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Topic: Does a Man have to work harder to maintain a relationship in
thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:47 PM
Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship?

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:48 PM
Really? I thought women were supposed to spice things up. Why else is there all that stuff from Victoria's Secret in my undies drawer?

thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:50 PM
Really? I thought women were supposed to spice things up. Why else is there all that stuff from Victoria's Secret in my undies drawer? Point taken:)

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 02/15/14 07:55 PM
I think when we are with a woman we really can't surprise them because they know us better than we know ourselves, so I think all we can do is something really sweet and genuine to show them we care.

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:57 PM
Good advice, Jack. Besides, it's the little things that matter, not necessarily grand gestures. Heck, just washing the dishes is a nice thing to do for your woman.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 02/15/14 08:26 PM
Really? I thought women were supposed to spice things up. Why else is there all that stuff from Victoria's Secret in my undies drawer?

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 08:28 PM


kimdaisy Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 269	Sat 02/15/14 09:31 PM
No one person should have to work harder in a relationship. If it's work its not a relationship. Doing anything sweet and genuine would get extra points. And don't forget compliment and touch each other even if it's just a simple touch on the shoulder.

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 09:32 PM
No one person should have to work harder in a relationship. If it's work its not a relationship. Doing anything sweet and genuine would get extra points. And don't forget compliment and touch each other even if it's just a simple touch on the shoulder. Yes. Exactly this.

kimdaisy Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 269	Sat 02/15/14 09:38 PM
No one person should have to work harder in a relationship. If it's work its not a relationship. Doing anything sweet and genuine would get extra points. And don't forget compliment and touch each other even if it's just a simple touch on the shoulder.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 02/15/14 09:41 PM Edited by mightymoe on Sat 02/15/14 09:43 PM
No one person should have to work harder in a relationship. If it's work its not a relationship. Doing anything sweet and genuine would get extra points. And don't forget compliment and touch each other even if it's just a simple touch on the shoulder. agreed.. when one works harder at it than the other, usually feelings of resentment start showing up... oh yea, welcome to mingle, BTW

indignus Joined Sat 07/14/12 Posts: 327	Sat 02/15/14 11:19 PM
Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship? I would like to say no, but in my experiences and from what I've observed in other relationships I'd say men do most of the work. Women seem to think a man should do more to pay for the sex they are given lol.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sun 02/16/14 12:27 AM
Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship? I would like to say no, but in my experiences and from what I've observed in other relationships I'd say men do most of the work. Women seem to think a man should do more to pay for the sex they are given lol. Oh so when two people are in a relationship, the guy is actually paying for sex by doing chores etc. You say the sex they are given, so you thnk a woman gives a man sex in a relationship. I find your statement a little strange

MOKOGHOSTN Joined Wed 11/27/13 Posts: 20	Sun 02/16/14 12:46 AM
women are just selfish pigs lol

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sun 02/16/14 12:58 AM
I don't think it's exclusive to either gender. They just need to get along better or get out.

cha7385 Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 3782	Sun 02/16/14 01:09 AM
Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship? Nope. Both parties should be responsible. A relationship does not work one way it has to be both.. we can't just its success/progress to one party.

kimdaisy Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 269	Sun 02/16/14 03:01 AM
Back to the topic boys and girls!.. And if a women works just as hard as the man in the relationship or is doing jobs that the man should be doing.. I think he better pull up his man socks and kindly help out with because the women git behind

kimdaisy Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 269	Sun 02/16/14 03:09 AM
Continued.. Sorry for pushing send. I wasn't finished. Lol. got behind on because the man was to busy outside the home. And that shouldn't be payment for sex..... I call that far trade.......... That's how life works .......... Or isshould work.....

indignus Joined Sat 07/14/12 Posts: 327	Sun 02/16/14 03:11 AM
Back to the topic boys and girls!.. And if a women works just as hard as the man in the relationship or is doing jobs that the man should be doing.. I think he better pull up his man socks and kindly help out with because the women git behind Which jobs should a man be doing?

kimdaisy Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 269	Sun 02/16/14 03:23 AM
Fair....typo. Or should work.... Lol. To u Funky Franky... Some men need to loosen there panties in a relationship.... They might get little more...... If u know what I mean.... Lmao.... ;-)