wrong with believing in them. But instead of waiting try searching for them and living your life to the best of your ability.

If you don't take an active role in your own choices, then you can't complain when you don't get what you want.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 01/02/14 01:36 PM
Well there's a guy on another site, that I've been talking to for five years now. I was on my aunt's PC earlier today, talking to him. I told him how I'd only just broke up with my ex lastnight. He told me he'd always kind of liked me in a "more than just friends" way, and asked if he ever had a chance with me. I told him he probably would have. He then asked me if I felt a similar way about him, and asked if he could take it slow with me. I agreed to it. The more you get to know someone, the stronger you both feel towards each other. I will see how we go. There's nothing wrong with waiting. Just don't wait too long, otherwise you may never end up finding someone. Never limit your choice's of potential date's. Good luck.

no photo
Thu 01/02/14 02:16 PM

Just last year,i started to believe in waiting my soulmate. Well i got envy when i saw a couple very sweet to each other even if the girl is not good in physically..so that's why i am asking you guys.


It's not a question of bad or good, it's about what feels right to you...Follow your heart and don't expect strangers or people who do not know you well to know what is best for you....

peachy78's photo
Thu 01/02/14 04:24 PM
My ex-husband didn't believe in soul mates until he met me...I did until I met him(okay I stopped believing when things went to sh**). LOL

lionsbrew's photo
Thu 01/02/14 04:33 PM
"Waiting at a closed door while an open one beckons is both foolish and futile"

I think one needs to be meeting prospects so they can get to know them to make that kind of decision.

rona48's photo
Sat 01/04/14 03:33 AM
a million thanks to you sir,i will treasure and apply your suggestions sir...

rona48's photo
Sat 01/04/14 03:56 AM
Thanks for your suggestions..hav a good day

rona48's photo
Sat 01/04/14 04:00 AM
wow!! another love story i've heard..thanks a lot to your suggestions and sharing your new lovelife..good luck to you too.

samirpatel124's photo
Sat 01/04/14 08:09 AM
U think good , i like your think